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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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mumoftwobeauts · 21/05/2020 06:51

@Hayleylou89 I actually can see something faint. Do you have a frer?

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:47

@Renna ahh i have everything crossed for ur bfp this was my cheapy this morning, I always think i can see something .. they do my head in, I dont know why i used one but we all knew it would happen 🤦🏽‍♀️ xx

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 06:47

@Renna are you getting the twinges of excitement? Do whatever feels right for you, if you want to wait until tomorrow go for it, I think a test today would give you your answer but if you'd rather be a bit more certain it will be positive that also makes complete sense x

@VP91x haha just remember this time isn't wasted, you have to think like you have a little embryo that wants to implant so just focus on making the baby hotel as hospitable as possible when it tries to do that by staying relaxed and staying healthy 😊

@Hayleylou89 ahh sorry it was a BFN but like you said it's just too early, by Sunday you will get a nice clear line I reckon 🤞

I'm all good thanks ladies... CD6 over here, had a touch of spotting yesterday so no DTD, always feels like ages going nearly a week with no sex but last month we started CD5 and tbh i was knackered when the 4 in a row came around 😩started opks yesterday, will start SMEP tomorrow, CB connected on Sunday. Overall feeling very positive for this month xx

Renna · 21/05/2020 06:34

@VP91x thanks babe xx I'll see how I feel later , see if I get any AF symptoms as I would expect her to arrive today.

And that's nice for you if you have jumped ahead couple days for your dpo 👌👌 I would say looking at your graph that does seem right and its jumped now because its had a few temps to go by xx 🤞🌈 xxx

Renna · 21/05/2020 06:32

@Hayleylou89 haha god knows with me typical indecisiveness... I've already been for a wee so that's taken the decision away to test this morning .I didnt have the browny tinge CM yesterday like I did last month and no AF cramps yet but not getting my Hope's up as before I got pg I had 28 day cycles , whereas since being pg and MC I have had shorter cycles so she could just be playing a trick on me. I ovulated same day this cycle as I did last cycle though so that stayed the same .
Think I'll see how I feel later on if I start feeling crampy then I'll know shes on her way at some point xxxxx
Temp rise a good thing for you babe and yeah its early days with that cheapie you done , plus I agree I dont think they're great xxx

VP91x · 21/05/2020 06:30

@Renna ahh if you're about 14DPO you should be OK with a hold and then SMU if you wanted to test. Fingers crossed!! Xx

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VP91x · 21/05/2020 06:29

@Hayleylou89 yeah definitely. I also have like 20 that came with my OPKs but think the sensitivity on them is 20miu so I am staying well away haha. When I was PG I was the same absolutely starving! It was frightening 😂 kept wanting snacks constantly. Xx

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Renna · 21/05/2020 06:25

Thanks hun @SmileyT xx AF due today based on last months cycle/CB app or AF due tomorrow based on femometer app . Last month on yesterday's CD I had browny red tinge in CM and started AF the morning of today's CD... nothing yet 🤞🤞 so not sure whether to see what today brings and wait to test tomorrow. Today I am CD27. So dunno how much I should be getting my Hope's up based on the fact I'm not following the same pattern as last months AF ... or just that I'm gonna have a longer cycle.. no AF symptoms yet I normally just get cramping 🤷‍♀️ I ovulated CD13 both last cycle and this cycle .
I got up like 5.30am already been for FMU so dunno whether to just hold out until tomo if AF doesnt arrive ! Xx how are you today? Xxxx

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:24

@VP91x I know tbh they just come with my opks as a package thing so i thought i might aswell as the opks r spot on but yeah l, im absolutely starving this morning like i could eat a 3 course meal for brekkie and remember feeling like this last time 🙏 still got hope, so we will see i normally have a 12/13 day LP which takes me to monday but the app predicts sunday for AF so if no sign or symtoms of AF ill test sunday...iv had my poas fix from a cheapie haha x

VP91x · 21/05/2020 06:20

@Hayleylou89 honestly those cheapies are just not worth it I don't think. I was going to order some on Amazon but the reviews are all crap on the one step ones etc at 10 miu.

Stick to FR etc. Xx

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Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:18

@Renna is it today ur testing or tomorrow if AF doesnt come? Xx 🙏🌈

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:17

@VP91x @SmileyT

I Did it girl and its bfn for me 🤦🏽‍♀️... my temp has been crazy and i feel so warm generally when i usually feel the cold normally and the past two mornings iv woke up so hungry and where iv got actually hunger grumbles and that was a sign for me last time but maybe not 😏.. but it still could be early 🙏 I will just wait now and see if AF comes at the weekend and use an frer then cos my other cheapy isnt a 10miu one so no point using that before an frer xx

VP91x · 21/05/2020 06:14

@SmileyT eek! Never wanted to wish the time away so much! So crazy. How are you today?

Xx

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 06:12

@Renna fingers crossed for testing today 🤞

SmileyT · 21/05/2020 06:11

@VP91x yep that makes sense, go with your gut 👌🏾 I'd say if you do decide to temp over the next week the charts always become clearer in LP but if not just start testing next week around 10dpo and fingers crossed you get that BFP ❤️

VP91x · 21/05/2020 06:05

@SmileyT I am not sure about last month, I gave up on my CB digital and only temped for like four days before AF when I got my thermometer.

I'm terrible at waiting for anything so probably 9/10DPO?

If I did OV on CD19 which it now saying it makes more sense also with my cycle length from last month. With a 12 day LP it would bring me to 31 days which is what I had xx

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 06:02

@Hayleylou89 those temps do look really strong, can you hold out until tomorrow if you only have 2 cheapies to use? Let us know how you get on if you do decide to test, really hoping this is your month x

SmileyT · 21/05/2020 05:59

Morning @VP91x

Yeah this makes sense that it's moved the ovulation date the only thing I'd say is that if temps stay at around 36.5 it might end up moving your ov date again to the CD21. If you didn't have the high on CD17 and low on CD21 I'd definitely have said CD19 though 🤔

How many days did you have between ovulation and AF last month? How many dpo do you plan on testing? X

VP91x · 21/05/2020 05:58

@Hayleylou89 I think I might be 4DPO too! That was the day I recorded EWCM still and cramping etc! So it all seems to add up. Whereas two days ago CM was sticky etc.

Feel pleased that potentially 2 days off my wait have disappeared!

Ahh your temps are so fab!! I've got a really good feeling about you this month hun!! Xx

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Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 05:53

@VP91 yea id say so because mine said the same that i ovulated 2 days after peak but i think i ovulated the day after so discount a temp as my tests had already faded and i got really bad ovulation pains too plus my temp did rise it was just because the rise after that wasn't significant and only a slight rise.

9dpo for me today and had the worst sleep last night but another temp rise from 36.91 to 36.97 .. hoping its genuine and not just because of the uncomfy sleep ..debating doing a cheapy this morning 😏 xxx

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VP91x · 21/05/2020 05:18

Morning ladies 👋 hope you are all ok?

Right, so another temp shift this morning and added it into the apps and Femometer put my OV day as at CD19 making me 4DPO!

Do you think this could be right? It has excluded my funny dip in between. So I excluded that temp from FF and it done the same thing. I have attached the FF chart because it shows the coverline clearer.

On CD19 (where it now predicts OV) was the day I got my peak tests. On CD21 when it originally said, I got negative tests and my CM was back down to sticky etc. So do you reckon this could be right that I am 4DPO?

@SmileyT you might be able to look at this graph too haha x

TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2
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Donnat89 · 20/05/2020 21:50

@Hayleylou89 I'm terrible for it but waited this cycle and found it so much better , the blood is more red now when wiping so I think AF will be in full force by tomorrow. Xx

mumoftwobeauts · 20/05/2020 21:44

@2020wish me too. Wonder if you get more sleep the hcg rises quicker??? 😂😂

Wishingfornumber2 · 20/05/2020 21:43

Sorry to hear that @Donnat89, hope you are ok.
@2020wish I had stabby pains only briefly just to the side of my left hip the other day. Don’t know what it means! X

2020wish · 20/05/2020 21:30

Think I’ll be going to bed earlier tonight lol to try and past the time lol

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