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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Testing around 13th May

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Sussexbysea · 29/04/2020 15:05

Hi all,

I joined a similar thread last month and found it really supportive. It’d be great to hear from others.

We’ve been trying for number 2 for two years now and each month gets more emotionally difficult. Xx

Xx

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CEW19 · 15/05/2020 11:59

sorry to hear that @Sussexbysea. I'll take a test now i think just to ease my mind.

Sussexbysea · 15/05/2020 11:56

@CEW19 I’ve had this before but unfortunately it resulted in miscarriage for me.

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CEW19 · 15/05/2020 11:06

Hey, i need some advice. Period was due last sunday (10th), spotted a little on Friday (8th) so got my mooncup ready, was super light Friday and Saturday, so didn't even use it. Sunday and Monday was medium flow, nothing Tuesday and Wednesday, then yesterday and today it's brown when i wipe. I'm usually pretty consistent with periods where day one is light, 2, 3 and 4 are medium then nothing/very light day 5, so this is very unusual for me. I'm also having some lower back pain and occasional dull ache in lower stomach.

I'd done a FRER last Friday which was negative, then my period had come so thought i was on to the next cycle. Now not sure if i should do another test. anyone else had this?

Sussexbysea · 15/05/2020 10:49

@skyla01 this is amazing news. Huge congrats to you both. There’s always a worry isn’t there, keep strong and safe. When you see that 12 week scan, you’ll realise it’s all been worth it xx

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Skyla01 · 15/05/2020 10:37

@LKSF yes don't give up! This can be a long hard journey but my advice is to try and make peace with it, try and keep sane, and keep plugging away each month. It's tough but eventually you'll get that BFP, although easy for me to say that now.

@Sussexbysea yes go my BFP this morning. Keep the faith & I really hope you get your next cycle.

@CaramelTart23 thank you :) feeling relieved and happy, and a bit sick already! Going to stsy cautious until the 12wk scan but praying this is it. At least I know I can get pregnant now- after so long I was beginning to wonder.

CaramelTart23 · 15/05/2020 09:44

@Skyla01 congratulationssss woohoooo 🙏😆 thats amazing news!!!! Hope everything goes well for you ☺️ How are you feeling x

Sussexbysea · 15/05/2020 09:39

@Skyla01 have I missed something? Have you got your BFP??

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LKSF · 15/05/2020 09:29

@Skyla01 Massive Congratulations!! The fact you have been trying for 14months gives me hope 🥰

Hope everyone else gets their BFP this month too🤞🏼 xx

33Carr · 15/05/2020 08:53

@Skyla01 Amazing news!! Congratulations!

Skyla01 · 15/05/2020 08:25

@mrsmumsy00 I hope a stronger line appears. Maybe wait and use your frer on Sunday if AF doesn't appear?

@SewingAddict419 good luck if you test today!! I usually dry up before AF but not this month so I think it can be a sign. I got my BFP this morning! Ttc for 14 months so am relieved and happy to finally see that 2nd line!

SewingAddict419 · 14/05/2020 23:41

@Sussexbysea Not 100%, but if my ov date was actually May 2 then it should be either sunday or monday

SewingAddict419 · 14/05/2020 23:39

I read somewhere that milky white discharge could be a sign. I'm going to test in the morning, not sure if enough time has passed yet but we'll see 👢Hmm

mrsmumsy00 · 14/05/2020 22:37

@carameltart23 yes done about 15 mins ago! i have a frer but af is due saturday so think i'm going to try and hold off instead of getting myself down about a BFN. it's so strange i'm always so certain of negative tests and was almost certain i was out this month but i feel like there is just something there! fingers crossed and thank you!

CaramelTart23 · 14/05/2020 22:30

@mrsmumsy00 I see a faint blue line ☺️ is this a test you've just done?

Maybe wait till tomorrow for a morning pee that way you get a higher concentration of hcg

Well chuffed for you, sprinkling loads of baby dust 😆 deffo can see a faint line xx

mrsmumsy00 · 14/05/2020 22:17

this one might help for reference too. couldn't see anything with a torch on or under it and was difficult to see on pics but i feel like there's something there!

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mrsmumsy00 · 14/05/2020 22:12

ladies i need your help. this is the first test i've been unsure of. i'm not 100% what dpo i am as didn't do any opks this month. i can't tell if it's a bfn (😞) and i have lime eyes or if this is a vvvvvvf bfp?? this is with my evening urine not holding for very long. inverted too. just feel like i can see a sort of something there! probably just me hoping but wanted opinions?

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33Carr · 14/05/2020 16:34

@Skyla01 thank you!

@Sussexbysea I've also read the same as Sky said that you can get a second LH surge prior to AF

Skyla01 · 14/05/2020 16:23

@33Carr you might not have been trying all that long but you've been through a lot- a mmc must be awful I'm sorry.

@CaramelTart23 you can get a 2nd weaker lh surge during the tww I think? I would stick too peeing on pg tests myself!

Sussexbysea · 14/05/2020 16:14

The tests can detect a pregnancy hormone. So many people use them as preg tests but they are unreliable

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CaramelTart23 · 14/05/2020 15:34

@Sussexbysea I'm trying not to cave in by testing early 😩 so will be doing an actual preg test over the weekend

Phewww nearly had a mini heart attack, I thought my cycle was going crazy this month 😅

This might sound really stupid of me but I didn't know pregnancy and ovulation hormones were somewhat similar ?

HopeWish · 14/05/2020 15:26

@TTCgee

I used it once before +OPK and once when I had a +OPK.

Sussexbysea · 14/05/2020 15:15

@CaramelTart23 some tests will pick up the same hormones as a pregnancy test but it’s not recommend you test using ovulation tests

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CaramelTart23 · 14/05/2020 14:53

Hi Ladies, I don't know what came over me but I decided to test on an ovulation dip test (husband has hidden away all the preg tests until weekend)

Baring in mind I have had confirmed positive OV on 5th May... I am soooo confused 😐 I can see a faint line on the OV test that I've done now 😩 what does this mean??

Why am I ovulating twice in the space of 9 days?

Ughgh I'm confuzzled

TTCgee · 14/05/2020 14:36

@Broodyjulie congratulations!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 hoping it stays positive for you xxx

TTCgee · 14/05/2020 14:35

@HopeWish thank you!! I think I'll try the SMEP too this month. Do you mind me asking... did you wait until positive ovulation to use preeseed or did you just do it in your fertile window? Thank you xxx