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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 21/05/2020 10:06

Hi @Renna and thanks so much for responding.... I'm CD14 and my Flo app suggests I might be ovulating on Sunday. My cycles are a bit all over the place hence the need for ovulation testing!

Good luck @Diorissimo1985!

VP91x · 21/05/2020 10:00

@Diorissimo1985 that's so weird that it is logging it as a negative I would have said that it was positive if I got those lines especially as they are getting darker! As Renna said definitely get yourself a branded one if you can! Xx

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Renna · 21/05/2020 09:51

@Diorissimo1985 it looks really promising to me xx I know exactly what you mean I keep getting excited at the thought of a BFP but then I know its gonna be a tough pregnancy throughout and especially up until my first scan as that's when I found out I had a MMC so only have bad thoughts and experiences of scans... I know I'm gonna be terrified going to a scan in the future xx x fingers crossed for you it's a BFP , deffo try get another test... let us know how get on xx

VP91x · 21/05/2020 09:43

@Isittimeforbubblesyet definitely get yourself one if you're near a shop or order some for tomorrow for sure. Line is definitely there, not imagining it! Xx

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Diorissimo1985 · 21/05/2020 09:43

Thanks @Renna - I’m all over the place as haven’t actually had a period since before miscarriage last month. Not really sure when ovulation was despite app saying it was two weeks ago (I swear these apps make it worse!!)
Might try and get a frer today. Horrible nervous feeling as I’m so scared to go through another loss.

Renna · 21/05/2020 09:39

Hi @WellHurrahAndHuzzah and welcome xx sorry for your loss xx I'm not sure if that can have an affect on the results.. you wouldn't think it would as its supposed to pick up on hormones ...xx what CD are you? Xx

Isittimeforbubblesyet · 21/05/2020 09:39

@VP91x no I dont! First time ever I dont have one but might order some from Amazon now. I just didnt want to be too hopeful but have never used these before so who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ At least I'm not imagining the line!

Renna · 21/05/2020 09:37

@Diorissimo1985 I'd say they're looking more and more positive and the fact the line gets stronger deffo seems positive ... do you have another brand test ? If you're 14dpo deffo probs show up on a more sensitive test ? X x as dont think those cheapies are are strong x

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 21/05/2020 09:26

Hello, please can I join you?

Had a MMC in October last year. Started trying again in Jan and using cheapie ovulation sticks which never showed positive. I've forked out for expensive clear blue ovulation test this month.

What are your thoughts.... I had 5 days in a row of negative results. I then put a canesten pessary in last night as I've been struggling with thrush. This morning my clear blue has a flashing smiley. Do we think that's it's a positive, or has it been sent off kilter by the pessary?

I'm feeling really down and despondent about the whole thing. I'm 36 and worried that the one time I ovulated last year I got pregnant and then lost it Sad

Thanks for any advice, I'll try and keep coming back to this thread as I could use some support Smile

Diorissimo1985 · 21/05/2020 09:19

Morning ladies haven’t checked in in a wee while. I’m so confused, I’m getting super faint lines but when I log them on Femometer app it says negative? What do you think?

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VP91x · 21/05/2020 09:12

@Isittimeforbubblesyet the line is definitely there! Do you have a FRER or another brand test? Xx

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Isittimeforbubblesyet · 21/05/2020 08:58

Hi ladies,

I gave in and tested again today even though I swore I wouldn't until the weekend. I have never used these ones before but any ideas? Looking online, it's a negative but has anyone had a really faint line like this but was actually pregnant?

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mumoftwobeauts · 21/05/2020 08:56

@Hayleylou89 yes :)

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 08:49

@mumoftwobeauts omg i see the start of a line there 🙏🌈 was it within the 3 mins? Xxx

Donnat89 · 21/05/2020 08:47

Morning ladies hope you are all well , woke up to AF in full force so that's me put for another cycle . I feel ok about it .

I'm hoping to properly use my OPKS this month.

Good luck to everyone still waiting I hope we get some BFPS ! X

VP91x · 21/05/2020 08:47

@Re6ecc4 it's so warm at night isn't it? I haven't needed a cover and we have kept all the windows open except in our room to get some air in! How long are your cycles normally? You pinpointed OV didnt you?

I'm doing well potentially 4DPO if my graphs are now correct. So wishing the time away so I can POAS 😂😂 xx

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mumoftwobeauts · 21/05/2020 08:38

Evap?

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Re6ecc4 · 21/05/2020 08:26

I'm also a little nervous because of how much my body has been messing me around since my MC

Re6ecc4 · 21/05/2020 08:25

Hey @VP91x I'm doing pretty good! I've been weeing non-stop the past few days, really hungry a lot and I'm really bloated. I'm hoping I might get lucky this month!
It's only CD21 though, so my period isnt predicted for a while.
Also I'm not sure if it's just because it's been warm lately but I've been waking up boiling in the night
How are you doing??

mumoftwobeauts · 21/05/2020 07:22

@Hayleylou89 yeah defo hold off if you can :) were due af and ovulated the same time didn't we so I might try and take your inspiration and wait haha x

Renna · 21/05/2020 07:19

@SmileyT yes all true xx think I'm holding off to protect myself emotionally mainly if I'm honest ... because yeah I do keep getting twinges of excitement like it's a good sign theres no sign OF AF yet ... but I know deep down she can still show later today or tomorrow or even the next day !!! And if I test and its BFN my mood will plummet ... xx but like @Hayleylou89 just said I dont know if cycles can be longer if I ovulated the same day last month? .. I best dive into work today and keep busy xx @hayleylou89 I think I see what you mean on that cheapie .. 👌🌈🤞
@smileyT .. what do you do for a living ...? Please tell me it's something related to writing .. english teacher ?? Lol because the way you write is amazing haha .. baby hotel 👌 xxx 😂 xxx

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:59

How are u @Donnat89 has AF stayed away? Xxx

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:57

@mumoftwobeauts dont say that 🤦🏽‍♀️ haha .. yeah i do have 2 frers but going to wait a few more days as AF is only due on sunday 🙏🌈 x

Hayleylou89 · 21/05/2020 06:56

@SmileyT glad ur feeling positive about this cycle 🙏 i think there will be a few 🌈 in this thread this month hopefully! Thats basing it on me having a 32 days cycle that my app predicts so im like @renna... i could have a 35 or 38 day cycle which isnt unusual for me but it would unusual in regards of the length of the LP as that pretty much doesn't change does it? X

mumoftwobeauts · 21/05/2020 06:55

@Hayleylou89 sorry just read back and you don't have one. Where do you live? I'll bring you one haha. I had to wee at 3am so going to test later today x