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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Testing around 13th May

606 replies

Sussexbysea · 29/04/2020 15:05

Hi all,

I joined a similar thread last month and found it really supportive. It’d be great to hear from others.

We’ve been trying for number 2 for two years now and each month gets more emotionally difficult. Xx

Xx

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lucymagoo · 09/05/2020 07:49

Tested again this morning with FMU to a BFN, I guess that solves it, strange because there was definitely something on that first test! Still only 10dpo so will forget about it for this weekend and retest if AF is late. Hope everyone else is doing well

LKSF · 09/05/2020 07:30

@Cheesybiscuits01 I’m so sorry it wasn’t two lines, but let’s hope it was too early and maybe test again tomorrow🤞🏼 xx

Idontneedrescuing · 09/05/2020 07:30

@Cheesybiscuits01 Ahh sorry to hear that, I find the last 4/5 days of the wait so hard and it’s hard not to test! Hopefully it’s too early 🤞🏻

Sussexbysea · 09/05/2020 07:25

@cheesybiscuits01 sorry to hear that, maybe wait a few more days and then re test. The longer you wait the clearer the result will be

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Cheesybiscuits01 · 09/05/2020 07:19

My cycle this month was a bit mixed up post miscarriage so I'm not sure. Sometime between Monday and Wednesday I think. Hoping it was just too early.

Jessdasilva · 09/05/2020 07:11

@Cheesybiscuits01 sorry to hear your test was a BFN 😥 do u think it could be to early? When is AF due?

Cheesybiscuits01 · 09/05/2020 06:34

Early testing. Why do we do this to ourselves? 12dpo. Tested with an asda test that apparently you can use 4 days early. BFN. So disappointed and wasted test.

SmileyT · 09/05/2020 06:14

@kim160790 Welcome 🙌🏾 how long were you on the pill for? It's a good sign you had cramping around ovulation, as it's a sign the app predicted correct fingers crossed for your bfp x

beachbum85 · 09/05/2020 01:07

Hi again everyone! Just catching up and wanted to say a huge congrats to the BFPs on this thread Smile

Around 11dpo here and symptom spotting too. I only have sore boobs (as usual) and a few twinges, so I'm thinking it's prob AF once again. I think I'll test on Sun... SMEP suggests Mon but in the unlikely case it's a BFP, I'd rather find out when I don't have a day of work ahead of me. I think by 13dpo I should have waited long enough? I'm using the excuse of having only 1 test in the house to keep me away until then!

Fingers tightly crossed for all and @lucymagoo let us know Daffodil

Jessdasilva · 08/05/2020 22:14

@Skyla01 thank you, makes sence now 🙈

SmileyT · 08/05/2020 21:01

@Dixie17 I'm on my first full month ttc but have noticed a lot of creamy discharge, I'm 6dpo and even though online it says we should be dry it actually makes sense it would increase again as we have an oestrogen rise in LP which is similar to oestrogen rise in the middle of the FP so I've concluded we're normal 👌🏾

Dixie17 · 08/05/2020 19:37

Hello everyone..been lurking but thought I would say hi!..I will be joining you testing on 12/13th May.

I always manage to stay chilled for the first week after ovulation but have officially entered into mad, googling, symptom spotting stage.

Now for the TMI part...For the last few months (probably always been the case but only just noticing) but I seem to have way more discharge in the luteal phase...cloudy/white/lotiony. I really don’t get much EWCM around ovulation.I’d have to really got looking for it but it is there and coincides with clear blue static smiley.

Everything I read is that you usually dry up around this time. It’s not a pregnancy symptom as been this was for several months..and no BFP. Now working I have a hormonal imbalance and oestrogen dominance 🙈
Does anyone else experience this?

kim160790 · 08/05/2020 17:09

Hope it's ok to join... ovulated 30th April (according to app) and period not due until 15th may. This is my first cycle after coming off the pill early last month resulting in a 6 day withdrawal bleed. My symptoms so far have been..
Cramping since ovulation, aching lower back, feeling dizzy and a bit "off", aching right hip, restless legs at night 😫, tingly BBs with my areoles looking a little bit darker but not sure. I've checked my CP which feels high closed and soft but I have absolutely no CM which is strange as I always have some kind of CM throughout cycle so it's never dry ( sorry tmi). Another 7 days to go and dragging already

Skyla01 · 08/05/2020 15:21

@mrsmumsy00 lol, sounds tasty though! My appetite has been huge too but I wonder if it's just hormones.

@lucymagoo I think if you are testing frequently it will be really hard to see clear progression and you'll make yourself feel worse. Try leaving it 48hr, then it should be much clearer.

Rumples · 08/05/2020 15:20

@kirinm

I thought as much thankyou! Only another 5 days to wait I guess

kirinm · 08/05/2020 14:37

@rumples very unlikely to pick it up on a digital this early. It'll be a waste of a test. I'd wait until period is due or late.

lucymagoo · 08/05/2020 13:58

I just retested and it looks the same as yesterday, was hoping for a more conclusive line or nothing at all! Still confused

hayho87 · 08/05/2020 13:48

@Sussexbysea I think hubby is waking me up, not getting back to sleep is definitely an anxiety thing though! I've had some light cramps today and one or two pains in my boobs but nothing worth noting, I'm not feeling it for this month at all now! How are you? Xx

Rumples · 08/05/2020 13:38

For those who know a lot about different preg tests and sensitivity etc.

I've only got a clear blue digital but I'm only 9dpo...do I have to wait until my period is late or could this pick it up early?

lucymagoo · 08/05/2020 13:30

@mrsmumsy00 this was yesterday and I have no self control so testing again this afternoon 😂 it's so unclear

mrsmumsy00 · 08/05/2020 13:25

@lucymagoo might just be me looking for it but i can see something there!! test in a couple of days! finger crossed for you!!

mrsmumsy00 · 08/05/2020 13:24

okay ladies so i am craving and have just made myself 6 lemon pancakes and a bowl of mashed potato😅 i better be pregnant otherwise my body is very strange 😂

lucymagoo · 08/05/2020 13:22

Hopefully this is a clearer image

Testing around 13th May
lucymagoo · 08/05/2020 13:06

@Sussexbysea I'm 9dpo but the extremely faint line I got yesterday is on my mind! Going to test when they arrive today to be sure

Skyla01 · 08/05/2020 13:00

@Jessdasilva it just depends. Some people always ovulate on the same day, for others it can vary a lot. They say that the length of the luteal phase stays the same but the number of days from AF to ovulation can be more variable. Tracking for say 3 cycles with opk should give you an idea.

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