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Third thread for ttc!

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NicoleR14 · 21/04/2020 11:22

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

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dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 15:22

@Hogrider Thankyou ❤️xxx

@ArjaD @Bbutterfly @NicoleR14 thanks girls it really means a lot❤️ I have infact just gone and got a cold beer from the fridge and gonna have this and then a nap coz I'm exhausted. And the wine will for sure be coming out tonight! Honestly what a fucked up journey this ttc really is!! Xxx

Runnergirl1 · 22/04/2020 15:14

@dizzy85 that’s totally understandable. Hopefully they figure out what’s going on.

@Hogrider - it’s horrible just wish by body cycle was ‘normal’ as if this whole thing isn’t hard enough

NicoleR14 · 22/04/2020 15:07

@dizzy85 I'm so so sorry to hear that hun❤️ if there's anything we can do for you please let us know I'm heartbroken for you xx

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Bbutterfly · 22/04/2020 14:42

@dizzy85 I agree with a glass of wine is what you need right now! If you want one have one. I'd have done the same for sure @ArjaD xx

Hogrider · 22/04/2020 14:33

@dizzy85 So sorry to hear ❤️

@Runnergirl1 Right there with you. Currently on CD43 with no AF... all BFN so far...

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 14:31

@Runnergirl1 yer I hope so too. I won't start trying again now until I've had tests coz I can't keep going through this.
Hope you get your positive opk soon xx

ArjaD · 22/04/2020 14:30

@dizzy85 I'd say the least you deserve is a glass of wine... Think I'd tan a bottle of rum if it was me. 😔 Hopefully they can rectify whatever the issue is quite quickly xxxx

Runnergirl1 · 22/04/2020 14:26

@dizzy85 - hopefully you will have some answers soon enough and then you can move forward and try again

@GemmaMay3291 - it’s awful atm it’s disappointing when it says nooooo! I just don’t know when it’s coming. I haven’t been doing that no and this month is the first month doing OPKs. I usually know when it’s here due to my CM but that hasn’t happened either yet

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 14:25

@Bbutterfly Thankyou ❤️ it is heartbreaking, I'm considering having a large glass of wine tonight to help deal with the pain of the cramps they are getting stronger 😞 but I dunno if that's a sensible idea or not but it would definitely help calm my mind if anything else. Xxx

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 14:22

@Donnat89 @ArjaD @Runnergirl1 Thankyou all ❤️ I am devastated to be honest but not shocked as I just had that gut feeling something wasn't right. I will definitely be getting them to do tests now as they told me after the first they won't investigate until you've had 3 so that's the only positive to come out of this if anything is wrong hopefully they will find out. Thankyou, just having your support on here helps so much so I appreciate that a lot xxx

Bbutterfly · 22/04/2020 14:19

Oh @dizzy85 so sorry. Heartbroken for you. My wishes for a speedy recovery. I hope the cramps ease off and don't cause you too much pain. Really sorry. Xxx

GemmaMay3291 · 22/04/2020 14:15

@Runnergirl1 I went through very similar until this month where I’ve actually had flashing smileys on OPK then static smiley and then AF arrived 15DPO.

I feel your pain as I was also testing everyday with no clue where in my cycle I actually was until AF arrived. Are tracking your BBT? Xx

Runnergirl1 · 22/04/2020 14:10

@dizzy85 - so sorry to hear this. Awful news x

ArjaD · 22/04/2020 14:10

@dizzy85 oh God no, I'm so sorry 😢 I hope they can give you some clarity at some point as to why this keeps happening. If there's anything any of us can do for you let us know. Thinking of you xxx

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 14:07

@dizzy85 I'm so sorry to hear this how heartbreaking for you , do you plan on seeing a doctor after this to try and have further investigations done ?

I really hope you have no complications and recover quickly I'm so sorry

Thinking of you xxxx

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 14:05

Hey all, sorry I didn't reply yesterday my hormones have been all over the place, I've not read through everything yet but hope everyone is ok, I will catch up properly soon.

Anyway thought I'd tell you that miscarriage is 100% happening. I got woke up at half 5 this morning to full on blood and now getting strong cramps blood and small clots so far. I'm obviously heartbroken but I'm also scared incase I have to go to the hospital or anything but I'm hoping as it's early there won't be any complications this time and it'll be over soon so please keep everything crossed for me that I at least get that🤞🏻. Shit body of mine 3 miscarriages in the space of 9months now😫xxx

Runnergirl1 · 22/04/2020 13:53

Sick as a chip atm. So like I’ve mentioned before my periods are all over the place. Currently on cd19 and still big negatives on the OPKs driving me mad now. We are still DTD every other day but I really want to know I’m ovulating so o can try then move onto the 2weeks wait until af turns up. Anyone else go through this every month?
Thank

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 13:45

@ArjaD thanks hun I'm trying to not be all doom and gloom but also not get too excited I just wish this delivery would hurry up ! Any other time they come before lunch !

Xxx

ArjaD · 22/04/2020 13:41

@Donnat89 I'm still hopeful for you, you got a line before so I'm really hoping it stuck ❤️❤️❤️🤞and for @NicoleR14 too, it can't be coincidence!

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 13:02

That's made no sense 🤣🤣 I meant wait for AF and next cycle x

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 13:01

@ArjaD thanks for that I did one earlier as AF die today and BFN so not feeling too hopeful thinking AF may just be late again

Will still test again using FRER when they arrive but prepared for a BFN .
Least il know either way by the end of the day and of BFN can just wait for BFN and next cycle ! X

ArjaD · 22/04/2020 12:58

@Donnat89 my cheapies didn't get positive till the day my af was due, and even then they were faint..

Hopefulmummie · 22/04/2020 12:57

Hi looking some advice. AF due on Friday and I never really get cramps but have been getting what I think are cramps today. But uterus feels very heavy and pains in my leg and back. Don't know if this could be pregnancy signs too. Also by BBT has stayed elevated.

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 12:52

@NicoleR14 that's what I'm thinking too though as the one I did the other day BFN not even a sniff of a line and yesterday although faint there was a line plus no AF today makes me wonder but I could just be late again . The 2 where from the same
Packet so I just don't know

Clear blues are not that sensitive however given you got your first positive on FRER almost a week ago now it should
Show up , really your doctor should be giving you a blood test to check , not tell you to keep waiting I would be so pissed of at that

I'm just sat waiting for my delivery I want to get testing over and done with !

Xxx

NicoleR14 · 22/04/2020 12:46

@donnat89 that's the problem I've been having as the clear blue was completely neg! Wondering if my frer was right but how can you get 2 positive frers from different packets! My minds running wild atm 🙄

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