June Bus - who's on board?

@Minster2012 thanks for the welcome! They seem to be fairly regular (between 27 and 33 days so far). I've been TTC for 7 months now (I have an 8 year old from a previous relationship) and at 36 I feel like my time is running out. We are giving pre-seed and conceive plus (his and hers) a go for the first time this month 🤞🏻

Morning ladies & hi to newcomers welcome aboard!

@33Carr there are a few of us in a similar position to you so we can keep each other going!

@CMM20 keep going girl, you are what day 13? I got 4 days of big fat O (but I started later than day 8) & this morning I have a flashing smile 😀on CD14 so stick with it, some ppl don’t ovulate until day 16/18 so you will get there

@Skip86 boo for arguments. We had a massive row yesterday too after DH was very insensitive & I supporting of the potty training I’ve been doing (enduring massive toddler tantrums all week but it’s working) & he just dismissed it & said he’s too young “from what his colleagues have said”, not paying attention to the fact DS is getting it I literally was in tears for 4 hours, so was good we had already DTD in the morning but we made up later on. You are on day 4 of flashing 😀? I’m hoping my flashy today doesn’t stay around to long!!

And @Skip86 yeah the nurse consultant at our IVF we nicknamed her “the angel of death” she has such a cheery manner even when giving good news she sounds like she’s telling us our dog needs to be put down so I was prepared! Trying to see it as a challenge!!

@SmileyT Thanks for the advice. Was it awkward DTD when you were not in the mood? In the end I will probably choose ttc rather than miss a month. So many emotions on this journey.

Day 5 of ⭕️- So disheartening!

Hope you're all doing ok

@SmileyT it was a ⭕️ as expected but time will tell. I have no idea what is going to happen this month as technically AF could very likely come again yet!

@jaxs23 it's very hard to be told to wait when TTC when you just desperately want to get on with it and not waste any time

@SmileyT Yeah I used to be 28 days before going on the pill yearrrrrrs who so hoping I get back to that. But that was when I was in my late teens so a lot could have changed since then 😂 I think inoculated around the 3/4th this month, which was earlier than I expected. Going to try be more consistent woth my OPKs this month and make sure we get our timings right! I'm due to ovulate similar times to you!!

@33Carr oh that makes sense, I also had a MMC in March, my first cycle was 31 days and then down to 27, I wasn't on hormonal contraception before that and cycles ranged from 25-33 but generally 28 days so hoping they settle back around there. Did you ovulate pretty early last month? I'm not expecting to ovulate until around the 29th May x

Hi @SmileyT It's hard to tell how long my cycles are as I got pregnant without a period after having my implant removed. However in April I had a 26 day cycle and in May it's down to 21!

@lucyrp you often get a temp drop the day before your temp rise for ovulation so it could be just around the corner 🤞 how did you get on with CB?

@jaxs23 me and DP had a little argument during FW last month but we are doing SMEP so just carried on following the plan, we just had to get on with it and deal with the argument afterwards. I think ttc can be stressful so it's not crazy for emotions to be heightened at some point over this journey. After my MC he really wanted me to wait before having sex but I was having none of that 🙈

Welcome @33Carr there are a few of us on CD2 so hopefully we can help eachother through, how long are your cycles normally? How are you tracking? Xx

Hi all! Hopping on the June bus as AF arrived yesterday! Starting cycle # after MMC! Fingers crossed for everyone!

@lucyrp sorry about your CP. Was told I should wait to try again, but I heard that you are more fertile after a MC.

@Skip86 I've been BBTing for the last few days and it has been around 36.5, this morning however it was 36.19 so not promising! About to CB so expecting a big fat ⭕️

@jaxs23 I had a CP last cycle too. Sucks doesn't it☹️ hopefully fingers crossed for us this time!

@skip86 happy to hear that you made up and BD before ov. Have not been in an argument with DP during FW. Just the thought of missing a month sounds scary, but don't think I can BD if upset. Would feel wrong. Any advice for if that happens?

Hi everyone. Been pointed in the direction of this thread by the May Bus - can I take a seat and join you all?

I'm TTC DC2, first cycle trying, CD 9 now and usually ovulate around CD 13/14 with a 28/29 day cycle. I have sorta paid some attention to my ovulation etc over the past few months as we knew we'd be trying.

Baby dust to all ❤️

Meh, day 3 of flashing smiley here. Might use ICs in the afternoon to see if I catch a rise.

Mornings ladies! So many new faces (names?!) so assume there were a bunch of BFPs and AFs over on the May thread all at one time - sorry that really sucks, but here's hoping June is a lucky month!

Just to catch up, I'm 33 (34 in a few weeks but I'm in denial), cycle 1 of TTC #3, CD 14 today. Using CB digital opk and some cheapies. 7 hour time difference to most of you so tend to pop in once a day!

@Minster2012 I can't believe the clinic were so blunt. They must be desensitised to if after working there so long, but that's no excuse to be a dick. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, and I sooo hope you have natural success with us here 🤞🏼

@CMM20 I don't think 4 days of ⭕️ is a problem! Just means your oestrogen hasn't started rising yet. Keep going girl!

@lucyrp yess I'm glad you're starting from scratch on CD 8, good plan 🎉

After a full 48 hour of mad arguments with DH we (sort of) made up and had a good DTD session. Probably ovulate in the next day or so, so I'd have been even more angry at him if we had abstained longer than that! Hopefully there will be more lovin' today! Xx

@Minster2012 used only the app to track first few months. Started using IC and caught, but had a CP last month. Just starting bbt tracking this cycle.
Good luck to everyone. Fingers crossed for BFPs.

Hello newcomers! @SS123456 are your cycles regular? I’m hoping to ovulate (at some point!) 😂but no idea of cycles yet CD13 & nothing showing on OPKs

@jaxs23 welcome! Have you been tracking before?

@MrsDh2019 our DS is like that, he’s 21 months & keeps saying “baby awww kisses” so want to make that real xx

Wow you guys haven’t been wasting time have you! Didn’t realise we were already 12 pages deep on this thread 😆 (just come over from May bus after today)...BFN for me today 12 dpo but still having very strange symptoms I can’t put down to AF because they are not what I usually get every single month before AF arrives so it’s very odd. I do have a strong feeling though after the BFN today that I will definitely be seeing AF on Monday 😣😩 TTC Baby #2 and I have a 32month old DS who won’t stop asking for a baby! 😩🤞🏼
Good luck to you all as always and I hope June beings some BFPs for some of us 💖 baby dust x

Jumping on the bus as I'm due to ovulate next week 😊🤞🏻

Hopping on the June bus. I'm 34, CD 11. Cycle 6 TTC #1. Baby dust to all!

Hello to newcomers & those from the may bus!

@CMM20 totally get your frustration I guess it’s Cos you think ovulation likely you be in the middle of a 28 day cycle but that’s not always the case...keep going!!

I’m on CD13 & same 3 days of big O from CB, thought I had starting a of EWCM yesterday but most likely DHs deposits from night before I’ve decided now as nothing more today 🤷‍♀️No idea how long my cycles are so just 🤞🏻For smiley CB & not being too long

Following @notyetamumbuttrying and @SmileyT over from the May bus. This will be my second month TTC our first baby after stopping the pill mid March. Think my cycle is still a little random so using OPK kits for a full month this month so try and work out what my normal is. Expecting AF next week at some point (I think)