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TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

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SmileyT · 19/04/2020 07:44

I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

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Renna · 15/05/2020 10:17

Hi hun @Donnat89 this thread is pretty much full so everyone moved over to part 2 , someone posted the link further back xxx hope you and your family are okay xx fingers crossed for you I'm 8dpo so close to you :) AF due thurs/friday next week xx

Kangaroo77 · 15/05/2020 10:16

Morning all. Hello @Donnat89 I'm 5 dpo (I think, wasn't tracking ovulation with sticks consistently this month but pretty sure I'm around 5 days past).

Was just thinking I'm feeling no different. It's my 2nd cycle after tfmr. I've been pregnant 5 times so I know my 'signs' but at the mo there are zilch.

I've already written this month off 😂. Defence mechanism maybe. How are you feeling?

Any more in the gorgeous 2ww 😆??

Donnat89 · 15/05/2020 09:35

Hey ladies how is everyone ?

I'm 9DPO today and I'm not tempted to test yet hoping to hold out until AF is due which is Wednesday so we will see !

I've had Back ache and been quite moody last few days so I'm pretty certain AF is on the way just hoping to remain chilled for the next few days and get through this TWW without feeling like a crazy woman lol !

Xxx

Mommybear05 · 13/05/2020 19:57

@HE88 I know what you mean about testing! I got a pack of two frer tests and I’m determined to get my bfp on them! I want to wait until af is late next time, although with my cycles all over the place I have no idea what late is! Haha x

Hayleylou89 · 13/05/2020 18:56

@Sallyjo27 yeah it does that every month so i thought that was def when i ovulate ( 2 days after peak) but If it dips then rises that shows iv ovulated already, will dtd tonight again just incase but yesterday I had ovulation pains all day so im guessing that was me ovulating, today i feel nothing

@renna ill take my calc fluor today then and will let you know if i start to feel sickly etc xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:23

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3908249-TTC-after-MC-May-2020-Part-2

Here you go hun ❤️

SmileyT · 13/05/2020 18:21

@VP91x will you drop the link for it in here please? ❤️

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:12

I've tagged you all ( I hope) on part 2 xx

Renna · 13/05/2020 18:09

@sallyjo27 and @he88 I take cranberry tablets have done for ages and doesnt affect my cycle :) xx

2020wish · 13/05/2020 18:08

@VP91x yes go for it new thread

2020wish · 13/05/2020 18:07

@Dipsy77 I ordered the same as @Renna

Anyone else taking the calc flour and so tired? I dunno if it’s that what’s causing it but I’ve been so tired from 1dpo so unlike me

Dunno what’s going on lol @VP91x mine where like that for ages and well past the time frame I usually ovulated but then boom on sat after noon at 4pm I got my peak from nothing that morning. Just keep testing few times a day x

Sallyjo27 · 13/05/2020 18:05

@HE88 yes sorry! Ovulation gone to my head 😂
I was told cranberry tablets are very good for UTIs but not sure if they would affect your cycle? Yes thank you, lockdown driving me crazy but was in work today so don’t feel so bad.
@vp91x haha well that’s up to DH 😂😂 oh that’s is frustrating! What CD are you on? What day do you usually ovulate on? A new thread would be fab x

VP91x · 13/05/2020 17:58

Ladies, shall I start a new thread? Conscious that we are almost at 1000posts xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 17:53

@Sallyjo27 yay that you also got your peak on ICs! 😂😂 Depends how much energy you have.

My ICs are so underwhelming still, these are from the last two or three days. Have you ever seen something so frustrating!? Xx

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HE88 · 13/05/2020 17:42

@Sallyjo27 I think your message was meant for me, thank you I hate them. I told myself at the start of my tww that I would hold off as well ha ha. If I'm not pregnant I hope this uti doesn't muck up my cycle. Hope you are doing OK? Xx

VP91x · 13/05/2020 17:40

@Sallyjo27 I know yeah same here, I ordered another pack of 10 last night on Amazon that got here today because I had one stick left. I'd only bought 10 thinking it would be enough for this month as I had a couple left from my 20 pack but here we are haha x

Bellabubble · 13/05/2020 17:29

@2020wish I’m shattered today and am 3dpo (got lh peak midday sat, by 4pm it had fallen already, and Sunday it was back down at barely visible again!! (I use ic opks) am in the tww but refusing to allow myself to symptom spot..I don’t want to get my hopes up, I thought I’d timed it right last cycle but AF got me..so now I’m tryibg to be really chill about it sll 🤞🏻

Renna · 13/05/2020 17:22

@dipsy77 I got the attached calc fluor on amazon .
I've been taking 2 a day x

@hayleylou89 yeah deffo babe the dip shows you've ovulated so that's good too that you've got that reassurance that you ovulated:) not gonna lie I've liked not having to take temps every morning but it's also nice to see you've deffo ovulated. If I'm not lucky this month I may temp next month to make sure again I am ovulating, even though dont think that's a problem tbh as got the dip last month. Orrr get an ava so that can do it all for me lol.

@dipsy77 and @hayleylou89 let me know how you get on with calc fluor as I've been feeling rough last couple days and was wondering if it is that ... I feel headachey and sicky and just over all groggy . Oh and windy like the gurlges that come up to your throat constantly 🙄🤔 xx

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Sallyjo27 · 13/05/2020 17:07

@Ejb86 UTIs are the worst! Hope you start to feel better soon, It’s so hard to resist temptation testing but I know that feeling.
@Hayleylou89 my NC app is slightly off too. When I get a positive ovulation test and put it in it says Ive ovulated two days later, wondering if it’s to lengthen the window just in case it takes a bit longer?

Sallyjo27 · 13/05/2020 17:03

@VP91x it is annoying! They’re quite expensive- especially when I’m using them like a crazed person 😂
To those who have replied regarding the clearblue/internet cheapies not matching up, I’ve finally got a strong positive from the internet cheapie 🎉 also how many time DTD is considered too many? 🤔 asking for a friend 😂😂

HE88 · 13/05/2020 16:33

@Mommybear05 fingers crossed everything settles this cycle. I'm fine today picked up my antibiotics so hopefully they kick in soon. I've started to get the urge to test but I really want to hold off until af is late as I'm scared of the disappointment and I also only have one Frer so don't want to waste it. Oh the dilemma ha ha. Xx

Hayleylou89 · 13/05/2020 16:28

@Dipsy77 I loved my first go off ferti lily - going to dtd again tonight and try it again x 😀 hopefully the hubbys back gets better soon x

Hayleylou89 · 13/05/2020 16:26

@Renna 1dpo*

Hayleylou89 · 13/05/2020 16:26

@renna so do you think - dpo today going off this graph? X if so i better take my calc fluor x

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Dipsy77 · 13/05/2020 16:13

Which Calc Fleur tablets have people bought there's a few options on amazon and how many are you supposed to take 2 or 4 a day ?
I've just ordered a fertility cup and shown DP the schedule for the month, he's having a lay down with the new wheat bag I bought for his back x

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