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June Bus - who's on board?

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MrsLBear · 04/05/2020 09:20

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

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KRK05 · 18/05/2020 22:14

@Katao Crazy a! My first month doing them so I was a bit like wow when I seen it, I tested another twice today though, one was lighter & 2nd was the exact same! I just had AF for 5 days so I'm definitely not pregnant. Il just have to keep testing, I maybe ovulate earlier than I think, one of my apps says this Friday.

@SmileyT It definitely does, makes u feel like your actually doing something. How are u feeling now? Are u doing anything different this cycle or just sticking to the same?

@lucyrp Aw that's not good, distance yourself dont need people like that at the time of TTC!

@Ltay2 I'm CD8. U doing anything different this cycle?

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 22:12

@MrsDh2019 yes I also think a couple of days 🤞🏻Stay strong x

I was hoping that doing an evening OPK this evening would, like @Skip86 show a rise & also maybe suggest the weirdness I’m feeling is due to ovulation but still a full on 0 for me on the ICs!

Fingers crossed it’s a static smile tomorrow for both of us @Skip86

Off to sleep now x

Katao · 18/05/2020 22:02

@MrsDh2019 fingers crossed. Yes i think you would need wait 48 hours to give the levels a chance to rise. If you have only one frer I'd hold out.

@KRK05 that seems like very early for such a dark opk. I'm sorry I'm finding it hard to keep track of everyone but did you have normal af or test recently with hpt? I've heard you can get a positive opk when pregnant....

SmileyT · 18/05/2020 21:52

@Minster2012 yeah I'm the opposite don't drink so much during the day as sometimes meetings run 2 1/2 hrs at work and it's a nightmare when you need a wee 🤣 then come home and realise I need to drink like 2L of water 🙈

@KRK05 definitely keep an eye on it, if nothing else it keeps you distracted checking the lh levels during the month 🙂

Ltay2 · 18/05/2020 21:18

@KRK05 I am CD12 now, where are you up to in your cycle?

lucyrp · 18/05/2020 21:13

@KRK05 I'm not surprised even I'm finding it difficult to keep up on here now so many comments 😂 here it is, I was in such a good mood this morning even contemplated going for a run and then she put a downer on everything. I was very motivated and I managed to deep clean the kitchen but then I sat down and tried to do some work towards my managament qualification didn't get very far though 😬

June Bus - who's on board?
KRK05 · 18/05/2020 21:07

@SmileyT Oh wow that's scary! But yep V true for baby 🤗 I'm gonna be really interested to see how much things change even daily throughout my cycle 🙈 went fainter in the afternoon then back to the same justnow 🤷🏼‍♀️

@MrsMinster2012 I am with u on the pee every 2 hours, I really struggle to not drink as much & pee less 🙈 such hard graft for me hahaha

@Ltay2 I was gonna try track CM but being completely honest I have no clue atall. What CD are u now cause feel like your way ahead of me?

@lucyrp What's this about your friend? I've caught others replies to u but I cant seem to find your messages explaining so I'm feeling lost 😂

MrsDh2019 · 18/05/2020 21:07

@Minster2012 I’m not sure how soon after implantation bleeding you can test though - is it a couple of days later so the levels have a chance to get stronger? I only have one FRER left and don’t want to waste it 😩 xx

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 21:01

@MrsDH2019 still sounds good though, if I were you I’d be testing again 😂

@Ltay2 you are right & we just need to keep paying attention to try & spot patterns

@LittleRa I’ve never had that before so can’t help I’m afraid, have the pains gone? But some ppl I think do get very bad O pains

MrsDh2019 · 18/05/2020 20:52

@Katao I think I’m 14 dpo today (I don’t do OPK I just go off a predicted ovulation date baswd in a regular 28/29 day cycle as I’m always spot on) However judging from my CM around predicted ovulation I think I probably ovulated a couple days later so I’m more inclined to believe I’m around the 12dpo mark. That’s why I’m getting so irritated because I don’t know anything for certain 😩🤦🏻‍♀️ xx

LittleRa · 18/05/2020 20:35

Hi ladies, after DP and I DTD this afternoon I had really really bad cramps. According to my app I’m in FW (weds is predicted as ovulation day), I’m not using and other tracking at the moment. I was doubled over and could barely walk, I had to lie down and was crying. I’ve never had cramps after sex. I’ve been on the pill so haven’t had period cramps either. Has anyone has this? Is this a good sign that I’m ovulating? A bad sign? Or no sign at all?!

Katao · 18/05/2020 20:26

@MrsDh2019 that sounds promising. How many dpo are you? Sounds more like implantation than af.

Ltay2 · 18/05/2020 20:18

@Minster2012 Mine may change again tomorrow after all this 😂 I don't recall having any lotion like CM last month but maybe I just wasn't paying enough attention. I don't think I started daily tracking until I got a positive OPK last time so maybe that's why.

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 20:00

@33Carr yes was reading that but CB says I haven’t ovulated yet argh so many things to track & obsess over 😂

33Carr · 18/05/2020 19:55

@Minster2012 After ovulation mine tends to go a bit haywire and I don't really know what's going on! I am going to try pay more attention this month though!

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 19:52

@MrsDh2019 🤞🏻🤞🏻Then but I can see why it’s driving you nuts!

@Ltay2 & @33Carr I think I need more time to get to know my CM! See I had lotion like around CD12 too but now gone back to sticky creamy which blatantly isn’t a thing 😭🤦🏼‍♀️No idea!

Ltay2 · 18/05/2020 19:24

@33Carr That's exactly what I've been like the last few days, thought what I had was creamy but can definitely tell now it wasn't!

@Minster2012 Same! I've never paid a lot of attention before but can tell a difference today compared to yesterday. Definitely feel 'softer' inside and always thought CM was creamy but it's definitely 'lotiony' today so can tell what I had before wasn't creamy at all now. Definitely true that you just have to give yourself a month or two to get used to your body. I'm CD12 today.

MrsDh2019 · 18/05/2020 19:11

@lucyrp @Minster2012 thanks guys 🤞🏼
@Sleeeeeepy @smileyT yeah I just feel really weird but I just don’t want to get my hopes up again😂 i went for a shower about an hour ago and I’ve had no more of it when I wiped after going to the loo so if it was AF I would think it would’ve picked up by now? My flow usually comes really heavy and for 3 days then goes away/spots for the last couple of days... I mean It could be AF though haha wow honestly this is all driving me insane now 😂 I’m neither here nor there for the last 2 weeks and now AF comes and it’s just as sketchy!! 🤣 last time I tested was on Saturday and it was definitely BFN so I might leave it 2 more days or something and see. I also don’t have period cramps like what I would normally have either... honestly usually when I have AF I feel like my womb Is exiting my body it’s that bad every month (Grim I know) 🤣 xx

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 19:11

Oh but @Ltay2 I spend ages trying to decide what stage it is to tell femometer & I don’t think I’ve got it right 🤦🏼‍♀️

Minster2012 · 18/05/2020 19:10

@SmileyT I wish I peed every 4 hours!! It’s def every 2 🤔& in between that I drink a lot of water due to my surgeries I have to drink at least 3 litres per day of fluid mostly water so I don’t like it to be in the evening to stop night wees 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

@MrsDh2019 def fingers crossed it’s good news instead!

@Ltay2 what CD are you on? I’m trying to obsessively monitor CM too as I’ve never paid attention before! So it’s all new to me & I seem to be consistently just be creamy which is annoying!

33Carr · 18/05/2020 19:07

@Ltay2 Totally with you in the CM tracking, sometimes I look through the various options and I'm thinking oooo what's sticky CM and then a few days later I check and it's like yep, know I now what's sticky means!! Never realized there was so much to learn from our bodies and lady bits hahaha

Ltay2 · 18/05/2020 18:35

So today I have noticed a very distinct change in CM which is exciting (what has my life become? 🤣). Was struggling to decide what was 'sticky' and what was 'creamy' but can definitely note the change today. It's nice to have something to track again!

OnNaturesCourse · 18/05/2020 18:17

Just a pit stop but MrsDh... All my fingers, toes and limos are crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞

SmileyT · 18/05/2020 17:35

@Minster2012 tbh I don't hold wee for testing in the evening but I'm not a massive drinker so I probably only go to the loo every 4hrs or so during the day anyway.

@Skip86 definitely looks like it's moving towards positive, hope the dirty talk worked 👌🏾

@KRK05 I think every month I forget how bad my periods get, my mum had to have a transfusion because of blood loss once 😩 I'm just telling myself it means I have a nice thick lining ready for a baby to implant. Yeah with the opks I tested all through the month last couple months just to see how they fluctuate and make sure I was catching the real peak.

@MrsDh2019 🤞 there is something working away in there and this is just a bit of spotting, when was the last time you tested? Sorry I've lost track of days xx

Sleeeeeepy · 18/05/2020 17:26

@MrsDh2019 I would test. I had something like this with DC2, brown but went on for a week, we weren't trying so no idea of dates but I must have been pregnant at the time so goodness knows what it was!

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