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TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

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SmileyT · 19/04/2020 07:44

I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

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Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 08:07

@VP91 @renna

so wierd because they went dark like that yest afternoon so i thought oh ill do another cb incase iv done the same as u

@VP91 and peaked after the circle in the morning but nope it was still circle even with them dark opks ... anyway its still a circle today too so im confused now 🤷🏽‍♀️ why have the cheapies gone so dark but the cb is still the circle?
We dtd sat night and plan to do it every other night until my peak now then 3 days in a row miss a day and do it once again like smep x

Dipsy77 · 11/05/2020 07:35

@2020wish no and I don't think I will now as I don't see much point don't want to waste them I'll wait for AF x

2020wish · 11/05/2020 07:29

@VP91x ur completely right. I’m still within 48hrs until half 4 this afternoon. Feel a bit excited going into the tww again like I finally have another chance of pregnancy lol

@Dipsy77 have you tested

VP91x · 11/05/2020 07:23

@Dipsy77 I hope it isn't AF spotting for you. Xx

VP91x · 11/05/2020 07:22

@2020wish I know it says that you will get peak static for 48hours after your first one, so not to test. Depending on what time you got your first one are you still in that 48hr window? Xx

Dipsy77 · 11/05/2020 07:13

LP was 13 days last time x

Dipsy77 · 11/05/2020 07:03

@SmileyT it was 27 days but I spotted for about 5 days before AF started which is what's just started now ☹️ the cramps are making me feel sick so not looking promising x

2020wish · 11/05/2020 06:45

@Dipsy77 still in it until she arrives. Fingers crossed

It’s day three of getting peak ovulation static smiley on digital. Although my cheapies have curved from High on sat to peak on sun and back to high today. It’s that normal over 3 days of an LH surge?

SmileyT · 11/05/2020 06:28

@Dipsy77 how long was your LP last month? Hopefully it isn't AF coming yet, may just be cramps throwing you off x

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Dipsy77 · 11/05/2020 06:20

Look like I'm out I have cramps this morning and I've started spotting which is exactly what happened last cycle really wanted it to be this month as DP has really done his back in so will be a real struggle ttc next few months x

Renna · 11/05/2020 06:15

@Hayleylou89 oo lines look good .. may get your peak today ?? 😁👌 xxx

Rainbowhope11 · 11/05/2020 01:12

Thank you @SmileyT @VP91x @HE88 😘😘 Hubby and I both had a big cry, trying to just keep it together as we were around family today. Hopefully I can just move past it and put my all into trying again this week Xx

VP91x · 10/05/2020 23:22

Oh @Hayleylou89 they are! My test line never goes that dark! You still on blank circle? Hopefully you get your smiley over the next day or so. Are you DTD? Xx

SmileyT · 10/05/2020 22:51

Welcome @MrsBlue1986 and so sorry for your loss. My CM is a little sporadic so can't really advise you on that but it took me over 2 weeks to get a negative hpt (which is good to confirm so you know it's a new pg esp if testing early). As you were 4.5week your period would've only been delayed by a few days hopefully your cycle will return to normal straight away ❤️ 🌈 ❤️

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Hayleylou89 · 10/05/2020 22:12

@VP91 cycle buddies this month... im waiting for my static but iv had 3 circles so far 🙄 but my cheapies are getting strong now x

TTC after miscarriage - May 2020
Renna · 10/05/2020 21:54

@mrsblue1986 I found out end of February and had to have surgery 3rd march to have everything removed. So I'm currently in my 2nd proper cycle since the MC. Not including the couple of weeks after MC , I was tracking to see if I ovulated using the clear blue test kits but never got a peak. I think I still had the HCG hormone in my body 2 to 3 weeks after the surgery so messed up trying to track ovulation . The EPU told me to do a preg test to check the hcg hormone had gone as it can take 2 to 3 weeks to go back to normal. It took just over 2 weeks for the pg hormones to go down for me and get a negative test . Xx
You never know tbh everyone is different and our bodies are weird so DTD and you never know could get lucky 🤞🌈 fingers crossed for you xxx

MrsBlue1986 · 10/05/2020 21:43

@renna Hi, and thank you! Im so sorry to hear about you too, thats such terrible news. How long ago was that!?

I dont know if im going crazy, but today is 5 days since my miscarriage, after stopping bleeding on Friday - but TODAY i have noticed wet CM. Not sure if this is normal so soon? I normally get this a good week after a period. Surely im supposed to be dry now!?

Anyone else notice this!?!? Xx

Renna · 10/05/2020 21:39

@mrsblue1986 hi hun of course welcome to the thread xx so so sorry for your loss and to hear you had the virus xx I got to 11 weeks had a scan and saw a tiny little bean which was about the size of 9 weeks as its heart stopped around then xx we can never normally know why it happens but told a lot by professionals its because something was wrong and it's nothing we can have done about it ourselves xxxx it's very raw for you as soon recent and it's tough xxx we all know how you're feeling xx sending hugs xxx you deffo can ovulate 2 weeks after MC and some ladies do get pregnant again straight away so it can happen . Focusing on trying again is what a lot us wanted to do to help with the pain and feel productive xxx be kind to yourself and sending you lots of luck for trying again xxxxxx

Hope everyone else okay this eve xxxxx

MrsBlue1986 · 10/05/2020 21:12

Hi all. Hope you dont mind me joining?.

I had a miscarriage on Wednesday, at 4.5 weeks. Im 33 and it was our first pregnancy, after trying for a couple of months. No idea how... im guessing from maybe because i had a fever from coronavirus shortly after last months ovulation.

I was absolutely gutted, which has just been made worse just finding out some of our friends have announced their pregnancy!!😭

So my miscarriage bleeding lasted less than 4 days (ended yesterday) and i am usually regular at 28 days. My question is... is it likely I will ovulate this month, and if so, is it likely or possible we could get pregnant again this month?.. xx

SmileyT · 10/05/2020 19:14

@VP91x yay to a smily face

@Dipsy77 really hoping AF stays away, before I got my BFP last time I was sure my period was starting because I had cramps like they were starting so definitely not out yet

@Rainbowhope11 sorry you are feeling shitty, it can be so hard to see the future you'd mapped out but just remember soon it will be your time for the announcement.

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HE88 · 10/05/2020 18:51

Hi @Mommybear05 I'm feeling fine today thanks for asking. 6dpo today not really feeling anything this cycle during tww so not sure if this is a good or bad sign. Xx

@Lollipop93 congratulations on your bfp lovely news 😊. Xx

@Rainbowhope11 sorry you are feeling a bit down today it sucks to have someone in the family announce their pregnancy I know exactly how you are feeling. Xx

VP91x · 10/05/2020 18:30

@Rainbowhope11 have a little cry (or a big cry) let yourself feel sad and then tomorrow is a new day and although you might still feel sad hopefully you feel a little better 😘 maybe you can have a little pamper day/evening tomorrow? X

@Donnat89 that's good so you're definitely still in it 😊 good to try and keep relaxed xx

@HE88 hopefully it stays away!! Lots of threads say on the month that didn't have any symptoms they got a BFP. Xx

Rainbowhope11 · 10/05/2020 18:26

Thank you @VP91x 😘 yup, I'll just have to try try again. It's just so hard to try and keep my emotions together today.

Donnat89 · 10/05/2020 18:23

@VP91x yea all is Oki now just been a very hectic week !

Yes it does only take once so not completely out as did manage DTD a few times so we will see !

I'm not stressing at the moment just relaxing and seeing what happens xxx

Dipsy77 · 10/05/2020 18:19

I'm going to test Wednesday if I get there before AF shows up I'm just not feeling it though and usually I have a niggle both times now I have had and I was right I hate this wait it's soul destroying wish I was drinking I'd have a large one lol x

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