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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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1/2dpo

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Jessiemay2020 · 11/05/2020 15:25

Hi,
New on here! I have 2 children from a previous relationship and currently on cycle number 3 of TTC.
Pretty sure I'm 1dpo today, cycles are usually around 31 days. AF due on the 24th! Anyone else around the same dpo and want to chat?

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Suki2020 · 15/05/2020 12:54

@jessiemay2020 I was peeing a lot yesterday but other than that no. How about my you?

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Jessiemay2020 · 15/05/2020 12:13

@kangaroo77 ahh yes! Aww yes I'm 5dpo too! When are you due AF?

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Kangaroo77 · 15/05/2020 10:56

@jessiemay2020 your story is really similar to mine. I'm ttc for third child with my new partner. I'm on cycle 2 after a termination for medical reasons in March. How many days are you past now? I'm 5 I think. Xxxx

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Jessiemay2020 · 15/05/2020 10:39

@2020wish ooh that's exciting and interesting! I'm trying sooo hard to not get my hopes up but it's soo hard too!

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2020wish · 15/05/2020 10:23

@Jessiemay2020 when I conceived last time I always remember getting a shooting pain down there that was very noticeable. When looking back after I got my BFP I worked out it could of been implantation. And on reading other stories on here woman have also felt that same pain and got their BFP. Fingers crossed?

I’m 4dpo feeling a bit crampy and twingy down there

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Jessiemay2020 · 15/05/2020 10:03

@suki2020 very true! Ooh exciting, are you showing any symptoms at all other than the twinges? I know I'm going to be driving myself mad over the next few days with it all. Not due on till the 24th but know if I've caught then implantation can start any time from tomorrow so I'll definitely be spotting anything I can to give me a sign 😩

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Suki2020 · 15/05/2020 09:42

@jessiemay at least it gets you out the house and keeps your mind active for a while. I’m 5DPO.

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Jessiemay2020 · 15/05/2020 09:24

@suki2020 aww good, not too bad thank you another busy day ahead, partners car broke down and we have to take courtesy car back today but it's near his work which is over an hours drive! Ooh that's exciting. I'm on day 5 today! What dpo are you?

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Suki2020 · 15/05/2020 08:59

Hey @Jessiemay2020 yeah good thanks, how are you? How many DPO are you now? I’m still getting the odd twinge on my left side and yesterday I need to pee about 12times. But I still think It’s probably too early for any symptoms for me

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Jessiemay2020 · 15/05/2020 07:46

Hi ladies!
Sorry I've been quiet, had a mad couple of days! Been meaning to reply but just got carried away.
How are you all doing? Any new symptoms?
Last night i had a strange shooting pain on my left side which I don't think I normally get, I know it'll be still too early for anything really but still can't help the symptom spotting! Hope you are all OK

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Suki2020 · 13/05/2020 19:55

@Jessiemay2020 how you doing today hun?

Suki2020 · 13/05/2020 19:54

@AnxiousAnnie86 yeah I’m good thanks. Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. What cycle day are you on? Have you had a cycle like this before? I’m on CD53 and 3DPO. I’ve had mixed cycle lengths for months now, it’s such a pain not knowing when your going to ovulate.

AnxiousAnnie86 · 13/05/2020 18:37

@Suki2020 hey I'm okay thank you, you? I've been trying for a year next month, had a miscarriage at 8 weeks in Nov,

This months mixed up, had ten days of high fertility and am now on my fifth of "peak" I've had enough!!! X

Suki2020 · 13/05/2020 17:03

Hi @AnxiousAnnie86 how are you? How long have you been TTC?

AnxiousAnnie86 · 13/05/2020 16:20

Hey ladies! Can I please join? 1dpo today I think? X

2020wish · 13/05/2020 14:34

How’s everyone today? I’m think I’m 3DPO and from yesterday I am soo fatigued. Going to bed earlier, sleeping deeply and forcing myself out of bed at like 10 then going back for a nap around 12 and now I’m just awake again at 14:30. Last week I was waking up at like 6am with like 4 hours of sleep and that was me for the day. Must be coming down with something

Suki2020 · 13/05/2020 13:39

Hi girls, how are you today?

whambam89 · 12/05/2020 21:18

@Suki2020 no they're usually very regular 29 days, but as soon as we started TTC this time they went all over the place for about 3 months - they've settled down again now thankfully! Must be so frustrating for you 😫

Suki2020 · 12/05/2020 19:50

@Jessiemay2020 thank you hun, fingers crossed we all get our BFP this month

Suki2020 · 12/05/2020 19:32

@whambam89 Have you always had cycles all over the place? Mine tend to be all over the place, sometimes I have a normal cycle of 32days and others it’s longer. This cycle I’m on day52 and 2DPO

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Jessiemay2020 · 12/05/2020 19:19

@suki2020 ahh, I can see why you'd be worrying but you are really at the perfect age right now. I have known so many women to fall in their mid 40s just before starting peri menopause. Now is a good time for you and I really hope it happens for you. 🤞🤞

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whambam89 · 12/05/2020 19:15

@suki2020 3rd cycle with my daughter and 4th cycle before the ectopic although my cycles were a bit all over the place so that didn't help!

Suki2020 · 12/05/2020 19:13

@jessiemay2020 least your age is on your side. I’m 33 and worrying that my body clock is ticking fast.

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Jessiemay2020 · 12/05/2020 18:57

I'm 25, I completely agree with that though... It was so much stressing and overthinking when I was trying in the 2 years for my daughter with my ex. I was when I gave up it happened. I have to say, I am worried though my partner is nearly 36, no previous children (although his ex apperently fell pregnant, but she is a slight nutter and liked to make stuff up but he's adamant she was preg, anyway that turned into a Mc) but I really have a horrible feeling he has a low sperm count. He has had a bad past with drugs and although has not drank or touched anything for years I worry that he has damaged himself. I do keep dropping hints but have also said if no luck within a year we will get him tested. It makes it difficult that I have 2 children from a previous relationship so wouldn't be offered much help through NHS if that was the case.

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Suki2020 · 12/05/2020 18:50

@jessiemay2020 do you mind me asking how old you are? Try and distracted yourself if you can. My friend was trying for 2yrs, she would check every symptom and then she decided to distract herself and first month she did she fell pregnant.