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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

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Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

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Babyghirl · 12/08/2020 13:31

@abi0795

It's an awful feeling isn't it feeling like it's never going to happen, takes people to be through wat we been through to understand kills me everyday getting up like nothing is wrong, but one thing is fir sure girl we got this we can get pregnant and it will happen again for us r rainbow babies r on there way and it's going to be amazing xxx 💚💚💚💚💚

Abi0795 · 12/08/2020 12:44

I'm the same @Babyghirl I really do feel depressed for the first time in my life. I've always suffered anxiety, but I've never felt this low and I can't believe how draining this experience really is.

Babyghirl · 12/08/2020 12:42

@Abi0795

I'm in the same boat at you after my first loss took me ten months to fall pregnant again only to loss that one to 😪😪😪😪😪😪 I'm now on ten month after the second loss and I feel like it's never going to happen again. I know I'm a bit depressed but I try to keep my head above the water and get on with it nt ideal tbh.

Abi0795 · 12/08/2020 07:58

Morning ladies,

Hope your all surviving like the TWW 😫 forgot how hard it was.

I'm just really looking for some advice, are there any things you do to stay positive and get through this? I'm really worried I won't get pregnant again after my MC and tbh I think I'm a bit depressed too 😣 it's all I can think about and I'm very emotional about it.

Thanks so much 💖

Leok83 · 12/08/2020 07:41

@Annny27 no symptoms has definitely been a positive symptom in itself for some of us! That will be some will power waiting to test until sat/sun!! Best of luck for when you do!!🤞🤞🤞

Nuggetlover27 · 11/08/2020 20:30

@Fizzl I have no idea how people just sail through TWW. And the people who didn't know they was pregnant for months also amaze me haha

@Annny27 🤞🏻 for your test at the weekend! I'm CD11 at the moment. Trying to eat lots of fruit and veg to see if it helps 🤷🏻‍♀️ haha

SunnySideUp2020 · 11/08/2020 17:45

@Annny27 no fortunately they are saying it shouldn't reach us... such a sad thing to be happening on top of everything else though. :/

Reunion is very quiet and i am spending most of my days horizontal 😁
Tomorrow we are supposed to take a boat to observe whales and dolphins in the ocean... dreading the sea sickness 😪

Good luck for your testing. I have everything crossed for you!
You could even test earlier I'd say. Like Friday 🤔

Annny27 · 11/08/2020 17:36

Morning:D absolutely boiling in the south East - been trying to lay low and avoid the sun haha

9dpo nothing to report. Will test on saturday/Sunday because if its bfn then I should stop with the progesterone

@SunnySideUp2020 I am hoping that no symptoms is promissing haha. But either way likely just to mean nothing 🤣 how is reunion? Are you affected by the oil spill in Mauritius?

@fizzl yep 3dpo is physically impossible but some women swear thay they experience symptoms from like 1dpo? Haha

@Babyghirl some months I get ahead of myself and other months I am quite calm and collective haha

@nuggetlover27 what Cd are you now?

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Babyghirl · 11/08/2020 10:58

@Fizzl

I'm nw 5dpo and trying. Trying nt to symptom spot as its way to early 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but omg I'm failing big time well come to the tww we can fail miserably together with nt symptom spotting lol.

Fizzl · 11/08/2020 09:41

Morning everyone ☺️ hope you're all doing well!

I'm also joining the trying not to symptom spot but over analysing everything club! 😳 my app has put ovulation down as Saturday now as I've had 3 days with temp rises. I'm not sure if i ovulated late Friday or Saturday as my first + opk was thur and I didn't take my temp accurately on sat as I had to get up a lot earlier than normal so it might have skewed my readings slightly 🤷🏼‍♀️ either way I'm a few dpo and any 'symptoms' are clearly not pregnancy related 😂

Why do we do this to ourselves?! How do people just blissfully sail through the tww?!

Babyghirl · 10/08/2020 14:12

@nuggetlover27

I be all positive coming up to ovulation then when it's over I say wish my period would hurry to so I can move on 🤣🙈🤣🙈🤣🙈

Nuggetlover27 · 10/08/2020 13:55

@Babyghirl 😂 think we are all terrible for symptom spotting 😂

@ELM7 yay good to know I'm not alone 😊 let hope they start building soon. My ov is predicted for CD23 which would be about right compared to last month so I got a while to wait. Recon I'll start POAS from CD14 onwards just incase haha

@Annny27 🤞🏻 maybe you will get some symptoms this week. Hopefully it's a good sign ! 🦕 🦕 🦕 🦕

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/08/2020 13:42

@Annny27 i swear the bfp month was one of those months where i had absolutely nothing to feel pregnant...
You never know!!!

Abi0795 · 10/08/2020 12:02

Hi @Annny27 yes it has gone to a milky consistency ☺️ so maybe that's a good sign xxx

Babyghirl · 10/08/2020 11:29

@Annny27
Every month I tell myself I'm not doing it but I fail miserably at it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. The last time I was pregnant It was the first month I relaxed think I would learn lol 4dpo for me another ten or 11 to go still time for you to feel symptoms. Why is it coming up to ovulation you feel very positive then so many days after the positive vibe goes and you say wish my period would come to get on to nxt month or is that just me 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈💚💚

Annny27 · 10/08/2020 11:09

morning ladies! I am 8dpo and feel so unpregnant. I thjnk I am mentally preparing myself for AFs arrival on the weekend. Still time ofcourse to feel pregnant.....

@elm7 ahhi feel for you with your fertile week being in the boiling hot weather haha 😄

@Nuggetlover27 yes 🤞🤞 its a lucky month for us 🦕🦕🦕🦕🦕🦕🙈🙈🙈

@Abi0795 its really hard to know without the photos but it possibly could have been a quick peak after your 50% one that you just didn't catch. Has your cm changed to creamy? That signifies ovulation for me

@Babyghirl hahah you are all for the symptom spotting this month 😄

@fizzl hahah you have covered all bases!!

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ELM7 · 09/08/2020 20:24

@Nuggetlover27. I’m still with you as I’m not quite in the TWW. CD13 and normally OPKs are building by now and app has predictive ovulation for tomorrow but OPKs are very white! So who knows when the TWW will start here.

Babyghirl · 09/08/2020 20:05

@Nuggetlover27

3dpo and I'm already symptom spotting 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ten months after my second loss and so ready to be over these 2ww lol hope this is your month girl x

Nuggetlover27 · 09/08/2020 19:11

Sorry sent too soon 😂
That should have been looks like everyone is in TWW at the moment

I'm CD9 so will start the POAS and DTD every over day ritual soon.
Hoping this is a good month for us all 😘

Nuggetlover27 · 09/08/2020 19:10

Hey ladies.

Hope you're all doing well. Looks like everyone

Abi0795 · 09/08/2020 09:51

Morning ladies!

Hope you've all had a good weekend so far 😃 I'm just looking for some advice as I'm not even sure I've ovulated this month and I don't know if this is even a TWW as I'm not sure it's even happened..

The pictures on the app disappeared so sorry about that, but you can see %. I got my highest level at around 53% on cycle day 14 but then didn't test until 24 hours after and it had started to go down.

Do you think I missed my peak? Or is there a chance I didn't ovulate at all? x

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
Babyghirl · 09/08/2020 09:50

@Annny27

3dpo today its dragging in 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hate the heat trying to sleep is a nightmare. I'm a winter girl myself at least if ur cold ya can heat yourself up. You feeling any different this tww.

Fizzl · 09/08/2020 09:49

@Annny27 haha no I didn't let him off the hook yesterday! I figured we needed to try once more just for luck 😂 poor man. I've told him I'll leave him alone for a while now.

It's a lot cooler here today! I'm actually slightly disappointed as I have a free day and wanted to just chill in the garden but it's been raining 😒 and forecast to be pretty grey all day.

Annny27 · 09/08/2020 09:36

morning :) 7dpo here. Last night was horrifically hot! Bit cooler here this morninf but its in the 30s later on today 🙈

@fizzl yayyy tww. Bet your DH was pleased not to have to dtd in this heat haha. Yes but remember even a 10 day LP can still be fine for conceiving:D

@babyghirl fingers crossed! You never know symptoms can either be really strong or not there atall based on what rhe other girls have had

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Babyghirl · 08/08/2020 22:09

@Annny27

A load and I mean a load off creamy sticky cm never had this before after ovulation but that's me symptom spotting and its only 2dpi 🙈🤣🙈🤣🙈🤣

@fizzl

Happy days well come to the tww let's hope its r months and we r done with the tww till nxt time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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