TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

@Hayleylou89 really hoping she comes in the next couple of days. If not here by the middle of next week I'll call the doctors and see if I can have some bloods done. Still feeling and look bloated all day so hormones are definitely out of whack I think. Does iron levels affect things? I'm taking multi vits so hopefully getting all the right nutrients xx

@francis05 i lost quite alot of blood and had retained placenta and had to have surgery after the birth so i just wanted to make sure my iron and everything was back to normal xx

@francis05 It took me 6 weeks to get my first AF after my loss so try not to stress too much ... she could just be around the corner for u to start a fresh, have u had bloods done, i got bloods done just make sure everything was back to normal xx

@renna sound like u had a awful time with ur mc, I know just need to tell myself it will be our turn again soon, I still cnt face social media cos there are just too many pregnant ppl around me at the min and the closer to my due date the worse im feeling but i need to think this month could be our month and its only 2 month ttc! ... no the ava hasnt arrived yet im gutted, royal mail are really delayed recently and thats where its coming from ... fingers crossed its here tomorrow, made up iv lost 4lb this week from being healthy and going on bike rides and stuff so thats def making me feel better and our loft conversion should def be done early next week 🙏 so a nice new bedroom ready for fertile week 💪 haha x

@SmileyT yay to ur static !! Get bding and into ur tww my lady :) xx

@JoandLily yeah id get some cheapies they are good to use alongside cb if the test line is as dark or darker than the control line ur at ur peak or heading towards it so it gives u a bit of a heads up xx

You’re welcome @SmileyT and woohoo to the peak!!

@JoandLily argh! Fingers crossed for that peak tomorrow! 🤞🏻

Hi all how is everyone today?

Does anyone ever feel like they are coming down with a cold on the lead up to ovulation. Today I've had a sore throat, head and feel a bit crap. I remember feeling like this the cycle I fell pregnant around about ovulation time and I've experienced it a few other times as well. Is due to hormones anyone know? Xx

@SmileyT flashing smiley again, hoping tomorrow morning I get the static!

@Terribleimagination I got the flashing high fertility again...keeping my fingers crossed it's peak tomorrow morning 🤞

@Tink20058 thanks so much! Hoping I get the solid smiley over the weekend so I can get cracking 🤞

@Hayleylou89 no I haven't got any cheapies, never used them maybe I should get some. I always think they look complicated and hard to understand 🙈

I am now 4 + 2 but so anxious about another loss. Had two previous. I have zero symptoms

Hi, I had a mc April too and also used clear blue. Could not believe the first day I tested I got the non flashing face!

@JoandLily hi 👋 I started the clear blue ovulation this month after miscarriage early April and had 9 flashey faces and finally got a solid on day 10 I did buy some cheaper tests to use in the afternoon too I was obsessed with it in the end hope you get your solid soon xx

@Hayleylou89 hi hun xx I've not let it get to me tbh, at the time I was like ugh wtf.. but was literally just that one bit ... tbh as I had ERPC surgery and I lost 600ml of blood when the usual is 50ml and I passed a lump of tissue last AF I think they may have like wounded me a bit on my uterus lining or something. Obvs not like fully perforated or anything as that would be a bad injury but maybe they like injured/cut me inside and why I lost so much blood in surgery and now when I have AF it's a bit odd and maybe like opening up old wounds kinda thing like any other cut you have on your body I guess.. what I'm telling myself any way! But yeah i guess it was within the time of like how long AF would normally last and the exercise/ DTD probably brought it on.
Sorry you're having a down day babe . It's so expected to be up and down . My god my mood this time last week was BAD I kept crying and felt so low. I've managed to pick myself up again this week and try focus on other things too as I was just going crazy. But also trying to tell myself its okay to have days where I'm down and let myself be upset rather than getting annoyed with myself. This will undoubtedly be a hard month for you no matter what . I just hope it goes quick for you and is a positive one xxxxx
Has your ava bracelet arrived ? If so how is it ? Xxx

@Renna sorry to hear about ur random bleed tbh i had a 6 day period which was rather annoying kept stopping and starting too! Guess r bodies are trying to adjust back... im feeling a bit low today think because its a new month and i should have been having my baby in a few weeks...plus im still ages away from my fertile week 😞 x

@JoandLily Hey lovely... i started using clearblue connected last month but started testong earlier than it said and had tones of flashing faces before the peak however if i had listened to the app id have only had about 7 flashing ones before my peak... are you using any cheapies to compare ? X

@TerribleImagination it's the worst isn't it! Trying to keep myself occupied so I don't have to think about it 😂 I'm desperate now...literally counting down the minutes!

@JoandLily That’s the WORST isn’t it!! Cos I had so many days of it this month, it was torture holding in a wee for 4 hours every day!

Many thanks for your replies, I'm just waiting now so I can test at 2pm, got to hold my wee in another 1.5 hours 😩

@JoandLily I’ve used the clear blue sticks for a while now and the number of days of flashing smilies varies month to month. The least I’ve had before a peak is 1 and the most was this month, which was 6 days!

Try not to worry about it, you’ll get your peak 🥰 Just remember to test again later in the day on your flashing smiley days, I’ve always picked up my peak that way. I’ve never had one with FMU.

Hi ladies can I join please! I had a MMC at the end of last year and have been TTC again since January...I've bought pre seed and clearblue connected as I'm desperate to conceive again asap. I've had flashing smiley faces on the clearblue for 3 days now, can I ask how many of these you had before getting your peak?