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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

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Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

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Fizzl · 23/06/2020 21:31

@SunnySideUp2020 fingers crossed for you for tomorrow! It does look like there is something there but I also feel like I can convince myself there's a second line on those tests most of the time. I really hope it's not an evap and the start of a bfp for you! Really sorry to hear about your Nan too. I hope all is ok and you get some quality time with your family.

@Annny27 glad everything came back ok with your bloods. Hopefully that's one less worry for you now.

@TerribleImagination and @Milscookie good to hear from you both! I hope you're doing well! I do have a peak at the other thread occasionally to see how you're all getting on. I was sad to read sparkls news tho 😔 I hope she's doing ok. I really hope we can join you soon. As you can see things are not going too great for me at the minute 🙄 so unlikely I'll be getting my BFP anytime soon!

Hope everyone else is doing well.
It should have been my due date today so been a strange one today. I've tried not to get too hung about it. I went for acupuncture this morning which was good. She's told me to give it one more go with her and if no af to go back to gp 😒 in the meantime I've booked a private scan for Monday to hopefully see what's going on in there! Not sure it's going to show a great deal as I'm pretty certain it's hormonal but it will give me some peace of mind.

TerribleImagination · 23/06/2020 21:24

@Ejb86 Oooh I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow and sending all the positive vibes your way! Ovulating 8 days earlier sounds like a great sign too 🤞🏻

Ejb86 · 23/06/2020 20:57

@TerribleImagination Thank you. Yes I'm 9dpo and AF came at 10dpo last week. I ovulated 8 days earlier though, so I guess anything could happen this cycle. I am likely to test tomorrow, not expecting too much though.

TerribleImagination · 23/06/2020 19:07

Hey lovey! @Ejb86 I’m good thanks! Powering through the first trimester nausea 🤢 How are you?? I’ve been checking in on here, you’re in the 2WW aren’t you?? Crossing everything for you!! ❤️ Xx

Ejb86 · 23/06/2020 18:48

@Terribleimagination how are you buddy? X

TerribleImagination · 23/06/2020 18:39

@SunnySideUp2020 I can see it!! With this pregnancy I tested at 12DPO with an ASDA test and a FRER. The FRER was positive but the ASDA one was barely there. At first it looked totally blank, but after a while a shadow appeared. Could you get a FRER for the morning??

Crossing everything for you lovey! 🤞🏻❤️

Ejb86 · 23/06/2020 17:16

@Annny27 @Leok83 I haven't caved yet. 10dpo tomorrow.

I've had some pains that I guess could have been implantation, but trying not to get my hopes up. I may do a frer in the morning if AF isn't waiting there for me. I normally realise she's arrived when I'm my FMU. Definitely will wipe before I test though. Don't want to waste one like I did last month!

Leok83 · 23/06/2020 16:11

@MilsCookie how are you and the little twin beans doing?xx

Leok83 · 23/06/2020 16:10

@SunnySideUp2020 that’s a convincing line, so so cruel if it’s BFN after that. Definitely try one of the FRERs tomorrow morning and you should know for sure then. Sorry to hear your granny is unwell too.xx

@Annny27 that’s great news the bloods are clear! It takes a weight off not wondering if there’s anything interfering and preventing a pregnancy. Just time and patience now which I think were all getting a bit sick of hearing😄

@Ejb86 how’s the will power? Have you caved yet?

Annny27 · 23/06/2020 12:37

@sunnysideup2020 could be that its more diluted now....try again in the morning!

@MilsCookie of course not :) we all can't wait to join you haha!

@ELM7 fingers crossed for you!

@Ejb86 any signs?

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SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 12:24

@milscookie thanks lovely xx

I did another ic and it was completely blank so i think it was just one of those tests 🙄

MilsCookie · 23/06/2020 12:06

@sunnysideup2020 I see it!!!! My first test at 15dpo on an IC was really really faint! Fingers crossed for you

SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 11:45

@scrumdiddly123 i do have frer and clearblue digitals and boots... i mean you name it.
😅😅

Will do another cheapie later and then maybe will use up a frer tomo morning. But i really think it's an evap. See a few lately on MN

scrumdiddly123 · 23/06/2020 09:46

@SunnySideUp2020 I can see something there too! Do you have any different tests? I think the cheapies generally come up faint compared to other brands, they have for me in the past anyway x

ELM7 · 23/06/2020 09:38

@SunnySideUp2020 I had zero symptoms when I found out I was pregnant. Only took the test because AF was 3 days late (that’s when I was all chilled about TTC - oh to be back there again) so no symptoms isn’t always a bad thing.

@Annny27 5dpo here and think it’s going to be a long week even though I’m not expecting to get a BFP.

SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 09:33

@annny27 not sure now. My grandma has deteriorated yesterday so depending on today we may have to leave tomorrow morning. But original plan is Friday. 🙁

Annny27 · 23/06/2020 09:32

@sunnysideup2020 a cruel evap if it is :( keep us updated!! When do you travel to France?

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SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 09:26

@Annny27 i think it's an evap
I might repeat tomorrow morning but i am sure it's one of those cruel tests 😅

SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 09:24

But my boobs are totally deflated and i have no pg symptoms at all
So guess it's either my imagination or an evap

Annny27 · 23/06/2020 09:22

@sunnysideup2020 I can see a shadow there too!!!! It can totally be faint for 12dpo and still be all okay. Will you repeat tomorrow? Fingers crossed 🤞🤞🤞🤞

@ELM7 how's the tww?

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SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 09:19

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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
SunnySideUp2020 · 23/06/2020 09:18

@Annny27 good news!!! So it's just a matter of time hopefully before that bfp 🌈

Bfn again today 12 dpo. Although i convinced myself i saw a shadow on ny ic..
But at 12 dpo it shouldn't be a shadow.

ELM7 · 22/06/2020 21:27

Hi Ladies. Hope you are all doing ok.

@Annny27 that’s great news on thyroid and blood tests. Glad you are feeling better now AF has left. Hope fertile week will be a positive week for you.

Annny27 · 22/06/2020 16:07

P.s thyroid and all my other bloods tests came back normal so that's one less worry for me :)

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Annny27 · 22/06/2020 11:01

Morning everyone:) feeling a bit better now AF has gone and we move towards fertile week!

@fizzl my DH is also super laid back but even he is starting to get disheartened now! My pet is also my subsistute child haha 🤣

@Nuggetlover27 did you definitely ovulate when you thought you did? Fingers crossed its late because of that! Sorry about your bfn:( :(

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry about your bfn as well :( sucks sucks sucks!!! Sorry to hear about your grandma but i will be nice to have a little break from the inlaws!

@Mococo1 good luck with your scan! Hope it all goes well xx

@dipsy77 oh delayed ovulation is frustrating:( in January I didn't ovulate until cd24 and it was so frustrating!!!

@leok83 yep its just limbo period at the moment isn't it! Waiting for that positive pregnancy test 😪😪

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