In our 30's and TTC- baby dust

@MrsTtobe oh how awful :( I know what you mean I want to be pregnant so badly but at the same time I’m so scared and know I won’t be a let settle the whole pregnancy until it is born. You just never know. I wonder how much an ultra sound machine is to buy and keep in the house lol think I’m going to have to take out a loan cAuse I see that as the only way I will feel at ease lol

@2020wish oh my God, that's so similar to me. I bled very lightly, few small clots but barely anything at all for 5 days with no pain. I had a private scan at 8+2 and all was fine then started losing pinky/ brown discharge at 11+2. Rang EPU they told me it would most probably be nothing to worry about. My partner also thought I was completely overreacting when he saw how little I was losing. (Yes i showed him) Then on the 6 the day of losing pink it all happened really quickly. Very light cramping but the bleeding was so bad I ended up in A&E.
I really do want to try again and im really trying to be positive but I'm petrified. You hear so many stories of multiple miscarriages. Im completely anxious already and not even pregnant. 🙈 x

Woohoo @Babyboom1990 can't argue with a digi!
So exciting. Are you planning to keep testing for a while or just stop? Talking to a friend yday who is 14 weeks and she said after ONE test she stopped. I wish i had that self control

@MrsTtobe that sounds awful :( I was 7 weeks. Ok still in shock because my epu unit and friends where telling me mine didn’t sound like a miscarriage and that I will be grand so I sat for 6 days crying wondering if I was still pregnant or I had miscarried before I had minimal pain and bleed slowly for 5 days barely filling a pad over the course of 24 hrs and tiny tiny clots so some part of me hoped I was still pregnant going to my scan yesterday. My partner was more in shock because he didn’t believe I was miscarrying at all :( he thought I was being dramatic and it was just a bit of blood after intercourses. Needless to say he is trying is best now to comfort me. I’ve rang me doctor crying asking them can they refer me or prescribe me progesterone for my cervix for next pregnancy in case I do have an incompetent cervix that is being irritated. She is going to look into it for me and speak with gynae.

I know what you mean my next pregnancy is going to be filled with so much worry and anxiety I don’t think il be letting me other half anywhere near me for sex lol

@Babyboom1990 mine looked like this on Tuesday morning at 13DPO...terrified that when I test tomorrow they will be fainter but only time will tell. This is such a rollercoaster already!! How many DPO are you?

And congratulations @Babyboom1990 that's so lovely to see. I'm so happy for you. Xx

Thank you so much for your kind words. It really was so hard. Not so much painful but the blood was like nothing I've seen before and ive had 2 children. But amazing how our bodies go back to normal pretty quickly.
Im just hoping to fall pregnant again and everything be ok. I think if/ when I do get pregnant again im going to be worried sick the whole way through. It's so hard not to blame yourself. How far along were you @2020wish x

@mrs, I'm so sorry. That sounds horrible. I hope you can take some time to yourself 💐💐

@Babyboom1990, I definitely see a line!!! Congrats.

I am still trying and failing to be chill about my BFP from Sunday. Am going to do another FRER tomorrow to compare to tuesdays FRER, and hopefully it will be darker. Period due Saturday...

Positive to me!!!! Congrats

Welcome @MrsTtobe so sorry to hear. It’s hard isn’t it . Today is the day after I feel a bit numb. Me and my partner have spoke and we are going to start trying straight away ourselves x

Hi ladies, I'm ttc, had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago at 11 weeks pregnant. We had been trying for 5 months. It was absolutely awful. Emotionally and physically. @2020wish I hope you're ok.
Two weeks on I've stopped bleeding and physically feel back to 'normal'. I'm torn between wanting to try straight away and or waiting because I'm so terrified of it happening again. We have dtd twice in 3 days (sorry TMI) so I guess we're subconsciously 'trying' without us actually talking about it.
Wishing and hoping for babies for us all in 2021 🙏

They have said it’s a pregnancy of unknown location :( as my test this morning was till positive but my uterus looked cleaned out and ovaries all ok.. they said if I don’t get a neg by tomorrow or next day to ring back as it may be etopic but if it’s negative I’m ready to start trying . @TTClou I’m so sorry to hear that I dunno how I must be feeling. How long did u take to start ttc again x

@2020wish whenever you feel like your ready is ok, do give yourself time to grieve though and allow your body to heal. I lost my son 23 weeks ago he was born sleeping at 23 weeks. I've never felt pain like it and doesnt go away, he was perfect in every single way, my biggest tiny blessing. I will forever love and miss him. I'm 7 weeks tomorrow and it's hard, so hard my anxiety is through the roof and I have no trust in anyone.
Good luck to you and I'm so sorry for you loss x

@2020wish I'm so sorry lovely. Thinking of you

So I’ve had a confirmed miscarriage this morning :( had to pay for a private scan myself to confirm. :( heart broken but ready to start trying again. Anyone else had a miscarriage and how long did u take before u started trying again

Thanks @Juno231 and @babyG123! These are all FMU so I'm not sure hydration will Play a major role but maybe.

I agree about only testing 1/2 per week. I had no idea how difficult it would be to just chill out. Next time I am not testing until af is late!!

Thank you

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