Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

984 replies

SmileyT · 19/04/2020 07:44

I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

OP posts:
Thread gallery
58
Renna · 13/05/2020 15:46

@@Hayleylou89 or if you got the dip then the rise in temping you can say the day you got the dip was ovualtion so 1dpo is the day after ? Xx

Renna · 13/05/2020 15:45

Hey @Hayleylou89 xx I got my first peak reading on the 6th, so the app says I ovulated on the 7th so classed 8th as 1dpo. So I think probably the 2nd day after you got your first peak positive opk reading is 1dpo? If that makes sense xx

2020wish · 13/05/2020 15:29

I’m not 100%sure myself. I got my peak on the 9th so I thought the 10th would of been ovulation day for me making me 3DPO. But going by the temp drop on my bbt it’s saying 11th was ovulation day making me 2 dpo. But then again I can never temp at the same time every day due to different factors interrupting sleep lol so I dunno how accurate that is

Hayleylou89 · 13/05/2020 15:23

Hey girls how are we all!

I dont know whether im 1 dpo or not my NC App say tomorrow but the glow app says im 1 dpo today 😏 how do u know? Xxx

Renna · 13/05/2020 12:18

@2020wish I am 6dpo, CD19. Haha I'm working from home so cant really go to bed unless I take my laptop with me 😂 gonna go for a walk in my lunch too. Hoping it refreshes me . Xx enjoy your nap 😂😁

2020wish · 13/05/2020 12:15

@renna where are you in ur cycle again? I’m back in bed 😂 thinking if i take another quick nap and then maybe get up for a walk lol

Renna · 13/05/2020 11:48

@2020wish ugh yes .. dont know if its after ovualtion or just coincidence but I'm struggling to get out of bed 😴 keep snoozing lol xx

2020wish · 13/05/2020 11:32

Think I’m day 2/3 DPO. Anyone else ever notice fatigue after ovulation? Last week I was waking every morning at around 5am and up for the day. This week since Sunday I’m in bed earlier and struggling to get out of bed til after 10am. It’s half 11 now and I’m ready to go back to bed 🤣🤣 how is everyone today

VP91x · 13/05/2020 09:53

@Mommybear05 I'm glad you are feeling better today! At least that part of your cycle is done with.

I'm doing okay today! I had another temp drop this morning so wondering if thats indicative of something and still waiting for my peak but we DTD last night so all good xx

Mommybear05 · 13/05/2020 09:47

@VP91x yes it’s true I am feeling better again today thanks. And af has stopped. So strange- heavy for a day and then spotting for two days. Never has the bleeding only lasted three days for me before! So crazy at the moment! But it wasn’t meant and it’s a fresh cycle for me 😊 How are you doing? Xx

Mommybear05 · 13/05/2020 09:45

@SmileyT yes I know what you mean I am overthinking things and just need to stop. You get like that sometimes don’t you. Yes it’s tru I didn’t have any symptoms before testing last time either. I’ll be thinking of you! Xx

Mommybear05 · 13/05/2020 09:40

@HE88 yes this will be my first cycle since completely stopping breastfeeding and although I did manage to get pregnant whilst breastfeeding I had no periods for 13 months so I know for sure it was messing with my cycles! I’m hoping this first month since stopping completely will be lucky for me 🤞 how are you today? Xx

Renna · 13/05/2020 09:32

Anyone taking calc fluor... how are you getting on with it?
Last couple days I've felt sick and a bit like gassy yano when you sound like your constantly growling lol like it comes up to your throat .. just feel a bit groggy and I'm wondering if it could be that as I've been taking it like 4 days now and not taken it before. Not sure what else it could be unless I've eaten something funny 🤔🤷‍♀️ xx
Hope everyone okay today x 🌈 x

VP91x · 13/05/2020 09:28

@Sallyjo27 ah yeah, you can re-use the reader! It keeps the baseline and 'remembers' from previous month which is clever. It's annoying you can't just buy the sticks on their own considering that you can re-use the reader xx

Sallyjo27 · 13/05/2020 09:24

@vp91x it was an old reader that I used last month. I ran out of sticks in the end so bought a new one for this month. But that makes sense lol thank you better get DTD then! X

VP91x · 13/05/2020 09:13

@Sallyjo27 because a new reader will have showed you blank circle for its first reading regardless! As it takes it as a baseline. Your peak on CB would still be right because it predicts ov within 48hrs. So lines getting darker would mean the IC is picking up on it now too. Xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 09:10

@Sallyjo27 did you use a new reader for that one? Xx

Sallyjo27 · 13/05/2020 08:56

@Dipsy77 my cycle was all over the place the first 2 months, this month it seems a bit more settled. Your not a bad mum xx

Well this morning my the tests are even more weird! Clearblue is a ⭕️ (I’ve got a spare digi reader) and the internet cheapie is a bit darker 😂🙄

TTC after miscarriage - May 2020
mumoftwobeauts · 13/05/2020 08:29

@Dipsy77 channel 612 for us 😂 you are not a bad mum! I wouldn't cope without some tv time haha x

VP91x · 13/05/2020 07:43

@Dipsy77 dont be silly, you're not a bad mum. The day gets balanced out in the end. Xx

Dipsy77 · 13/05/2020 07:31

@VP91x yes paw patrol here too channel 620 is a saviour at the minute god I'm such a bad mum 7 month and she's a telly addict she knows what the remotes for and stares me out till I turn tv over
Xx

Rainbowhope11 · 13/05/2020 06:59

It so weird, because two days ago I was thinking, I can't bear to wait another minute to try and conceive again after waiting almost 7 weeks for my Hcg levels to drop and to get my first AF. I was calculating my dates and figured that I would probably only be in my fertile week next week sometime, and I was trying to figure out what to do to pass the time. Ah I guess I have to be thankful for the little blessings @SmileyT 😊 how are you doing? Xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 06:49

@Rainbowhope11 ah those are all good signs if flashing and having EWCM too! Our bodies are so funny aren't they. Hopefully you get your static soon too even if it is earlier than usual! Xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 06:47

@Dipsy77 ah, I hope it starts properly for you today so that you can have a fresh start to your month and get that bottle of wine open!

Haha, bless her. My little one is obsessed with Paw Patrol, keeps her in one place for a little while whilst I get some coffee and wake up a bit more 😴😴 xx

Rainbowhope11 · 13/05/2020 06:46

Sorry @SmileyT I meant I usually have about 5 days of flashy smileys, but they usually start from about cycle day 10/11 or so. I'm not sure how many I will get this time around, but smiley flashy's from day 7 is unusual for me. I'm seeing lots of ewcm though, so I'm just going to dtd every day to make sure I give myself a chance.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.

Swipe left for the next trending thread