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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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mumoftwobeauts · 20/05/2020 21:18

@2020wish yepppppp

Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 21:13

@2020wish yep me!! 🙏🌈

2020wish · 20/05/2020 21:11

Getting some stabby pains down below today. Any one else wishing the next few days away?

Lmac2018 · 20/05/2020 20:35

@Hayleylou89AF was due 3 days after the bleed started so it was a bit early. But it wasn't too heavy I just had alot of small clots and this morning a big one... which kinda scares me... having back pain and a few cramps I had to buy myself a hot water bottle x

Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 20:30

@Donnat89 I understand how ur feeling and im a sucker for early testing and no doubt ill be testing early myself so dnt want to be a hypocrite here. Honestly though ur not out until she arrives x

@Lmac2018 Thats good news its stopped did u say AF was due or was that just random bleed? X

Lmac2018 · 20/05/2020 20:25

Girlies!! My period has stopped ?!?! It's now just pink tinted egg white mucus... so that would make it around 2 day period? I know I bled and I know I passed clots but could this be a good sign. I was really thirsty and still am a little, I feel a little sick and last night the cramping as well as the back pain and leg pain... I'm not sure if I'm thinking too much into it ...

Donnat89 · 20/05/2020 20:21

@Hayleylou89 yes I can't believe it either , it was so clear ! AF hasn't started and no more blood since but my cramping seems to be worse as does my back ache so I do believe it's on the way .

I'm just gonna avoid early testing from now on as I can't deal with this stress I would rather be blissfuly unaware until AF arrives . As I was relaxed and now feel all on edge and crap x

Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 20:16

@VP91x I know, about time isnt it... im ok, having little stabby pains low by my hip but that could be anything but thats about it symtom
Wise and them spongy walls 😂... ill be 9dpo tomorrow and will see how my temps go with this ava ... AF is due sunday / monday 🙏 x x

Lmac2018 · 20/05/2020 20:14

Girlies!!! My period has stopped ! After nearly 2 full day it's stopped ?? !! It's the back pain and such a good sign?? I know the bleeding was heavy and had clots but maybe it's a good sign??... It's weird though as I usually have periods ranging from 4-7 days long, had a 4 day period last month but it did trail off a day or two after but 2 days is a little weird right??

Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 20:12

@Donnat89 i cnt beleive that positive wasnt a real positive!! Hope ur ok are u sure its not random spotting have u tested again since

VP91x · 20/05/2020 19:46

@Hayleylou89 haha glad it arrived!! I hope you dont even need to use it and you can sell it yourself! How are you feeling today xx

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mumoftwobeauts · 20/05/2020 19:45

@Hayleylou89 I have two frers and a cb digital. I'll probably use frer tomorrow morning and Friday morning x

VP91x · 20/05/2020 19:45

@Rainbowhope11 oh amazing I do enjoy using femometer the most!! Im glad it had given you more clarity around when you ovulated! Tww for you now too 🤞🤞

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VP91x · 20/05/2020 19:40

Hey @Re6ecc4 how are you getting on? What CD are you on now? Xx

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Donnat89 · 20/05/2020 19:33

Thanks ladies , yes I will wait and see what happens with AF but cramps are in full force so expect it to start by the end of the day if not tomorrow

Good luck to everyone waiting to test xx

VP91x · 20/05/2020 19:33

@Donnat89 I am so gutted for you, I can't believe that. That line was so clear!! Sending you a massive hug xxx

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Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 19:09

@SmileyT i hope ur right... it says u can start using it wherever you are in ur cycle so ill try it tonight see how i get on, itll be nice not having to wake up to temp but ill also use my normal one aswell for now just so it's consistent with what iv been putting in so far.

@mumoftwobeauts yea strange feeling isnt it god knows what it is but hopefully its a good sign 🙏 when r u going to test... have u got frers or cheapies? Xx

mumoftwobeauts · 20/05/2020 18:08

Thanks @SmileyT I will try tomorrow morning but thought it might be a bit too early.

It's probably not even implantation spotting. But if it was af would it start and stop or lead to af? Confuses me all of this lol

@Hayleylou89 I saw you mentioned like a burning feeling near your hip, I had this too yesterday xx

Bellabubble · 20/05/2020 17:56

I’m currently 10dpo and have some spotting today. I’d love to think it’s ib but we shall see as AF is due on Fri and although I have never normally started AF with spotting, my last cycle did - and who knows what my body’s norm is post mc! My bbt dropped yesterday too - below my cover line, so I feel like that isn’t the best sign! I purposely have not got any tests so I can’t be tempted to try early - although I did see cb had ones that they claim you can use early..has anyone used those before?

SmileyT · 20/05/2020 17:55

Ahh that is so sweet of you to say @Rainbowhope11 my OH would die laughing if I told him somebody thought I radiated calmness 😂 but I am trying. Ahh that's so sweet of your DP getting the thermometer, I thought I'd upgraded to a Bluetooth one but turns out I'd picked the cheap femometer thermometer without Bluetooth and no bloody backlight, so now I have two rubbish thermometers 🙈 I do love the femometer app though so pretty.

@Hayleylou89 it's a good sign because it means that you'll catch this month and not need it, actually can you use it in pregnancy aswell?

@Donnat89 sorry that it was BFNs 😩 maybe test again in a couple days if no AF?

@mumoftwobeauts id say wait 48hrs from the spotting for hcg to build up 🤞

Lmac2018 · 20/05/2020 17:40

It's very upsetting seeing everyone around you become pregnant and that's the only thing you want... It's so annoying, and it's weird tho I usually have 4-7 day bleeds first being a bit heavy with cramps and then it's spotting pretty much but this has been 2 days of clots

mumoftwobeauts · 20/05/2020 17:34

I'm so sad for you @Donnat89

A quick question from me. I had literally 3 spots of pink blood on Monday night and tuesday morning. Then a little bit of pink this morning then nothing since.
How long after implantation would you say is a good time to test? I'm 8/9dpo today x

Hayleylou89 · 20/05/2020 17:24

Girls my ava braclet just arrived haha!! Bit too late for this cycle 🤦🏽‍♀️ x

Donnat89 · 20/05/2020 17:24

2 further tests and both BFN so I'm out , getting some brown looking blood now when I wipe so AF will be here soon

I'm not using FRER anymore they just aren't very reliable !!

JoandLily · 20/05/2020 17:24

@Hayleylou89 good luck to you Hun, let's hope this month is a good one 🤞