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BFN 12po :(

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Superstar41 · 14/05/2020 15:58

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

BFN 12po :(
BFN 12po :(
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Louisac93 · 16/05/2020 15:37

@Lovebug06 me too 😔 I’ve been in the worst mood all day
When are you due on?
I’m due anywhere between yesterday (4 weeks since last af) and Tuesday (2 weeks since ovulation)
I don’t know what to think or feel xxxx

kirinm · 16/05/2020 15:34

10dpo and a very clear negative. Am incredibly crampy today but I think this often happens a few days before AF - although only lasts a day or so.

Lovebug06 · 16/05/2020 15:21

Hi hope I can join. 12dpo and BFN this morning with a First Response. Due AF in 2 days (Monday 18th) had so many symptoms, not imagining it at all as I've never felt so exhausted been struggling at work and falling asleep early, boobs hurting a LOT and feeling sick but seems it isn't to be. Shouldn't have got my hopes up!

notyetamumbuttrying · 16/05/2020 14:01

@Bumblebei I'm still aching really low down and have nausea now but it's defo period coming. Ah so you're not out just yet then, you still have a few days to go! Best of luck 🍀

Bumblebei · 16/05/2020 13:53

I have worked out I'm due on 20th but it’s been all over the place last two months. I used the ER test too. It’s such a rollercoaster. I had cramps for several days, back ache, heavier boobs and now everything has disappeared Confused

notyetamumbuttrying · 16/05/2020 13:26

Why do we do it to ourselves eh @Bumblebei lol! Are you due tomorrow?

Bumblebei · 16/05/2020 13:14

I tested too and bfn so same as you guys just resigned myself for AF to appear. I completely convinced myself this month so don’t want to test again and keep seeing it as it’s driving me mad too 🙈

BMWL · 16/05/2020 12:56

I also tested with a cassette test and it was a bfn.
I calculated that from my ovulation date, my period should come on the 19th as opposed to the 13th as I had previously calculated.
I just ovulated late.
It's driving me mad though. I have all the symptoms I had with my previous pregnancy, but just bfn.
Just wish it would come now so I can get it over with x

notyetamumbuttrying · 16/05/2020 12:40

Tested again this morning at 14dpo with a FRER and still BFN so AF is on her way for tomorrow! Anyone else tested again or just waiting for the inevitable now?

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 19:48

@Superstar41 aww bless you! Mines in the bin lol! I'm gonna test again tomorrow and then if negative expect AF on Sunday. If she doesn't arrive then I'll prob test again in a couple days. I'm not feeling too hopeful now!
Best of luck for Monday! Smile

Superstar41 · 15/05/2020 19:19

@notyetamumbuttrying hello lovely x I have had them on and off all afternoon too! it's crap isn't it ?? Keep looking at my original tests I did yesterday trying to convince myself I could see a line lol ! I haven't tested since and won't now until after monday to see is AF arrives, just too heart wrenching! How about you ? X

BFN 12po :(
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notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 19:11

@Superstar41 so do I! Had them on n off all day. Don't know what to think tbh. Will you just wait to see if it comes before retesting?

Superstar41 · 15/05/2020 18:52

Evening guys ! how are you all feeling tonight ? I've got strong AF pains this evening :(

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Swest30 · 15/05/2020 17:42

Good luck everyone with the tests over the weekend, I will keep my fingers crossed for you!

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 17:00

@Bumblebei I feel like I'm pregnant every month too lol! I've stopped telling hubby this now as it just gets his hopes up! I'm gonna test again in the morning too as think I was too early the other day. Good luck n keep us posted! Smile

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 16:28

@notyetamumbuttrying from reading what you’ve said above you sound like you are having all the right signs this month. OH is getting a little fed up with me saying I have all the signs every month and it’s just PMS but I just convince myself I am. Thank you, I shall test in the morning and fingers crossed for you that AF is a no show! X

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 16:11

@Bumblebei no, course not! 8 months now and heading into 9 if my period arrives on Sunday! U can test with an early tomorrow morning and then all normal ones can be used once AF is due. Bless you, it's because you're actually trying now. Doesn't make sense does it.

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 16:02

@notyetamumbuttrying how long have you been TTC if don’t mind me asking? I tested yesterday with a cheap test and bfn. Just went and bought early response tests and not sure when to test again. Don’t want to test too early but the waiting is driving me insane 🙈 sounds absolutely mad as I have two children but I feel so new to all this

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 14:08

@Bumblebei ok so you don't have age weighing heavily against you and you've had two kids before. You'll be fine! If you get ov pain then suppose you don't need to poas but you could try just to make sure or track cm and temp too just to be sure. It's probably because you're actually ttc now whereas before you weren't. It's a weird process right!

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 14:05

Oh no, of course I was setting myself up for failure. I still am convinced though. Unfortunately I can't go to Tesco's until later tonight so will just do another test in the morning. Even though I've said I won'tGrin thanks @Swest30, I'll download it! I've just put it into negative and still can see a little something, must just all be my in head Sad

BFN 12po :(
Swest30 · 15/05/2020 13:59

@slicedinhalf have you seen the pregnancy check app that you can get to change the lighting etc of the picture? Apparently this something helps get a better image for seeing the lines

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 13:39

@notyetamumbuttrying hey, I am 32 now and don’t track ovulation. I’ve not been on contraception for 2 years and get painful ovulation pains each month so I tend to go on that which is probably inaccurate 🙈

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 13:37

@slicedinhalf I can’t see anything but can only zoom on the post so I’d definitely be making your way to Tesco if you can see a faint line 😁 fingers crossed!

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 13:35

@Bumblebei hi! Do you mind me asking your age? And do you track ovulation?

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 13:33

@slicedinhalf I can't, sorry. If they're not early detection ones then they most likely wouldn't show up anyway. And also you should do it in the morning. Wait another day and do it again tomorrow morning with an early detection test. Good luck!

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