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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

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Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

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SunnySideUp2020 · 11/07/2020 21:24

@scrumdiddly123 a few days behind but your opks are already nice and clear! You will prob ovulate before me.
But we are close cycle buddies with you and nugget!

Fingers crossed one of us gets a good news at the end of the month!!

@Annny27 wiĺl you test tomorrow?

scrumdiddly123 · 11/07/2020 20:58

Meant to add x

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scrumdiddly123 · 11/07/2020 20:56

@Nuggetlover27 @SunnySideUp2020 I’m a few days behind you, did a sneaky opk tonight as I couldn’t help myself! CD9 today, I’ve got EWCM but had a weeks worth last month and OV’d CD 16 so expecting the same!
Fingers crossed for you @Annny27 🤞🏻🤞🏻
How are you doing @ELM7?

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Annny27 · 11/07/2020 17:13

Fingers crossed for ovulation soon for both of you! @sunnysideup2020 @nuggetlover27

I am 8dpo today nothing symptom wide apart from usual tww symptoms! But fingers crossed :)

@leok83 have you tested again?

How's everyone else doing?

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SunnySideUp2020 · 11/07/2020 16:55

Ok so i am also CD15 not 16. So we will see maybe tomorrow my body will wake up

SunnySideUp2020 · 11/07/2020 16:54

@Nuggetlover27 same here. We are cycle buddies!!
Except i am CD16
Such a sloooow rise this month.
Normally i peak on cd16. Late ovulation for me
Definitely had my fertile watery mucus last night... it was flowing out by itself (massive tmi) 😅😅

But this opk isn't co-operative

Let's see.

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Nuggetlover27 · 11/07/2020 16:48

CD15 for me today and just started showing that second line on my OPKs. Will start doing 2 a day as it starts getting stronger.

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend 😊

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 20:59

@Leok83 aww that's sweet. I understand your DH. I am sure he wants to be excited but probably cautious as you say....
I am sure as the weeks go by and you guys have some reassurance scans you can both fully embrace that amazing news and get properly excited for what's coming!

My cm was more watery tonight but that could just be me imagining 🙄
I will do another opk tomorrow... we wiĺl see.

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Annny27 · 10/07/2020 18:09

Awwh that's lovely @Leok83 💗💗 will you get an early scan?

@SunnySideUp2020 I am very fed up with it all and just cba anymore haha!

@Nuggetlover27 @scrumdiddly123 yes I just wanna graduate as well haha! One day our time will come.....sooner rather than later 🙈

@scrumdiddly123 I have had a cycle were I wasn't going to track but i ended up doing a few opks haha

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Leok83 · 10/07/2020 14:59

*tests not tears!!

Leok83 · 10/07/2020 14:58

@Fizzl and @SunnySideUp2020 he was cautiously delighted. I just put the tears beside a couple of champagne flutes with NoSecco for when he came in! Hes a lot happier this morning seeing a darker line! I kind of wish he could act a bit more excited but I get he’s got some walls up as his way of coping with previous shattered hopes.

@SunnySideUp2020 that’s so frustrating, any sign of CM changing?
I’ve def has opks go from 0 to peak within 3 days on previous cycles so hopefully it won’t be too delayed but that’s so annoying when it doesn’t fall at the right time.

Nuggetlover27 · 10/07/2020 14:53

Don't think I was on the Jan chat but was deffo on the Feb one briefly. Had my MC in Nov though same time as you guys
I can't believe how long it's been either @scrumdiddly123 I want to graduate! Haha

scrumdiddly123 · 10/07/2020 14:44

@Annny27 I’ve been here since Feb, can’t believe how long it’s been! Hopefully we’ll all get to graduate soon 🤞🏻
I’m meant to be taking a break but finding it hard to not think about ttc. Had EWCM this morning so now desperate to start opks 🤦‍♀️ Only cd8 so looks like another month of loads of fertile cm before I actually ov!

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 13:04

@Annny27 @ELM7
It's just so freaking annoying. We were all ready and into it and now it looks like we have to wait.
And the sister is coming to visit on Monday. Initially we timed it so that we are alone to dtd and sunday i ovulate. Now looks like it will be another of those weird dtd session pressured etc...
Arghhhhh so fed up!!!!!!
I just said to dp f*ck it let's just do ivf 😅
I know i am being irrational... and Anny is probably right could one of those odd cycle.
Just that i always have a second line on opk regardless of where in the cycle.. so not seeing anything is a bit weird

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Annny27 · 10/07/2020 12:34

@ELM7 I cannot wait for when I have all my babies and I no longer have to pee on bloody opks or hpts!!

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Annny27 · 10/07/2020 12:33

Sometimes mine is "high" for ages before ovulsting and sometimes it is low and then dramatically goes to peak very quickly. Might be one of those times for you! @SunnySideUp2020 but no point freaking out as that will only delay it more. Latest I have ovulated was cd24 and earliest was cd10 so mine varies quite a lot and could just be a blip for this month for you! Hopefully sooner rather than later

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ELM7 · 10/07/2020 12:27

@SunnySideUp2020 CD10 here so a little behind you but did my first OPK for this cycle and just feel a bit fed up on the whole POAS rigmarole and hate seeing the lack of a second line.

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 12:08

@Annny27
A little depressing indeed!

So did my opk CD14 today and normally a strong to be expected or a nice darkening line but instead i have nothing. No line. 0 score on the app. Like two days ago...

Freaking out. Either i am not ovulating at all this month or it is seriously delayed 😔

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Annny27 · 10/07/2020 11:58

@SunnySideUp2020 bloody hell that is depressing isn't it 🤣🤣 let's hope we aren't the last standing for too much longer 🙈🙈🙈

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Fizzl · 10/07/2020 11:49

I think so @SunnySideUp2020 🦕🦖

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 11:37

@Annny27 @Fizzl @Ljm0101 @ELM7
Are we the only one left from Jan?

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 11:35

how* did you tell him
🙄

SunnySideUp2020 · 10/07/2020 11:35

@Fizzl had the same thing happened to me. But had the dream again around testing time later and it never happened 😒

@Leok83 these lines are nice and strong!
Massive congrats again 😘😘
How did your dh react? Hoe did you tell him?
So happy for you lovely xx

Fizzl · 10/07/2020 11:11

@Annny27 last time I was pregnant I had a dream before that I got a positive test. I didn't think much of it other than the dream was because I was clearly trying for a baby and it was on my mind! But then I did get a positive test straight after my dream! Weird or coincidental I'm not sure!

AF has been fine, maybe slightly heavier than normal but not noticeably and I'm not suffering so all good 😂.

@Leok83 that is a really good line already! How did your DH react?

Nuggetlover27 · 10/07/2020 11:02

Omg what great news to come on to! @Leok83 ! Congratulations. So glad to see another (hopefully!) BFP 🤞🏻

Glad AF arrived for you @Fizzl hoping things are back to normal now cycle wise for you.