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June Bus - who's on board?

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MrsLBear · 04/05/2020 09:20

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

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Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 16:51

@Juno231 yeah surely they shouldn’t make a difference. Hmmm maybe just a weird one, or stress?

Juno231 · 18/05/2020 16:49

@minster2012 I've added ubiquinol and evening primrose oil to the mix but somehow doubt either of those are gas inducing lol.

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 16:43

@MrsDh2019 all of that sounds really promising! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 16:42

@KRK05 hopefully it’s just a bit of a weird one but still if you are DTD every other day or so 🤷‍♀️

@MrsDh2019 that’s good it’s not much then, 🤞🏻It holds out & you can test, especially if your boobs are massive!! 🍀

@lucyrp you aren’t weird for suggesting watching porn why not! I think it’s good to do different things occasionally

@Juno231 what new supplements are you taking? Could be the difference definitely

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 16:35

@Minster2012 my OH is so against porn😂he's never really been into it by himself and thinks I'm weird when I suggest watching it together 😂

I've felt a bit funny today too like so tired and a bit nauseous

MrsDh2019 · 18/05/2020 16:29

@Minster2012 it’s strange I’ve monitored it all day and had a pad on and it’s just Like brown CM but not even filled a pad and it’s hardly even there when I wipe. I will keep an eye on it for a few days and maybe do a test at the weekend if it doesn’t get any heavier. Could just be the start of AF though I guess! I Just had such a weird pregnant feeling these last few weeks and even my DH said last night my boobs were scaring him because they look like when the milk comes in after you’ve given birth - big rocks on my chest 😂 (they’re usually only a tiny B cup but they’re massive atm!) xx

Juno231 · 18/05/2020 16:27

TMI girls but this AF I have been SO gassy! I think the pain from gas has been worse than the cramps and I have no idea why I am like this as I haven't changed my diet I don't think (although actually I am taking new supplements since CD1..?). Hormones wreaking havoc I suspect, especially as AF is still continuing even though I'm normally done by now.

It's funny how I probably wouldn't have noticed any of this 6 months ago when I wasn't TTC...

@lucyrp I'd say cool things off with this friend for a bit and don't talk TTC with her for now :)

@theotherfossilsister hello and welcome, hope you find some baby dust with us xx

KRK05 · 18/05/2020 16:18

@Skip86 Such a random thing, I wasn't gonna do any until I got a flashing smiley but thought il get the practice in then was like what this cant be right 🤨 I just did another one, was praying it wasnt as dark cause it's far too early to ovulate thats not a good thing & it's a bit fainter so thank goodness 🙏🏼 date night was lovely, so out the blue for OH to do but I genuinely think he just knows how stressed I've been lately 😂 oh & great your getting further with your cheapys, your peak wont be far off 🙌🏼 get DTD 😂

@SmileyT I just did another one, it was fainter. Maybe ovulate a lot earlier than I think but still plenty time I'm a newbie so when I seen that line I thought omg I'm gonna hit peak like tonight or tomorrow 😂 il have to get used to seeing them. So sorry AF is hard going justnow, I feel u mines was the same I was so drained! Hope it eases off soon for u 🤞🏻

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 15:28

@Skip86 that’s great you are getting somewhere with the OPKs, fingers crossed for you to get your static!

My DH is mostly the same & if I say “oo we could watch a bit of porn” he would never say no! I’m keeping that in reserve for day 3/4 shagging!

I feel a bit weird this afternoon now, got a strange taste in my mouth & feel a bit queasy. Hope I’m not coming down with anything, I’ve not been anywhere! I’ve spent the morning wiping up potty training accidents though 💩🤦🏼‍♀️

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 15:27

@Skip86 I mean I don't even have to say anything sometimes 😂

Skip86 · 18/05/2020 15:25

@lucyrp when I say 'talk dirty' I mean I say something like 'how 'bout it?' and he's naked already 🤣

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 15:18

@Skip86 your OH sounds similar to mine😏😂

Skip86 · 18/05/2020 14:56

Ooh maybe I shouldn't have been so quick to slag off my ICs - finally getting a bit of a line! It's 10pm here now and DH only just got home from work 🙄 He's tired but I'll just have to talk dirty or something.. it doesn't take much to get him going 🤣 with any luck I'll get my static tomorrow.
PS thank god for opks, I thought I was so clued onto my body and cycles, but would've bet anything before now that I'd already ovulated. Hopefully I can catch it! 🤞🏼

June Bus - who's on board?
Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 14:22

@MrsDh2019 why don’t you see what it’s like for the rest of the day then maybe do a preg test tomorrow morning just to check?

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 14:21

@SmileyT when you test with CB later on in the day do you have to hold wee or anything for a time frame?

Runnergirl1 · 18/05/2020 14:14

@Ltay2 - I’m with you there my apps say:
Flo did say 22/5/20 but then one morning I woke up hadn’t put any data in and changed to 29/5/20
Ovia - 29/5/20
Femometer - 23/5/20
Premom - 26/5/20

Which one to you trust flo and femometer where the best last month at predicting my af as I was unsure when I ovulated. My cycles have been irregular but the last two have been 29 and 31 so if I believe the later dates then that’s looooong cycles again. I don’t know what to believe or follow. I am doing OPKs but all very very negative x

MrsDh2019 · 18/05/2020 13:54

@lucyrp @Minster2012 @33Carr @SmileyT thanks all I did have a weird feeling of implantation bleeding but I just believe it’s my AF. My body is just throwing a wobbly 😂 very true - onto another month 🤞🏼 X

notyetamumbuttrying · 18/05/2020 13:51

@lucyrp I'd defo try and keep your distance whilst ttc, she sounds a bit toxic because of her own issues. You do whatever suits you and your partner! We're planning on dtd everyday next fw too as the every other day method hasn't worked so far so may as well eh!

SmileyT · 18/05/2020 13:44

@Katao yep CB says to check once daily until you reach high fertility (flashing smile) as it assumes it will catch oestrogen surge, then you can test more than once a day to catch lh surge - this is what the other opks test for and it normally comes later in the day so they say to test after FMU.

@KRK05 that looks nearly positive to me 👌🏾

@MrsDh2019 sorry AF got you, onto a new positive month for you.

I'm CD3 and my period is so heavy I actually feel like I need to go home from work 😩

33Carr · 18/05/2020 13:29

@MrsDh2019 Sorry to hear AF arrived 😔😔

Skip86 · 18/05/2020 13:28

@SmileyT yep I've just been testing with fmu on CB, but doing ICs later in the day since I got the flashing smiley. I think my ICs are complete rubbish though, I'm still getting barely a shadow of a line on them!

@KRK05 your line is so dark for CD8, I'm not sure what to make of that! I wish I could be more helpful, but I suppose best thing is to make sure DTD often to cover all bases?

@KRK05 and @lucyrp your date nights sound gorgeous 💗 I have taken notes!

@Cocoblue22 it was very stressful but have a very healthy happy 2yo now thankfully ☺️

@BumDiggy omg a fellow Crohnie! Hi! I was diagnosed as a kid and have developed perianal abscesses and other delightful crohns related fun too. Pretty sure I'm heading towards arthritis as well 👎🏼 sorry to hear about yours, that must be so tough. Extremely fortunate to have avoided major surgery to date (though I did get alarmingly close during a flare a few years ago - had the ileostomy location marked on my skin ready for theatre and everything 😳). I've had 2 DCs via C section, quite prem at 33 and then 30 weeks. Have an excellent OB now though who specialises in high risk patients, and who is confident I can make it close to full term if I'm under the right management and continue taking my cocktail of meds. Lots of luck to you this month!

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 12:45

Only the same as the farts that I get though from him as I remind him @KRK05!

KRK05 · 18/05/2020 12:41

@Minster2012 I wee in a cup too but I regret chucking it before looking at the OPK, lesson learned though! I know same thatl be my morning ritual now, take my temp then grab my cup to wee in hahaha so attractive 😂 it just needs be done a! Men have it so easy 😤

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 12:35

@MrsDh2019 sorry the witch got you, sucks. Brown blood is usually old blood so not sure why that would be there but I guess see how it continues

@KRK05 you could be!! I got that regret once at not using an IC so now I wee into a small cup & save it til I’ve done one test & then decide & throw silly but 🤷‍♀️My first month properly tracking so trying to catch things! DH thinks I’m super sexy weeing into a cup in the morning 😂
Another flashy 😀for me today so that’s day two flashing and nothing to show on my IC def hoping it peaks soon. This tracking malarkey could make you mental but it’s the only way to find out when I ovulate & im sure many ppl are the same 🤣

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 12:29

@MrsDh2019 that sounds like the bleeding I had 2 weeks after my AF it was like a brown kind of jelly and was what I believed to be implantation bleeding but it must not have been because of my CP, very odd

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