9 months ttc so over it.

You are still very young, it can take people more than a year to conceive a child. Yes, others seem to do it straight away but that's life. You've also not been married very long, I expect last August seems like yesterday!

Right now is not a good time to be even thinking about having a baby. Why not just relax, think about other things (if you can), and crack on with doing your best for yourselves and any others you can help until the current crisis is over.

It may just happen when you're not expecting it. I've known so many people in whom that was the case.

For goodness sake, don't be jealous of your sister in law! She's family, you'll be an aunt. You're likely to catch up soon too. It's far too soon for you to start being resentful of pregnant women and it is quite nasty. I don't know what 'needles' you should take if you're going to see her but - can you even go and see her at the moment? I'd have thought not.

Hey! So sorry you are going through this. I am in a similar situation. Me and my partner are both 26 and have been ttc for 15 months now, I have recently had my 21 day bloods and everything came back normal, am due to have a couple of more tests but can't because of the current Coronavirus situation. It's really hard as all of our close friends are either pregnant or have recently had a baby, I try not to talk about it with anyone anymore as I can't face it. I just try to tell myself it will happen when it's meant to happen but some months I really struggle with it. I am going to try acupuncture when we are able to go out again and see if that has any positive affects. Really hope you get your positive test soon xx