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Third thread for ttc!

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NicoleR14 · 21/04/2020 11:22

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

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Lorcb · 20/11/2020 21:57

Hi guys, not sure if this thread is still going! I have just read all 3 of your threads!!
I had a mmc in July last year at 10 weeks, i had another miscarriage at 5 weeks with twins last November so had a break for a few months and currently on month 2 of ttc. 10/11dpo today and bfn. Hope your all well xx

Lilliloo29 · 17/11/2020 11:53

Hi ladies lots of updates. Sorry I don't see any confirmed bfns. Hope apart from the obvious you're all good.
No update here well of any decent type. Late by 3 days tested yesterday bfn so assuming I'm defo out. Having some mega wierd cm really thick and white today and so so tired but what will be will be. Xx

dizzy85 · 13/11/2020 12:20

Hey all, sorry I've been quiet we finally moved house and I've been really busy! It's sooooo good being free from the in-laws 🥳🥳🥳 anyway just wanted to say hi and hope your all ok. I will catch up and read everything I've missed over the weekend. My af has just stopped and we've been at it like rabbits lol the freedom of having our own place again is great 😁 oh and I finally have my gynaecologist appointment on Monday after them saying I'd have to wait so that's some good news. Hope your all well xxx

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NicoleR14 · 10/11/2020 14:31

@Sungirl11 I'm so happy for you that will be the most perfect gift from your mum its a hard battle all this keep us posted! 💜 @ArjaD it is horrible there's nothing worse than af arriving but it's also a sigh of relief when you've been living in limbo😩

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Sungirl11 · 10/11/2020 14:26

Hi sweets!!
@ArjaD I'm so sorry to see af is here 😩
I remember getting soooo upset all the time... it's such a big hit 😞
@NicoleR14 your body playing up again? This doesn't feel normal to me... even if you are young or "overweight" (for the GP), it's still concerning how your af plays up, and it should be looked at in deep...

I am looking at private IVF, my mom has offered to pay for it as a gift before she leaves us. I feel it's the best present ever and if we are lucky and it works it will always be the best gift ever.
But I still need a lot of tests and in the UK appointments take ages (even going privately).
Will keep you updated! Xx

ArjaD · 10/11/2020 11:29

@NicoleR14 must be stress 😣 I'm so sorry, it sucks so much to have irregular cycles. Easier said than done not to stress though! I'm one great big stress bucket just now.

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NicoleR14 · 10/11/2020 09:40

@ArjaD that's horrible hun! Yes I tested yesterday and today both bfn so really don't know what to do 😢

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ArjaD · 10/11/2020 09:22

@NicoleR14 aw man, that sucks so much 😣did you get that test? My af came today, two days early. All over the place now.

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NicoleR14 · 10/11/2020 08:58

Af still hasn't arrived and I'm now 6 days late again I can't go through this again what an I do to not drive myself crazy 😢

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NicoleR14 · 09/11/2020 07:44

@ArjaD I completely get it I've had quiet bad sickness since Saturday night this morning I feel sick again I'm 5 days late and I haven't tested yet but me and dh has agreed we will get a test today I don't know which test to buy tbh 🙄 it's horrible seeing the bfns especially when you do get a pos!

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ArjaD · 09/11/2020 06:45

@NicoleR14 how are you doing? I did another frer this morning, bfn. Guess I'm out as cramping has started now so af is defo on her way. Can't believe how many bfps I got this month, crappy tests. Wish I'd never taken any of them.

ArjaD · 08/11/2020 09:22

@NicoleR14 aw I can totally imagine hun, but it may just be worth taking the test just to have your answer. Entirely up to you though. My af not due till Thurs and I've decided not to do any tests today. Need a day off the poas routine 🙄

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NicoleR14 · 08/11/2020 09:06

@ArjaD I'm sorry hun 😢 your not out yet though! Your not our until af shows! I'm 4 days late today have had ewcm over the past few days nothing major but small bits which I usually don't get I've had sore breasts in waves like sore for 10 mins then stops every few hours or so quiet bad stomach cramps and woke up at 4 this morning feeling sick! Really been feeling down and all over the place but still won't take a test because of the bfns I've had! Worried incase I have made af late with stress tbh 😢how are you doing?

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ArjaD · 07/11/2020 15:46

@NicoleR14 all negative today 😢😢

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NicoleR14 · 07/11/2020 14:59

@ArjaD did you test again? Af is now 3 days late and scared to test again 😢

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 19:18

I did the second one of those. Bottom one I took just now. Frer was negative but will take another one of those tomorrow as they seem a bit crap these days..

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 13:40

@NicoleR14 must be another dud tests. I seem to get them. I'll test again tomorrow morning. Not getting my hopes up.

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NicoleR14 · 06/11/2020 07:56

Nope not seeing things that's deffo a line! So happy for you!!

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ArjaD · 06/11/2020 07:38

@Sungirl11 aw it's a lot take in. Really wish we could help on some way. It's like we've all become a family on here and we just want everyone to have their dream come true. My neighbour had a very low chance of a baby with ivf, but they now have three girls in the space of two years! (one is a set of twins) - so you never know!

ArjaD · 06/11/2020 07:21

Tell me I'm seeing things 😱

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Sungirl11 · 05/11/2020 20:40

@ArjaD i go up and down a lot! One moment i'm ok, the next i'm on the edge of break down...
I have informed myself about the options we have, I have been told it will be practically impossible to have babies naturally, we need IVF.
I have been asked for a lot more of tests (blood and gyne tests) before we can get treatment. So I will get this done and then will see if we are ready to do it. We have a 40% chance of success with IVF.
Will let you know what we do. Xx
Thank you for asking

ArjaD · 05/11/2020 19:04

@NicoleR14 aw sounds like me, ecwm already and sore boobs too. Guess the witch will have us both again this month😔 hubby due to ship out on the 20th so no more trying for us for four or five months. Ugh.

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NicoleR14 · 05/11/2020 18:41

@ArjaD it's terrible the pressure we put ourselves under! I haven't tested again but do have some ewcm but usually have some before af and also sensitive breasts so she could be ready to appear 🙄

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ArjaD · 05/11/2020 18:35

Aw sorry @NicoleR14 - - not over till she shows though! I'm 7dpo and of course couldn't control myself and got a bfn 🙄 why do we do it to ourselves..

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NicoleR14 · 05/11/2020 16:17

Hi ladies af is due today and bfn yesterday haven't tested today as I don't see a point! Going to see how I go and if af doesn't arrive before the 9th I shall test again but no doubt the witch is on her way 🙄

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