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Top tips on conceiving a girl

36 replies

mad44 · 14/09/2007 15:17

I am a namechanger as am completely barking mad for even considering having 4 children - have three boys - would like a girl (but happy either way tbh) - any tried and tested tips for conceiving a girl?

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 14/09/2007 21:59

What ecmo said.

Tigger13 · 14/09/2007 21:23

Hello

I'm trying to do this 2! Ok there is a fantastic book which is v v easy to read, when my DH's mate leaves aftre watching rugby I will post details (don't want him seeing book!

I have 2 DS's and they are wonderful but would be nice to have a pink one 2! here is what I am doing : _

  • Lots and lots of sex before OV to get sperm count down -hubby to keep his bits very warm (they suggest hot baths before the deed but not done that yet so tight pants!!
  • build up each month getting closer to ov each month, suggests u stop cd7 first month and the cd8 then cd9 following months. -no sex near ov (need to chart or sticks) -no orgasims for women! -there are diets but not sure how effective they are............someone is posting who is doing this.

I am well happy that people have put some sucess stories on here, I am keen but I have limited patience so these messages will keep me strong.

I heard Jamie Oliver to and was nodding on head to him! he obviouslu doing his research

HTH

orangecat · 14/09/2007 21:14

I have no idea if this is true, but Jamie Oliver was saying on the radio a couple of days ago that it is all to do with temperature. He wants a boy after 2 girls. This relates to the male sperm swimming faster than female, so DH/DP would somehow need to cool his bits down for a boy to help them swim, and visa versa for a girl!

Anyway, not sure that Jamie Oliver is the world's expert on conception, but there you go!

PodPast · 14/09/2007 21:09

I was after (and got) a girl, which coincided with trying the pre-ovulation-sex-only method described by ecmo. in fact she was conceived on day 8 of my cycle or something ridiculously early like that. and i felt totally sick from about day 26. very very clear girl signal, apparently. good luck!

Sheherazadethegoat · 14/09/2007 21:03

i have also heard that the man should have a wank first and then have sex.

apparently there is a whole book dedicated to this, i know a woman who used it and had a girl.

Ecmo · 14/09/2007 21:01

Shettles? theory
boy-producing sperm swim faster but don?t live as long, whereas girl-producing sperm swim slower but live longer. Because of this, he says that if you want a girl, it?s better to have sex two to four days before ovulation then stop, as the girl-producing sperm are more likely to still be present when you ovulate.

I read this somewhere and then tried it! I tried for a boy so was waiting till after I ovulated. I'm sure its just luck but it seemed to work!

katendmom · 14/09/2007 20:42

Ok, I can't believe I am about to post this but you've asked!

A friend of mine was in a similar boat - had 2 DS and wanted a DD. She read and read and googled and googled and here is her theory:

There are days in a month that will result in either a boy or a girl. To strengthen that... well when you're TTC... I mean IN THE PROCESS... you can't "enjoy" it if you know what I mean . You DH/ DP must, of course, to complete the process but you cannot.

I know is sounds CRAZY and I actually don't believe it but she swears by it and now has a little DD. She tells everyone how she actually was flipping through magazines, trying to distract herself while you know... I feel bad for her poor DH LOL but hey, that's dedication to the idea, I guess!

Good luck ~ sending you lots of pink baby pixy dust ~

sweetkitty · 14/09/2007 15:37

Have been looking at a few sites that will give you all the tips, google "chose the sex of your baby" and theres loads on there, don't bother with any that you have to pay money to for loads of "supplements"

mad44 · 14/09/2007 15:19

Thanks Will come out of closet at a later date!

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mad44 · 14/09/2007 15:18

Have namechanged as my sister is a lurker!

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sweetkitty · 14/09/2007 15:18

have a look on the BFP in October thread a few women on there are ttc a girl