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AF due today, still BFN. Anyone else?

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Purplezinger · 17/03/2020 20:38

Hi ladies,
AF was due today, and still testing BFN. I used a First Detection Early Response for my SMU. Right now I should be around 13-14 DPO. Am I out for this cycle? My cervix is still high, and soft. My CM has changed over the two days, it went from white "lotiony" consistency to now more watery. Is this something anyone else experienced before getting BFP?
I have had a few other symptoms of early pregnancy: I am feeling a twinge in my lower right pelvic side, I am a bit dizzy, intense thirst, and my body temperature is about a degree higher than normal. Maybe I am symptom spotting, but hopefully someone else had something similar.
Thanks

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Purplezinger · 19/03/2020 18:46

@peachypetite I had the same thought. With all thats going on in the world, and emotionally me wanting a BFP, maybe that is whats delaying AF. Today I am now cycle day 27, which is the longest I have gone with missing her. When are you going to test again?

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peachypetite · 19/03/2020 18:23

I am wondering if the stress is delaying it

peachypetite · 19/03/2020 18:20

Mine is due tomorrow but I don’t have my usual pre period signs. I did a boots test this morn, negative.

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Purplezinger · 19/03/2020 18:16

@RJ44 no signs of AF yet. I have had no cramps. My cervix is still high and soft, and CM is watery/ white sitcky. This is very confusing, but maybe by tomorrow morning I will have some more answers.
@murphs2 Good luck POAS ;)

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ttcchapter1 · 19/03/2020 10:38

Af was due on Sunday! still no show and negative tests and do not feel any af pains like I usually do. Its so confusing. :(

murphs2 · 19/03/2020 09:24

No period! But like @Purplezinger I’m waiting until tomorrow morning to test 🤞🏻 That will be three days late, so should show up on any test.

RJ44 · 19/03/2020 09:18

Any news @murphs2 @Purplezinger ? Smile

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Purplezinger · 18/03/2020 18:39

@murphs2 Took a cheapie this AM with FMU and got a negative. Still no sign of AF. I think I will wait another two days to test, and hopefully by Friday something will change. Either AF shows up, or a BFP. Fingers crossed.
Heres to hoping and waiting haha.

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murphs2 · 18/03/2020 06:44

Another negative? But no period? All very strange. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you today @Purplezinger

murphs2 · 17/03/2020 22:47

Tomorrow morning 🤞🏻 You? @Purplezinger

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Purplezinger · 17/03/2020 22:26

@RJ44 Thank you for sharing that, and congrats on BFP 🥳 ! Gives me a wee bit of hope.
@murphs2 when do you plan on testing again?

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murphs2 · 17/03/2020 21:03

ps Congratulations @RJ44 lovely news on your pregnancy!!!

murphs2 · 17/03/2020 21:01

Me too, period due yesterday. Some spotting so thought that was that but it never went any further. Took a cheap test this morning which was negative. Then nothing more period wise today 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m probably clinging on to hope but it’s not over till it’s over!

RJ44 · 17/03/2020 20:51

Hi! I'm a few days late and only just today got a faint bfp Smile the rest were complete bfn. I have had similar symptoms as you up til now too - I wouldn't say you're out yet!!