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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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Hayleylou89 · 25/05/2020 07:27

@Rainbowhope11 @VP91x @Ejb86 @SmileyT so excited for u girls to test... Tad early though rainbow 😂 even i didnt test that early this cycle and im obsessed .. did my weeks indicator today and got this result 🙏🌈💖💙 pray it all goes 2-3 weeks since conception (4-5 weeks preg) it says I am, if my last AF was tues 23rd April would that make me 4.4wks?
Im Telling my mum and family today, I know its super early but last time i waited over 12 weeks to tell them so my mum made me swear i would tell her soon as i knew this time so its her bday and i'm putting this test in a jewellery box to surprise her with x x

TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2
TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2
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VP91x · 25/05/2020 07:23

@Rainbowhope11 oh, I have had a tiny bit of EWCM too but mostly creamy. How are you feeling?

It is just wayy too tempting isn't it!? I have no self control. X

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Rainbowhope11 · 25/05/2020 07:17

@VP91x I saw a bit of ewcm earlier so I thought I'd dip a cheapie opk stick in, and then I ended up dipping a cheapie pregnancy test in as well for good measure 😂🤣 I'm 6/7 dpo🤣 so right there with you testing when we shouldn't be testing😂 needless to say, I was met with a stark white negative

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VP91x · 25/05/2020 07:14

@Ejb86 ah, you're only a couple of days behind me. How are you feeling?

Literally need to lock away the tests 😂 I have a bunch of strip ones too that came in my femometer pack but those aren't very sensitive xx

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Ejb86 · 25/05/2020 07:09

@VP91x let's keep each other strong. I'll be testing Sunday if I've had no AF. My average cycle is 25 days lately, I'm currently on cd29 after only ovulating on cd24.

I have 2 frer and 2 clearblue digitals stashed away, plus loads of cheapies.

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VP91x · 25/05/2020 06:59

@SmileyT yeah Amazon do great deals, I got that 4 pack. They were also doing the clearblue triple check pack for £8.75 which is why I ordered it. So much cheaper than the shops.

I really hope so 🙏

Glad you are feeling good! Yeah definitely don't get disheartened. You've been getting your statics so no reason why it wouldn't happen this month 😊 I'm not sure I will use them next month if I don't get a BFP, but let's see xx

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SmileyT · 25/05/2020 06:53

@VP91x oh you are definitely prepared, I've been thinking about getting some FRERs, I thought they were really expensive but can get 4 for £13 so that's not bad really, they are all next day so will probably order if I see a line on the cheap tests👌🏾

Ahh it's been a lucky May for so many I really hope you are joining the ladies celebrating soon. I'm all good, 2nd day of blank ⭕️ but after 5 mornings of that last month I'm trying to stay patient, I'm only on CD10 and I probably would be worrying I'd ovulate too early if it was flashing already so I shouldn't complain.

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VP91x · 25/05/2020 06:33

😂 Yeah, I have x3 FRERs left now and a CB triple check pack on its way. Can never say I'm under prepared, ha. I know, I've lost the plot.

Feeling alright, been feeling tired and now getting that "womby" feeling but could just be pre menstrual (hopefully not). How are you doing? Xx

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SmileyT · 25/05/2020 06:29

Morning @VP91x definitely too early to test, are you using FRERs? I'll be impressed if you make it to Friday 😂 how are you feeling?

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VP91x · 25/05/2020 06:19

Morning ladies,

Guess who caved and tested this morning? 😩🙄

Honestly, once I'd opened and dipped I felt silly. Obviously BFN, I'm either 7/8 DPO. Now to hold off until Friday. Even if AF does come Saturday I would be either 12/13DPO which seems more likely for a positive result doesn't it xx

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Diorissimo1985 · 25/05/2020 05:38

I’m so sorry @DBTJ Flowers

mumoftwobeauts · 25/05/2020 05:33

@DBTJ that's so sad :( sending you lots of love x

@lma00015 congrats! We have a WhatsApp group if you want to join?? Inbox me your name and number :)

Rainbowhope11 · 24/05/2020 23:36

@DBTJ I'm so sorry that you are going through this again :( sending you lots of hugs ❤️

SmileyT · 24/05/2020 22:50

@DBTJ ahh I'm so sorry... I know there is nothing that can be said but if you want to vent about anything this is a safe place to do that ❤️

DBTJ · 24/05/2020 22:36

Thanks for all your quick responses I appreciate it. I have been suffering in silence the past day. My gp was fantastic she gave me a letter to take to epu who scanned me and took my bloods. Nothing showed on the scan I was praying it was because I was early. I got the dreaded call this afternoon that my hcg levels have gone down. I have started to pass clots so it all feels real now.
I was 5 weeks. I mc last month at 6 weeks. I have booked appointment for Wednesday with my gp. Telephone consultation

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VP91x · 24/05/2020 22:32

@DBTJ I am so so sorry, sending you lots of love.xx

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HE88 · 24/05/2020 22:30

@DBTJ I'm so sorry to hear this sending lots of love xx

SmileyT · 24/05/2020 22:27

@DBTJ I'm so sorry to hear this... was it confirmed by a scan? This must be heartbreaking to happen twice, were the doctors able to offer any help or a referral? Xx

2020wish · 24/05/2020 22:22

@DBTJ so sorry to hear :( how many have you had... I think I will be joining you this week

peonyrose87 · 24/05/2020 22:22

@DBTJ oh I'm so so sorry 💔 sending lots of hugs

DBTJ · 24/05/2020 22:10

Well after a bfp on the 12th I started bleeding yesterday and got a confirmed Mc today. Back to back mc for me.

DontStandSoClose · 24/05/2020 21:18

I think I'll give it until Friday, to see if my period stays away. With my second child it felt like I'd had a period without actually having a period, I actually called it my phantom period as I tested once my period was a couple of days late and it was negative, so I assumed it was one of those freaky periods. I only found out 2 weeks late that I was actually pregnant. I was breastfeeding though and ovulated very late.

Doughnut100 · 24/05/2020 20:48

@2020wish the digital you did on Friday could have been freakishly sensitive. Af isn't due so you could just be under 25miu so these ones aren't working yet but the 10miu ones are. Fingers crossed x

lma00015 · 24/05/2020 20:33

@SmileyT aww perfect thank you for your help! Xx

SmileyT · 24/05/2020 20:29

@lma00015 Yeah the MC would be the start of this cycle for you so you use that date as the Last menstrual period date (in theory your MC is the last time you shed the lining of uterus so same as a period) and then you can work out due date, that's what the Drs will ask for, when they scan they'll update it based on size👌🏾