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TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2

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Ejb86 · 12/04/2020 11:32

I've created us all another thread as we filled the last one!

@mommybear05 I had no idea how long I'd feed for. I never thought I'm definitely going to bf, once he was born though, all I wanted was to get bf right. Every time he woke in the hospital i buzzed for the midwives to check we had got the latch right.

He's already asked more today than he did yesterday and has been difficult to distract!

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Hayleylou89 · 22/04/2020 09:06

@francis05 I do see ur faint line!! How exciting!! How many dpo are you now and did u have IB the same time in ur last pregnancy? 🙏 I have hope for u wooo Xx

Iv got no faith in the IC as it faint and colourless so will wait and see what tomorrow / Friday brings and if no AF ill test with my frer ... although tbh i think AF is coming my temp dropped and my cervix is low this mornin we know cp cnt be relied on but i think a temp drop is def a sign AF is approaching, I know im not out yet but not getting my hopes up based on a cheapy that could be nothing 🙄 x

francis05 · 22/04/2020 09:05

@Hayleylou89 I think I can see a shadow of a line or definitely something! Eekkk!

francis05 · 22/04/2020 09:05

Eeekk I really hope it's true. Have one ic left but not sure I trust those now so will order some more frer and maybe a digi. Don't feel like I can tell the OH yet, he's absolutely desperate for us to be pregnant again and don't want to get his hopes up, he's also rubbish at seeing faint lines

Renna · 22/04/2020 09:02

@Donnat89 the IC probably not as sensitive as the frer and your frer was faint yday so may not be enough to pick up on the IC yet . All sounds very positive though with no AF too 😘🤞 hope the delivery man comes asap for you xx

Donnat89 · 22/04/2020 08:54

@francis05 and @Hayleylou89 I can see lines on both so hopefully they get darker !

AF due today and no sign of her did an IC this morning and BFN though so not sure what's going on I have some FRER arriving today so will test again using one of them hopefully it's a good news day !

Xxxx

Renna · 22/04/2020 08:48

@francis05 very exciting xxx I'm not very good at seeing the faint lines especially in pictures but I hope that gets darker for you over next couple days xx and also a good sign if you're expecting AF around now and shes a no show 🤞😘 xx

@Hayleylou89 how you feeling symptom wise ? 😁 AF was due today isnt she for you ? So fingers crossed the same for you that the line starts getting darker now xxx .
Do you still have UTI symptoms?? Mine have pretty much cleared up other than the typical UTI smell of my urine ..(sorry TMI) .. so worried it's still lingering but think I'm going to wait until Monday to see if AF comes and then go docs as may need antibiotics the at least I can say whether or not I'm pg so get given appropriate antibiotics . .
I've been having like pinching pains coming and going in the very bottom of my back for last few days now . Not AF symptoms as I normally get aching in my stomach for that and get that like the day of AF due normally but I'm not sure if these pains could be related to having a UTI or something else ! It's like really low down almost near my butt mainly on right side but on left too sometimes. Just trying to keep fluids up incase it is UTI related ! ..
@Bellabubble how you getting on? Xxxx

francis05 · 22/04/2020 08:37

I don't think it is as dark as @Donnat89

Thinking maybe the brown spotting last night could have been IB, had IB last pregnancy and got my bfp 3 days after so I should wait a couple more days probably

francis05 · 22/04/2020 08:32

Hooray i've worked out how to post pictures from my laptop!!

Here s my frer from this morning, struggling to see a line on the photo though!!

TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2
TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2
TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2
Hayleylou89 · 22/04/2020 08:18

I swear i can see the tinest line on my IC that i thought i did see in the time frame then thought it nothing and now its a bit after the time frame i can def see it but my tests have always been stark white.... dnt want to get my hopes up as my temp dropped this morning which is never a good sign its only 1 degree above the cover line .... dont judge as these pics are super squinters and it could even be my desperation eyes 😂 first pic was the one i took soon as i thought i saw something, the second one is after the timeframe 🙏...both look colourless to me though 🙄 x x

TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2
TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2
Hayleylou89 · 22/04/2020 08:04

Ahh @francis05 sooo excited for u!! X x try and send a pic definitely xx

Ejb86 · 22/04/2020 08:02

@francis05 that's so exciting! Can't wait to see the pic!

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francis05 · 22/04/2020 07:58

So I think I may have got a vvf bfp on a frer this morning!! Really trying hard not to get too excited about it though, it came up in the time frame aed is definitely pink although very light. I'll try and upload a picture via the laptop as my phone won't let me xx

HE88 · 21/04/2020 22:36

Thanks @Niisa your right fresh start, stay positive and fingers crossed. X

Donnat89 · 21/04/2020 22:02

@Hayleylou89 yes mine seems to change slightly through out the day , and I've never really noticed any dramatic changes in it .

Yea I've had a nice long soak and plan on trying to go to bed soon but my
Sleep pattern is awful at the moment !

Xxx

Hayleylou89 · 21/04/2020 21:36

Ahh @francis05 hope ur wrong about AF Poss arriving? Xx

@Donnat89 My cp has changed dramatically twice today .... it was low and hard this morning and now its high a medium hard this evening ... just so random i think yet i still check it... dont know why (maybe in time ill recognise my own patterns)

Try and relax and have an early night and im sure u bfp will be stronger in the morning 😘 xx

Donnat89 · 21/04/2020 21:12

Thanks ladies ! I'm just willing the hours away now and hoping no AF tomorrow and an even stronger line all I can do is hope !

I will update tomorrow x

Hayleylou89 · 21/04/2020 20:51

Hey girls.

Sorry been so busy today! Hope ur all ok !!

@renna yeah its good in a way ur test was 25miu as it def keeps u firmly in the game getting a bfn on one that not so sensitive so chin up :) x x if i can wait till friday to do my frer then so can u cos im def less patient than u are 🙈😂

@Niisa bless!! sorry u would have a had a milestone today.. they are awful these milestones arnt they probably like most ppl I really hope Im preg by my due date on 7th june ... but for that to happen i need to be pregnant by my next cycle at the latest...it would just make it a little easier to deal with if i was already pregnant by then with our rainbow 🌈 🙏 x x

Niisa · 21/04/2020 20:30

@Bellabubble Awww it’ll be your turn soon I promise!

@HE88 sorry AF caught you! It’s a new cycle - a fresh start again! Praying for you xxxx

Niisa · 21/04/2020 20:28

@Hayleylou89 tell me about it! Today was supposed to be my first midwife appointment at 16 weeks and it hit me that I would have been 16 weeks today! And then I think with all this madness going on, maybe being that far gone would not have been great... all up in my feelings today hah!

HE88 · 21/04/2020 19:20

@Donnat89 congratulations fingers crossed your line is so much darker tomorrow but there is a definite line there. X
@Renna I bought the femometre testing sticks to use this cycle. X

HE88 · 21/04/2020 19:08

@Niisa @Mommybear05 sorry this is me just replying been busy working today.
I'm fine today thanks af ended up showing her face just as I was going to bed last night so I guess I count that as day 1 of my cycle. Been crampy today but nothing too bad thankfully. Hope you are both well x.
@Niisa sorry you had to go through that really hope you get that bfp soon 😊. X

Renna · 21/04/2020 18:41

@Donnat89 really dont think you can rely on CP babe xx I can imagine its driving you crazy .. I've had a crazy lady day ! But I hope the eve flies by and you get reassured tomo morning by an even darker line 😘 xx

@temogemo good luck with it hun xx let us know how you get on xx

@SmileyT aw thanks hun xx starting to feel a bit better this afternoon. Especially after I realised that cheapie is not very sensitive at all. Trying to stay hopeful and I'll probably wait until AF due Sunday to do a frer if I can hold out that long 🤞🌈 hope work was okay for you today and you're feeling ok xxxx

SmileyT · 21/04/2020 18:22

@Donnat89 ahh I've just got in from work and this has made my day 😍 I knew somebody in this thread would get one. I'm always so crap with looking at tests when they are faint lines (I have no line eyes) but that is blaring to me. After all the time TTC I honestly couldn't be happier for you. 🌈 ❤️

@Renna I'm sorry it was a BFN but like you know, you are still super early, I'd give it another 2 days throw yourself into work and then do your FRER. The floodgates have opened now so I'm definitely expecting more BFPs this week. Sending you loads of love xx

temogemo · 21/04/2020 17:47

@Renna Thank you for the advice, will start doing the opks Smile

francis05 · 21/04/2020 17:30

@Donnat89 I've read quite a few things to say that cp and cm are quite unreliable, unless you know your pattern. That being said im obsessed with checking mine!! Mine way high this morn but has also been low and medium today. Try and stay positive!! Xx

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