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CD1 - here we go again! Buddies welcome.

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Newbie0818 · 13/05/2020 16:56

Hi, thought I’d start a fresh CD1 thread as af has turned up today. I’m starting to feel a bit lonely in the other group I’m in as there have been loads of BFPs and I’m quite behind now because of longer cycles!

I’m 27 in 12 days, dh is 28.
Came off the pill in August, cycles messed up ever since, getting longer.
Technically cycle 5 of ttc.
Never had a positive pg test ever, so I’m eagerly awaiting that day!

Hoping this group is a support system for anyone starting out a new cycle 💜

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Newbie0818 · 26/05/2020 08:37

@slimshadyscousin they just don’t 😂 I give him his well man vitamin and a Brazil nut everyday and he huffs. We’re getting a puppy on a few weeks time so that should keep us distracted though!

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slimshadyscousin · 25/05/2020 22:28

@Newbie0818 I’m not even sure how much my DH pays attention to my TTC ramblings anymore 😂 I tried to explain my poas stick obsession but he just didn’t get it. 🤦🏼‍♀️

slimshadyscousin · 25/05/2020 22:26

@eljoy lots of chocolate and a duvet day is required! I haven’t been TTC for long but the disappointment is usually made better by having something nice to look forward to if AF shows up. Whether it’s a large G&T, big bar of chocolate or even some new PJs to wear round the house. I bought myself a pair and saved them for when AF came 💕 silly I know

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Newbie0818 · 15/05/2020 14:09

Ah another May bus member, hi @eljoy 👋🏼 I totally get that crummy feeling you had, my hubby is also really relaxed, and when I started about trying to match my seed cycles with the moon he officially thought I’d gone insane 🤣 they don’t get it as it’s not their body. It’s good you got a positive opk! We’re on the same cycle (5). Keep your chin up, fresh cycle, fresh hope 💜

@eatspaghetti sorry about the tears :( spotting is a cruel hope isn’t it. And what timing for your friends! It’s so bittersweet. But we’ll get there! Someone on the May bus recommended Bettina Rae yoga videos on YouTube and I had a watch of one of them, and she says to use the mantra “my baby will come when it’s ready” which I found really lovely. It’ll be your time soon ✨💜

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eatspaghetti · 14/05/2020 22:00

Hi everyone! New here...

@eljoy same here, spotting started yesterday and I had my first cry since starting to try. Every month I do the same thing where I kid myself into thinking it's implantation bleeding as I spot lightly at the start of my period so trying not to do that this month. TTC number 1 and now onto cycle 8.

This period and my last one came on the exact days that two of my good friends gave birth! Which feels like a joke...you can only laugh.

eljoy · 14/05/2020 21:28

Hi everyone, I'm coming over from the May bus. So much good luck there but it has missed me this month. AF arrived last night and I got really upset with many tears but I am pulling myself together this morning (I'm in NZ). DH was supportive but he is so relaxed about it all I had to take myself off to bed.

I am 32, ttc #1 cycle 5 (upcoming). Came off the pill in January and cycles are about 25-27 days. I have been on iodine and folate supplements since December, tried SMEP last month and had my first positive OPK which got my hopes up. This is going to be a marathon and not a sprint!

@EmmaA91 I hope you get news either way. The not knowing part is the worst.

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Newbie0818 · 14/05/2020 12:09

Hi again @NemoBear7 we seem to cross on a lot of threads ☺️ I think I would hold off until the day af is due, just because I know that feeling of disappointment! You’ll get a stronger line then too if it does turn out to be a BFP :) any symptoms?

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NemoBear7 · 14/05/2020 10:38

Hi guys, I’m 32 currently have a 3 and 3/4 year old daughter and desperate for number 2 before she gets too big or too use to being an only child!

I’m currently in the 4th month of trying and I’m cycle day 30, but my cycles are 36 days at the moment. I know I could take a test but too worried about yet another BFN so have decided to hold off until a week Monday after AF should have arrived.

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Newbie0818 · 13/05/2020 19:27

Welcome both!
@EmmaA91 i feel your pain! I’ve only ever seen a negative pg test and it’s so awful isn’t it. So over it. But our time will come soon hopefully. How many cycles have you been trying for? Are your cycles usually regular 28 days? My last cycle was 56 days long and was just such a shit show as I thought I’d ovulated, then when I thought I might be pregnant turns out it was just delayed ovulation, and here I am again. I’m getting bloods done in a few weeks as cycles are getting longer.

@slimshadyscousin hi! I’m the same with my internet history 😂 last month we took the relaxed approach for a change, turned out to be a horrendous cycle (see above), so now I’m back to tracking obsessively. This month I’m charting my bbt for the first time, I’ve got opk sticks, got pre-seed, on Pregnacare for him and her, tracking my cervical position and cm, and DTD every other day once af is truly gone. Also eating lots of plant based food and lots of old wives tales just for good measure 🤣🤣 roll on crazy me! 🤘🏼🤘🏼

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slimshadyscousin · 13/05/2020 18:53

Hi both 👋🏻 I’m CD5 today, currently counting down the days until I ovulate so we can try again! I am 27, my DH is 34. This is cycle 2 for us so early days.

What are you both doing to help? I am on Seven Seas tablets and bought some pre seed lube to use this month as I’ve read normal lube isn’t good for swimmers 😂 dread to think what people would think if they saw my internet history lol.

EmmaA91 · 13/05/2020 18:05

Hi, my husband and I are 29, trying for first baby since coming off the Mirena coil. Tried the fertility sticks, got nowhere so gave up! Period late this month, still hasn't come so got our hopes up but tests still say negative. Rang Drs, said still could be pregnant and to test again in 2 weeks. Getting quite downhearted about it all, I dread to think what we'll be like if we still aren't successful this time next year! 🙁 We both assumed it'd be so easy, now I'm sick to the back teeth of pregnancy tests that are always negative! Need a safe space to release and vent! Just so fed up with it all. It's literally consuming my mind, I just wish AF would turn up so we can start trying again but no such luck so far 😭