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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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Isittimeforbubblesyet · 19/05/2020 08:28

Sorry meant to post my chart too!

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Dipsy77 · 19/05/2020 08:28

@Quail15 congratulations x

Isittimeforbubblesyet · 19/05/2020 08:27

Hi ladies,

Hope you are all keeping well.

@Quail15 congratulations! Fingers crossed all will now go well for you x

@VP91x glad to hear you got your peak. The waiting and not knowing is so stressful isnt it! I use fermometer and it doesn't confirm ovulation for me until my temp has increased 3 days in a row. I use Fertility Friend too and again, it is after a 3 day temp rise that I get my cover line.

I am currently 8dpo. Did a cheapie this morning which was a BFN. I knew it would be but I am still very disheartened. Due date was on Sunday so that's been and gone and just feel blah. The only thing I have is that I went for a blood test yesterday to test my progesterone levels. Have to wait 7-10 days for the results.

Sending lots of luck and fingers crossed for those on the 2WW Flowers

Renna · 19/05/2020 08:09

@Hayleylou89 glad the femometer app is making more sense 👌 xx
@Quail15 aw amazing xx congratulations lovely ! Im sure this is the one for you x x stay positive relax and enjoy 😘😘 xxx sending lots of luck for a happy healthy pregnancy xx

Kangaroo77 · 19/05/2020 08:08

@Quail15 Fantastic news. Congratulations 🥳 💓

2020wish · 19/05/2020 08:03

@Quail15 congrats!!!

Quail15 · 19/05/2020 08:00

Good morning everyone. Thank you all for your kind words of support yesterday. I managed to find a pink dye test this morning and it is a lot stronger. I'm going to try and relax and take each day as it comes, I really expect to MC again but 🤞 it sticks.

@Hayleylou89 your temps look great. 🤞

@JoandLily I never seem to get positive results until after AF is due 🤞

@Renna. I have tried a few things over the last couple of months - I have no idea if they have helped but I'm happy to share. I started on COQ10 and DHEA in February. I have poor egg quality so I was hoping they would help. I used pre-seed for the first time last month (although only a small amount as is a bit messy 😆) I also used the clearblue ovulation tests but I just got a week of flashing faces ... I was worried I had missed my peak so we just dtd every other day that week.

I have everything crossed that you all get your bfp this month 🤞♥️ I will keep checking this thread as I really want to find out when you get your positive tests. You are all amazing X x

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2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:56

Yes implantation can occur between 6-12dpo. I’ve never had spotting but many do and my friend even thought it was her period as it was bright red and found out she was pregnant a month later when her next period didn’t arrive

mumoftwobeauts · 19/05/2020 07:50

What would be classed as spotting? I just have a feeling this is probably AF. Would be be as early as 7dpo? I definitely ovulated x

2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:46

@Hayleylou89 the day I got that spike it was solid temp, good nights slept and took temp with out interruptions before I opened my eyes. The two temps after that I took when I woke but woke with interruptions and wasn’t as rested: so I’m really unsure. This is my first month temping so I’ve nothing to compare lol I googled implantation dips/spikes and the graphs look similar to mine so I am really really really really hoping lol

@VP91x with my last pregnancy I had loads of stitch type pains right up until 6/7 weeks. Fingers crossed it’s both our months!!

@JoandLily maybe try a clear blue early response? Their ultra early tests are sensitive to 10ul of hcg. Frer 6.3 but they never worked with me so I’m not a fan lol I didn’t get my positive last time until day of af so fingers crossed x

JoandLily · 19/05/2020 07:23

Morning @2020wish I'm 12 Dpo did a cheapie this morning and BFN 😥 AF due tomorrow. Really thought this month was going to be my month. Has anyone ever got a false negative on a cheapie at 12 Dpo? Thanks ladies

VP91x · 19/05/2020 07:19

@Hayleylou89 I thought I was having OV pains yesterday. Felt like I had a stitch in my lower right side if that makes sense. Was quite painful! Let's see what happens with temps 🙏 also nice to see both your charts @2020wish sometimes I see charts and they shoot up to the 37's. My temps are always quite low so good to compare!

Ah, I have a good feeling about your results this month. I really hope you get your positive it will be so so Amazing for you ❤️ xx

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Hayleylou89 · 19/05/2020 07:17

@2020wish see that spike is soo odd and could be implantation... did u carry out ur bbt that morning as normal with no interruption? Iv been temping between 6-8am but the app says thats ok anything eitherside i should mark as inconclusive. But if thats a solid spike it could be a positive sign for 🙏 what happened in ur last pregnancy temp wise? Xx

Hayleylou89 · 19/05/2020 07:14

@VP91x Yea mine was the same it got so strong in evening then it went low again the next morning and im convinced i ovulated that day as the pains were quite bad x so look out for ovulation pains today and thatll hopefully be a little sign for u 🙏 ahh excited for u...my 1st week in tww has gone so quick actually its so much better to be a little more chilled out and i just hope i get my bfp this weekend before my mums bday next tuesday and our first wedding anniversary on 2nd June and also the babys due date 7th june, it would literally be a dream come true this cycle for me with so much significance 🌈💖

VP91x · 19/05/2020 07:07

@Hayleylou89 ah fab thank you!! All my apps (three of them 😂) have aligned and all saying that I will ovulate today now. My LH was still at peak yesterday at like 5pm and now negative so looks like it is all syncing up. Yeah if all this DTD spent get it done nothing will. I will be glad to just relax (obsess over the tww).

@2020wish ahh, that is strange! Maybe do a clearblue early at 12dpo? But, disregard todays for sure Xx

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2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:07

@Hayleylou89 I had a spike 6dpo by 0.3 degrees which is what the say it should be for either a spike or dip in temp but then the next day in dipped and has stayed steady since. So dunno what to make of it. Here is my chart. Any thought?

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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2
Hayleylou89 · 19/05/2020 07:04

@2020wish dont they say ur temp dips with implantation? And u mention u had a dip around 6dpo? Xx

2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:04

@mumoftwobeauts sounds promising x

mumoftwobeauts · 19/05/2020 07:01

@2020wish 7/8dpo today xx

2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:00

@VP91x yes it should mean you ovulated already if you tests are neg. yes my temp shot up the day after, here is my chart, it appears I ovulated on the 11th.

I can even trust frer. They never where good at picking up pregnancy for me even when digitals where. So strange

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Hayleylou89 · 19/05/2020 06:59

@VP91x hey lovely glad uv done all u can! Bet u feel really positive about the tww! My temps always go up right after ovulation as that what confirms it so if your temp hasnt risen its likly u wont have ovulated yet the opk will likely fade as that only appears in order to signal the brain to ovulate (someone told me) then its jobs done and u will ovulate in the next 12-36 hours so im guessin ur temp spike can happen anytime between then 🙏 whens ur app saying ull ovulate.

@Renna i started tracking with femometer its so much better :) i just put this cycles data in see below! Will keep using nc until it gets used to me though x

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2020wish · 19/05/2020 06:57

@Rainbowhope11 totally understand that. All I have been doing is eating crap in this tww

@Hayleylou89 the temp spike sounds promising. I dunno what my temp is doing, I got a triphasic style temp spike on Sunday 6dpo and it’s dropped again but still around the biphasic temp spike after ovulation but then again I dunno if it’s me waking at all different times naturally causing the fluctuations. I’ve had twinges in either side of pelvis and really bloated— but again could be caused by bad diet lol 😂

@mumoftwobeauts oh could he implantation? How far along r u?

Im afraid to do anything as in jan when I had the CP I was really active , two jobs(one full time and one part time both 13 hr shift days) and moving house plus redecorating and self painting said new house. Then second pregnancy the day before I mc I was so stressed sorting out a safe working environment and pay between work and occ health and had an argument with DH then went on a cleaning frenzy to clear my head and boom woke up the next morning to bleeding :( so I’m heart scared to move this time around as I don’t know if being so active and stressed contributed to both those loses

VP91x · 19/05/2020 06:52

Morning Ladies😊

Hope you are all okay?

My OPKs are back down to negative, does this mean that I have ovulated? Also, for those of you that temp does your temp go up straight away the day after? Today is the last day of my three day stint but it'll be four days in a row 😴😂 Xx

@2020wish ahh please dont be disheartened!! if you didnt get a Bfp until 14dpo last time, please don't torture yourself with the ICs until then 🙏 if you're going to do another one do a FRER at 12dpo.

@Hayleylou89 that's positive about your temp having another rise!! Got everything crossed for you.

Xx

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Hayleylou89 · 19/05/2020 06:50

@2020wish that was meant to say 36.89 (still on the high side of my temps) 🙏

@mumoftwobeauts how many dpo are u now? u can implant upto 12 dpo i read! Last time i had Ib really early at 4/6 dpo but i think sex made it appear sooner than it would have on the tissue if that makes sense and only on wiping...i was reading it up on it back then and most ppl say say no way you could implant that early (4dpo) but i did and carried for 5 months ( i could of got my ov date wrong but not by much as i def only had sex 2 days that cycle a day apart) 🤷🏽‍♀️ I hope its IB and not AF for you 🙏

Rainbowhope11 · 19/05/2020 06:44

@Hayleylou89 I've been overdoing the workouts, was doing high intensity workouts at least 4 times a week and I figured that it may be hurting my chances of falling pregnant (long cycles, no period in December). In December I stopped doing spin class because I went on holiday and just started slacking because of the festive season and I January I fell pregnant. Now I'm scared to return to my workouts:(

But I may join you and allow myself a workout or two if I'm unsuccessful this month. But I'm reeeeeealllly hoping that I am though 😫