Third thread for ttc!

@dizzy85 aw I can't believe they are still making you wait. That's insane. 🤔
Af showed up for me yesterday, three days early. So that super obviously positive Co-op test I got was a dud as everything else had come up negative. Feeling very very low atm.

Hey ladies, just checking in to see how you all are? Have I missed much? I just read a couple of posts, @ArjaD oh I hope your ok, have you tested again? Xxx @Sungirl11 sorry your having a hard time too.xxx
I'm still waiting for an appointment it's been months now, we are trying to avoid getting pregnant until I've seen someone coz I'm too scared to lose another. I'm getting abit frustrated of waiting now though.
Hope everyone else is well xxx

@Lilliloo29 I know, thinking did I maybe have a chemical, or got extremely unlucky with bad tests 😞 sorry to hear about your af. It may not be though! Maybe it will taper off again 🤞🤞🤞

Those others were so clear @ArjaD maybe wait until you are late and retest?

I started what I think is af on Saturday. Minimal anything and more brown discharge rather than red blood but I was light last month. No idea what's wrong probably due to contraception previously.
Hope all you other ladies are okay. Any bfps? 🙏

Well ladies, trust me to have the dud tear two days ago.... Stark negative this morning on frer. Guess I got excited over nothing 😳 10dpo today.

I'm praying for you, goodluck and update, I still love this thread ! Can't bring myself to leave as your all so lovely xxxx

@Sungirl11 oh no, really hope your lab is OK 😢😢😢 that kind of thing is beyond stressing. Hoping at least there will be some positive news for you at least after hubby's test. It's been a long time coming, you deserve some positive stuff coming your way!

Aww. @ArjaD hope it's what it's meant to be ♥️♥️

My lab seazured this morning again 🙁 so my period just showed i believe because of my stress levels...
Wed hubs has his test so hopefully in a week we will have some answers.. 🙈

@shelly10111 yeah you're right. Hubby has said retest in the morning and wake him up so we can do it together, bless him ❤️

@ArjaD the pain in it is that sometimes it can also be a fertilised egg just passing through, which I had a lot, and you feel like your going mad, I do think that line is quite prominent Hun, maybe give it two days and retest with a cheapie xx

I'll retest tomorrow morning but suddenly I think I'm not pregnant at all and I got an evap this morning. And the positive tests two days ago may just have been faulty, it was also so early 😢

Hi ladies I've still been looking at the thread sending prayers for more bfp s!
@ArjaD I got a squinter at 7dpo! Mad but it was accurate dates too and positive clear blue digital at 9dp!

Hoping this is a good month for you ladies and hope everyone's well, currently 23weeks pregnant now with a very wriggly little boy xxx

Got nothing but a squinter on a frer this morning. It's there but SO faint. Very strange after that obvious positive yesterday. 😳

@Sungirl11 yeah mainland Europe is good for health care. I'm belgian and they are so good over there. Think I'm worried because I'll need to get the cvs test where they take a placenta sample again probably, as the risk of baby being ill again is always higher as it's happened before. That cvs was so sore 😩 plus there is a slight risk of miscarriage. I'm just hating the whole having to go through the tests and the waiting etc again, and the chances of it happening again.

@ArjaD depending on how much the NHS cares i might go to Spain for private treatment. As it's ridiculously cheaper.

I have two close friends in your situation and after the 3months scan they are much better. Before they were really worried, now as it all looks good they are enjoying it.
It will be hard at first.. but never loose hope! Rainbow babies are strong ones 🥰🥰

Honestly think if this is real and I'm pregnant again it will be nine months of constant worry. 😔

@Sungirl11 it's a cruel thing, this ttc. I'm hoping it won't be too long before someone approves you for some help. You think you'll go to Spain too for maybe ivf or fertility procedures or something, or will you stay here?

@ArjaD Yes, we have tried it. And everything else 🙁 nothing has worked...

@Sungirl11 only positive opk I got was on the 28th Aug, they are usually quite accurate for me. I'm worried maybe something is off, or twins maybe 😲😲😲😲
Aw I wish the system didn't require you to jump through all these hoops and just give you some help. Have you tried Preseed? I mean, the only two months we ever used it were the two months we fell pregnant.

@ArjaD maybe you ovulated before this time? Or implantation occurred before? Who knows.
I doubt i am pregnant.. as it's not working for us 🙁
We try but after all this time i'm sure we just need help...

@Sungirl11 yes I got a bfp at 10dpo last time, now even earlier. Shocked as this is our first cycle/ovulation after mmc. 😲😲😲😲
Feeling very peaceful today actually. Calm. Are you doing a test or waiting for af? Xx

Wow @ArjaD i saw your post yest and forgot to answer! I was just going to ask if you had tested this morning as i can't see anything on the other one!
But i can clearly see on this one!!
You did get a positive quite early the other time too didn't you??
Awwww i hope it is a nice sticky rainbow bean for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
I couldn't feel any happier! ♥️♥️

How are you feeling?

I'm starting to have breast pain but af is due in 2-3 days so normal symptoms for me.

Xx

@NicoleR14 @Sungirl11 @Lilliloo29 how are you guys doing?

And here's this morning's one 😳 about 8 or 9 dpo, 6 days till af is due. Seems early to get such a strong positive 😳

Well ladies, I caved at 7 or 8dpo this morning (depends on when I ovulated) and got a verrrry faint line. Now I'm worried my hormones are playing more tricks on me after miscarrying end of June. Uuuggghhhhh. Pics aren't great but there is a squinter there. 🙄 What to think huh!