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TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

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SmileyT · 19/04/2020 07:44

I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

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Hayleylou89 · 08/05/2020 12:22

Just seen ur pic 🙄 are they the 6 x ones? X

Hayleylou89 · 08/05/2020 12:21

@renna I will order some too what version did u get it says to get 6x potency but i dnt know what ones they are on amazon x

VP91x · 08/05/2020 11:59

@Renna ah thank you! Will have a look now xx

Renna · 08/05/2020 11:55

@vp91x this is the one I've ordered xxx search : Schuessler Calc Fluor Tablets - Pack of 125 on Amazon. Says itll come tomorrow if you order today on prime xxxx

TTC after miscarriage - May 2020
VP91x · 08/05/2020 11:43

@Renna what one did you get? Sorry if you posted a pic before!

@Hayleylou89 ah such a shame, hope it arrives soon xx

Renna · 08/05/2020 11:38

@Hayleylou89 I ordered it off amazon prime yesterday and it's coming tomorrow xx hope your ava comes soon ! Xxx

Renna · 08/05/2020 11:27

@2020wish the fertility homeopath says to take it after ovualtion for the TWW and take it twice a day so I'm going to take in the morning at breakfast then at dinner. Xx
@vp91x I'm not an expert but from what I've researched it doesnt say anything about changing your cycle . I think because it's all natural minerals and not something that affects hormones it shouldnt affect your cycle from what I have read. I'm gonna start taking it tomorrow so I'll keep you posted ! X x

Hayleylou89 · 08/05/2020 10:24

@VP91x they sent it on the 28th and i called royal mail and they basically have an extra week on top to get it delivered 😒 bloody pain but nothing i can do but wait and hope it arrives before ovulation so i can at-least see some data this cycle x

VP91x · 08/05/2020 08:56

@Hayleylou89 ah can't believe you're still waiting. When did they send it? It a shame they didn't use a courier instead of RM.

@SmileyT yeah it is good to be bothered about something else so that it occupies your mind for sure. But still, I hope you feel tons better today! That's sweet that he tries to know as much info about it too! My partner listens to some what I say but mostwhe just says that I know what I'm doing and he will follow my lead 😂

Xx

Hayleylou89 · 08/05/2020 08:26

@renna wow those progression lines are so good, my temp went up quite a bit today just under the cover line which is odd so i decided to start my clear blue and got the ⭕️ today so will use cheapies alongside and see how i get on seeing them progress over the weekend x

Where did u get the calc flor? Did it fet delivered quite quick im still waiting for me ava 🙄 x x

SmileyT · 08/05/2020 08:17

@2020wish hope it goes well with the Drs I'm sure they will understand you needing more time, are work pretty sympathetic. I know we are all different but I actually ended up telling people at work because the avoiding why I was off made it more stressful for me. L'arginine is supposed to be good throughout cycle as it increases blood supply to ovaries and uterus, 1000mg tablets are also in my amazon basket ready to press purchase if AF arrives 😂 hopefully the tears are a good sign but I've promised myself I won't symptom spot as I had nothing until about 5 weeks in last pg and don't want to set myself up for disappointment. Enjoy your little snooze xx

@Mommybear05 ahh I'm so glad you are doing well and staying calm. You are so right, stressing and testing early won't change the outcome but it will be the best feeling when you get those FRER out and you know it'll be a nice strong line, so no doubt afterwards. I'm exactly the same, I reckon AF is due around the 17th but I won't test until the 20th if it hasn't arrived.

@VP91x no i actually didn't see anything sad but work was really busy and sometimes I leave the office and it all just gets on top of me, for the first time in a while I think I was actually stressed about something that wasn't ttc so maybe I should take that as a plus. OH was like 'do you think it's because your happy hormones reduce in the 2nd half of your cycle' bless him he really does try and engage with this whole thing 😂 hope you get your static smily soon, I know it happened to me this cycle and it's all fine but it's bloody frustrating testing every morning and seeing that ⭕️

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VP91x · 08/05/2020 08:08

@Mommybear05 Ah, that will be nice that he will be home next week! 😊

Yeah all good to get lots of DTD in luckily. Following SMEP so BD is scheduled for today 😂 xx

Rainbowhope11 · 08/05/2020 07:49

@Mommybear05 yup, it was such a relief to see AF. I'm kinda of glad I didn't conceive straight after MC (even though I was trying), because now that I think about it, the stress of being unsure of dates and falling/rising Hcg levels would have probably been too much for me. I'm just trying to do all that I can to maximize chances of conceiving, but I also feel more at peace with myself now after getting my first AF.

I'm tracking bbt and will also be doing clearblue opk, cheapie OPKs and will do my usual cm tracking as well. I'm using two apps now, Ovia and Fertility friend (shows better bbt charts than Ovia).

Are you tracking at all? Xx

Mommybear05 · 08/05/2020 07:45

@VP91x not really had any symptoms! Just waiting to see what happens! Hubby is off work next week now as well so that will be good to have him home for the last bit of my 2ww. Fertile time for you! Will you and dp have fair opportunity for the deed? X

2020wish · 08/05/2020 07:44

@SmileyT I’m feeling ok but have to ring my gp to request another sick line so I’ll let you know later haha
Oh I remember feeling really emotional and teary in my tww when i conceived last time, maybe something’s happening? I got up at 5am this morning also with DH. Going to have some breakfast and back to bed hope you feel better

@VP91xnim not sure, only heard about them when Rena had mentioned them. I hope not lol

Anyone heard of using l’arginine for helping with implantation?

Dipsy77 · 08/05/2020 07:44

My main symptom is I get really shiny nails they look like I have put clear nail varnish on, usually my nails are really flaky and weak, nothing so far but I'll have to wait and see, I also get crampy and the cat won't leave me alone when she usually doesn't bother me x

Mommybear05 · 08/05/2020 07:43

@Dipsy77 glad you are feeling good in your 2ww. Me too with the being calm! When I was pg before no symptoms until I was six weeks so why bother driving myself mad haha. My fingers are crossed for you x

Mommybear05 · 08/05/2020 07:41

@SmileyT hi good to hear from you. So you’re in the 2ww? How are you feeling? No I’ve promised myself this time I will definitely wait if af doesn’t show. I’ve got two shiny new frer tests in the cupboard if I need them. I don’t want to waste them on a bfn! I’m just keeping very busy and really trying not to think of all this and it’s doing me well I think! Dtd loads around when I assume I ovulated and every other day too so can’t do more than that haha. What about you will you test or wait?

VP91x · 08/05/2020 07:39

@Mommybear05 ah I hope it is IB, have you had another other symptoms at all?

I am doing okay! 😊Looks like I am in fertile window and gearing up to Ovulate xxx

Mommybear05 · 08/05/2020 07:38

@Hayleylou89 hi! Not sure what day po I am as I’ve not really been tracking. I did think maybe ib last month and I googled lots. It all amounted to nothing so I’m not going to bother this time! Won’t change the outcome! Your time is coming up soon now then! Is your bedroom finished yet?

@Rainbowhope11 haha get some energy drinks I love that! So glad af showed for you. It’s a real step in the right direction. I hope the bloods come back good for you! Are you going to be tracking ovulation?

Mommybear05 · 08/05/2020 07:35

@HE88 hi! You’re in your tww too. How are you getting on? When will you test? I’m very unfamiliar with my cycles but last month my first post mc was 31 days so who knows?

@VP91x aw thanks for thinking of me! How are you? Spotting exactly the same as last time just two drops of bright red! Pretty much the same day as last month too.

@Sallyjo27 thanks for sharing that looks really interesting. I’ve also been having random spotting between periods and sore boobs. I just want everything to settle down! Hope you’re ok.

VP91x · 08/05/2020 07:31

@2020wish @Renna do they affect your cycle at all? Or is it just to support implantation? I know some of the supplements lengthen LP etc.

@Dipsy77 hopefully you start getting some symptoms soon! 😊

@SmileyT ah yes you did! I'm going to do a couple of extra IC ones today to see if there is any line progression. But yeah, SMEP should catch it all.

I'm sorry you felt sad yesterday. Did you read or see anything that may have caused it? Yeah, do lots of things that you enjoy today and hopefully it lifts your spirits. Xx

SmileyT · 08/05/2020 07:22

Cycle twin @Dipsy77 👋 I'm glad you are feeling good, if you get any signs that is only 4 sleeps until you can test 🤞 what symptoms have you had before?

@2020wish how are you feeling today?

@VP91x these definitely sound like positive signs you are in your fertile window I went straight from blank circle to static and I've concluded (based on no real evidence) that my oestrogen may have been too high when I started testing for it to catch an oestrogen surge but it still caught the lh surge. Good thing with SMEP is you don't have to worry you've missed it 🙌🏾

6dpo for me and had a little cry last night for no real reason, this morning I got up with DP when he went for work at 5.30am so think I'm going to head back to bed, meditate and enjoy a day not having to walk into work. Maybe finally start the sinner later or finish afterlife ☺️

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Dipsy77 · 08/05/2020 06:55

I've always got a positive by 10dpo I think I implant early so I probably will test if I get any symptoms if not I'll wait xx

2020wish · 08/05/2020 06:52

Ordered the cal flour on amazon for prime Sunday delivery. Excited to try them @Renna. Do you know how much and how often we take them?

I’m due to ovulate either this weekend or early next week.

How’s everyone today

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