TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

Hey @Dipsy77 do you think you will test tomorrow with your FRERs or still wait until Wednesday?

@Donnat89 hope everything is okay? Fingers crossed for you even though you aren't hopeful. It only takes one! X

@Rainbowhope11 really sorry you're having a bad day. That must have been so horrible to see even if you were expecting an announcement at some point. Just have to think that you will have another go at trying again for your rainbow baby and it won't be long until you too can have that joy. Sending you lots of hugs xxx

My post doesn't make sense but I think you get the idea lol x

Ladies, I'm feeling pretty shitty today 🙁 a family member who found out she was pregnant at the same that I did, just posted her news on social media today on Mother's Day. Our babies would have been born around the same date. I knew about her pregnancy so this isn't a shock to me, but when I saw the photo of their ultrasound scan, that just sliced through me like a knife 😫 I'm thrilled for them, but this is just killing me that I'm on day 5 of my period when I should have also been announcing my news to everyone😢

Hi ladies sorry I haven't been around much I've had a lot of family stuff going on so literally haven't had time to even breath only dawned on me that I was like 4DPO or something in not even sure OPKS went out the window with everything going on so I'm just playing the waiting game and highly doubt this month is my month !

I've a feeling AF may be due early for me too, any symptoms I thought I had are no longer there and I just feel like any symptoms I thought I had have disappeared and the tell tale cramps have arrived x

Ahhh ladies I just got my flashing smiley! Finally! It was blank this morning. So one step closer to that static. Xx

Haha, I will be the same if I get a positive. Trying all different brands 😂 xx

@Lollipop93 Congratulations!! What wonderful news! You sound like me with the 3 tests haha😂 last pregnancy, I couldn't believe that it was positive, I kept doing tests every other day for a week😂

@Mommybear05 I'm sorry that AF got you! I hope that everything settles down for you soon hun Xx

Ahhh @lollipop93 congratulations!😊 Glad you got your BFP.

I am on CD12 and following SMEP this month xx

@Hayleylou89 ooh sounds exciting. And I love a new carpet haha. I’m glad he’s on board :) here’s hoping that new bedroom brings you luck xx

@Mommybear05 Ah yeah it will be those big changes affecting you, fingers crossed for next cycle for u 🤞🏻... im ok and keeping busy with the house things, although its pretty much nearly done now so my tww will be a long one with not much other than work to keep my mind occupied x im still a few days away from ovulation but really looking forward to dtd this month as the hubby is fully on board this time as iv not pressured him one bit... yet anyway hahaa x

@Renna Men cant find things full stop never mind space in the fridge, They just open a cupboard to looknfor things and expect to see it without having to move something out the way it winds me up when i ask my dh to find somethin.

Im just cooking a roast for us and the kids now while hes finishing off last bits in the loft as the carpet goes down tomorrow 🥰 then we just need our bed to get delivered otherwise we will be dtd on a mattress up there 🤦🏽‍♀️ or in our current bedroom but really want to be in the loft by the end of the week before ovualtion thats the goal haha 🙏

@Lollipop93 that’s wonderful news. Congratulations 🥳

@Lollipop93 congrats xx

@lollipop93 congrats!!! Woohoo

I know hahah go from none to three. Started with one internet cheapy and it came back with two lines and didn’t believe it so did another IC and one CB lol. Still early days.

Update: just did three tests and all came back positive... it’s still so early though I’m scared to get my hopes up!

@HE88 thank you. Yes that’s all you can do isn’t it? How are you today? Xx

@Hayleylou89 thanks Hayley. I have been on those for ages. The purple ones you mean? I think it’s just a perfectly normal combination of the mc and then stopping bf has made my body crazy haha. It’s just not my time and I don’t want to be down.
How are you feeling? Xx

Aw @Mommybear05 sorry af got you just take this a fresh start for a new cycle xx

Hey @VP91xVP91x

No not did a test yet. I feel like I don’t want the disappointment. With my last pregnancy I didn’t get a positive until like a week past my missing period so I feel like if I test now there is no chance. This is my first month temping too... I think it was good to see when ovulation happened but now I just feel like the temps are stressing me out lol what do you think.

@SmileyT thanks so much for replying. I didn’t know that’s what that meant on FF however I haven’t always been putting the temps in to FF at the same time everyday because I use Natural cycles first and when I was looking online I noticed people used FF To get a better graph. I have been waking up at different times so it is entirely possible that the temps aren’t completely accurate but maybe that’s me holding on to the little bit of positivity left lol. I wonder if there is an option on NC to see what time u chart?

Where is everyone else in their cycles/tww?

@Hayleylou89 haha I know arent we all crazy haha
.. hes annoying me this morning any way so I'm no longer in the mood lmao. Why do men just like aimlessly look into a fridge saying theres no room to fit something in ... why can only women move things around in the fridge and make things fit I dont know... 😂😂🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
I tell him it's the fertile week coming up but dont tell him exactly when it starts and finishes and I did tell him on the day that I got the static . And I dont plan to do it every other day or whatever I just think we both make a conscious effort to DTD more up to the peak then on the peak we both know we should DTD that day and day after .
Yeahhh we may DTD later but I'm not too worried as when I got pg in December we literally only DTD the 2 days over peak so 🤷‍♀️
Yup you have well and truly covered every thing this month. Just DTD left to cover next week 👌🤞 xx
Deffo handy not having the step kids around lol. Were not seeing my step son at the mo he has to stay at his mums for 3 months as considered high risk as he has had leukaemia.. he is cured but still high risk :) so we miss him but making it easier for DTD on weekends!
Deffo think reverse psych works on men haha xxx

Hey @lollipop93 have you done a test at all? This is my first month temping but I think I have read as long as it says high above coverline then you are still in. Xx