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In our 30's and TTC- baby dust

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babyG123 · 25/04/2020 21:41

Anyone fancy joining this bus?

1dpo and due on 8th

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Peach1204 · 10/06/2020 09:03

@notyetamumbuttrying sorry to hear the BFN - treat yourself to some gin! Thank you. I have the clear blue ones (2 for 6 days before and 1 5 days before) and then I bought some cheapies too. If it's happened I'm hoping to tell DH Father's Day so it's more a case I couldn't keep it a secret until then if I rest too early. If I do it next week he's at work all week so then it's only a few hours in the evening and the Saturday I'd need to be quiet! Xxx

notyetamumbuttrying · 10/06/2020 08:56

Thanks @Peach1204 but it was bfn. Af will be here on Friday! You can test on day period is due too or what you should get are first response early response as they detect hcg 5 days before your period due date. If you have prime you can get them next day!

Peach1204 · 10/06/2020 08:01

@notyetamumbuttrying fingers crossed for your test today! Xxx

My willpower is deteriorating! To the point that I've opened 2 pregnancy test boxes but then when I read the instructions it says to use first urine of the day if testing before missed period so I can't do it today. I'm not going to make it to Thursday next week (4 days after AF is due) which was my original plan so I don't give anything away. I think I'll have to do Monday if AF doesn't show on Sunday. Bloody TWW! 😂 thought I'd be more chilled out then this! Xxx

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/06/2020 22:05

Thank you!!@Rma13 🙏🏾

Rma13 · 09/06/2020 22:01

@notyetamumbuttrying good luck!!! I hope this is your month! Xx

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/06/2020 21:26

I don't blame you @Rma13! I've not been pregnant before so no idea how it feels. Think I'm gonna test tomorrow, put myself out my misery lol!

Rma13 · 09/06/2020 20:19

@notyetamumbuttrying I've not bought any more, so I would stop making myself so angry as I swear I am right, my boobs have never hurt like this other than when i was pregnant with DS but i will probably send the other half out for some more because I know what I'm like!

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/06/2020 19:03

Wow that's really rude!! @Rma13 god what a cow! Sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad they finally saw you though and at least you'll get your answer either way. Do you think you'll do another pregnancy test in the morning too?

Rma13 · 09/06/2020 18:34

@notyetamumbuttrying no she didnt, to be honest she was quite rude and told me "you stressing about being pregnant has probable made your period stop..." was not interested in anything else I'm going through!

SarahTTC2020 · 09/06/2020 15:43

@2020mission thank you! Yes gin and chocolate today and I can look forward to the sex at least ☺️

2020mission · 09/06/2020 15:08

@SarahTTC2020 sorry to hear AF arrived. I always treat myself to a few drinks and treats when that happens and just focus on TTC the next week! Your time will come soon

SarahTTC2020 · 09/06/2020 13:40

AF just turned up for me unfortunately! Cd41 and 15dpo so at least she didn't keep me waiting 45 days like last cycle I guess... July here I come!

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/06/2020 13:03

Eek @Rma13! Did they say anything to you when you said about what's been happening? Sometimes the nurses give you anecdotes about others who have been similar.
Thank you @peonyrose87! I'm tempted to test tomorrow now but will keep strong as I've been disappointed for so many months now!

Rma13 · 09/06/2020 12:06

@notyetamumbuttrying waiting on results! Apparently I'll get them tomorrow! So just a waiting game

Peach1204 · 09/06/2020 10:16

@Fran2020 thank you 😊 xxx

Fran2020 · 09/06/2020 10:03

@peonyrose87 I hope so! I'm ready for it haha!! Lucky 12th cycle right?! 🍀

peonyrose87 · 09/06/2020 09:42

@notyetamumbuttrying fingers crossed for you!

@Fran2020 hopefully you get your peak in the next few days! I went straight to a peak this month too

Fran2020 · 09/06/2020 09:25

@Peach1204 yeah, good luck 

@peonyrose87 I'm CD9 today, still getting low on the fertility monitor but I have watery CM. So DTD again later, as last month I didn't get High days as went straight to peak on CD11. Kind of following SMEP but with my own adapted version- DTD on CD7, 9 and 11. If get peak on CD11, will also DTD on CD12 and 13 I think! Well that's the plan anyway!

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/06/2020 09:06

Haha I bet @peonyrose87! I'm 12dpo so just waiting for af on Friday. Will prob test Thursday tho as I have early ones in.
How are you @Rma13? Any update on blood results yet?

peonyrose87 · 09/06/2020 08:56

Hi ladies, how is everyone doing? I'm CD 14, got my peak OPK on CD12 and we've been following SMEP with an extra DTD thrown in on day 11, so we've been busy 😅looking forward to a rest tomorrow tbh!

Peach1204 · 08/06/2020 21:19

@Fran2020 thank you. I'll just wait to test and see what happens. Xxx

Fran2020 · 08/06/2020 20:57

@Peach1204 hmmm not sure then. Unfortunately I think you're just going to have to wait and see. Fingers crossed for you.

@2020mission yeah just keep DTD and trust the process. Good luck to you.

@Sakura54 Sorry to hear about your MC. Good luck for this month.

Sakura54 · 08/06/2020 19:19

@2020mission @Fran2020 I'm CD 15. I also only use an app. Never done any of the other tracking stuff so no idea of my exact ovulation day usually. It isn't going to be very reliable for me ATM as apparently cycles can be messed up for a few months after MCs, so if my 2nd AF (after MMC) doesn't come on time, it's going to be confusing and annoying!

@Rma13 feels like you've been waiting for ages! Hope you finally get an answer.

2020mission · 08/06/2020 18:24

@Fran2020 I'm on CD16. I can't really say how many DPO as I don't temperature check or do ovulation sticks so just trusting my apps to tell me my fertile window.

Fingers crossed for you all. I reckon I'll cave and test early next week although I'm not due until the 19th

Peach1204 · 08/06/2020 13:31

@Fran2020 it's very light today, still a bit of pain in the left side of my tummy although not sure if this is psychological after someone saying about implantation bleed! I'm not one for getting my hopes up quickly just in case. Ovulation day according to Flo was 30th May, according to Premom 3rd June 🤷🏼‍♀️ my last period started 20th May exactly 28 days after my last one. Xxx

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