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Trying for a baby in the middle of a pandemic

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Letmegetthisrightasawoman · 06/05/2020 21:47

I couldn't find a thread on this, which surprised me.

Is anyone else really wanting to start trying for a baby now but feeling a bit awkward about it? It's like I'm worried HCPs will secretly judge me for putting a burden on the NHS, and that other people will think it's crazy to have become pregnant at this time. I'm almost thinking I should pretend it was unplanned if I do get pregnant, but it totally wouldn't be. Anyway, just wondering if anyone had similar concerns.

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MimiArm · 06/05/2020 23:33

Should I postpone ttc with coronavirus? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3858211-Should-I-postpone-ttc-with-coronavirus

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Letmegetthisrightasawoman · 06/05/2020 23:13

@Bam123 that sounds scary! I'm glad you're OK!
@MimiArm have you got links? I can't seem to find these threads.

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MimiArm · 06/05/2020 22:48

Hi - there are lots and lots of threads on this very topic with lots of comments on them with differing opinions. I had a quick look there and they are way down the page which is why you might not have seen them.

Not at all trying to be a smart arse btw - just in case you fancy scrolling down to read the many opinions :-)

Bam123 · 06/05/2020 22:31

Hi, I'm 13 weeks pregnant and to be completely honest I wouldnt try for one during the pandemic. You will have to go to scans on your own you will have limited midwife appointments and I've very recently had a bleed and no one would see me at the hospital even though I thought ild lost the baby, they just expected me to wait until my next appointment to be checked at 20 weeks, luckily I managed arranged a private scan and the baby was okay though. For the best care for you and baby now is not a good time. Obviously it is always your decision no one can tell you yes or no that is completely up to you just being honest.

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