Second thread for ttc!

@Bbutterfly thanks , I'm not expecting anything as I just have that feeling I'm out this month like all the other months but it is what it is I'm not gonna dwell on it it's disappointing getting the same result month after month but it is what it is

I feel little better mentally today as I've come
To terms with it but had horrible headache all day and slight back ache still - back ache is normal for me before AF but not headache but this could be stressed related who knows !

@NicoleR14 please don't blame
Yourself you did what any of us would do just focus on yourself and taking care of yourself xx

@NicoleR14 thinking of you, af will come and you can start again 🌸 he is in this with you so don't worry you did the right thing. What a rollercoaster. Try not to cause yourself more stress by blaming yourself etc just know your body will do what it needs to do to regulate itself. @Donnat89 keep us updated on your test tomorrow fingers crossed for you, but remember it's still early! We all do the same and test early I swear it drives us mad even more lol. Xx

@NicoleR14 I would have done the same, the whole point of husband's is that they are there to share anything with you and catch you when you fall. Just think about being OK yourself, I'm sure he'll be fine xxx

@NicoleR14 aw we're here for you xxx it's making me teary too, what a crap month for you. But onwards and upwards xxxx

@NicoleR14 glad to hear from you and good on you having a little cry no one can blame you for that I really hope AF shows for you soon so you can get back to TTC

Xxx

Defo not out @Bbutterfly, looks like a normal healthy ovulation in my book.
Aw @dizzy85 my friend just called and was just telling me how she got her period the first 3 months of her pregnancy like clockwork and it was surreal! She has a healthy 11 year old boy now though! Weird huh, guess no 2 are ever the same!
@Sungirl11 and @Shelly10111 I'm crossing it all for you ladies xxx

@Sungirl11 how annoying I really hope you you get some answers soon either way .

@dizzy85 I hope everything will be ok ,
I can understand why you are getting by stressed though

@NicoleR14 I really hope you are ok stay strong xx

@dizzy85 no she hasn't! I have been constipated so i went to the loo this morning and as it was hard and i had to make a bit of an effort so when i wiped there was some very yogurty cm with a bit of pink blood and i thought she was coming as i have some ovarian pain but it's gone milder now and nothing at all when i wipe. I just do think she might be there and will show now any moment!
Glad you can speak to your sisters and get some relief from them too. xx

@dizzy85 I hate being negative but just don't feel like it's my month as always, super stressed which doesn't help xx

@shelly10111 I hope the tww goes quick for you and ends in a bfp 🤞🏻

@Sungirl11 I am driving myself mad to be honest, I'm gonna see how it goes over the weekend and either way I'm gonna call the doctors on Monday, I'm hoping that's just the type of body I have as I do spot a lot before af so maybe I have a sensitive cervix🤷‍♀️ god knows. But I'm preparing for the worst but hoping for the best. Thankyou 😊I've just told my 2 sisters about it coz they've both got kids so I feel abit better now they know and I can ask them stuff too.
What a nightmare.
Has your af still not shown?

@dizzy85 aw no.. i can't imagine how crazy your brain must be going... have you called the Dr? My friend went to A&E when she was 4 weeks something because she bled and got a scan done and saw a little lentil. Not sure what to recommend honestly... 🙈 it's all so difficult! We are here if you need to shout anything.
@shelly10111 wow you are just starting the wait... one week to go for the craziness!

@Donnat89 i'm sorry for your bfn... don't give up! It can happen anytime and it is still early.
@NicoleR14 how are you? We are all thinking of you ♥️ stay strong!

11 DPO here , testing tomorrow . Fully expecting a BFN .

I have backache usual AF symptoms for me and haven't experienced any thing I could link to a possible BFP so I just know I'm
Out .

But still as we say not out until AF comes , like a crazy person I still on to that little bit of hope until she is here I think it helps get through these days that seem like they never end ! Xx

@ArjaD thanks so much. I really thought I was out but you've both given me a boost! How you feeling today?
@shelly10111 that's good at least you know! Xx

I'm 4dpo atm :/

@shelly10111 aw that's good, I think it is just one of those horrible things unfortunately and some people end up with problems and some don't. How are you getting on are you still waiting? I keep forgetting where everyone is at where there's so much going on x

@dizzy85 I've had tests but they all came back perfectly normal :/

@Bbutterfly i agree with @dizzy85, that Thursday afternoon one is positive I'd say. Mine always look like that too, I've never had a darker line than that.

@Bbutterfly 🤞🏻I do hope so❤️. That's ok glad you feel a bit better, I'd say that one looks how my positive opks usually are, I've only had one that's ever been completely as dark as the control line and I've done a lot of them tests, I normally get similar to yours and then I can tell coz I get ovulation pains and some ewcm but I don't get that much of it. It sounds like your covered but maybe just get a few more in there for luck 🤞🏻xx

@dizzy85 of course previous will mess with your head, it's so hard but just know that this is meant for you this time and it will be.
The 14.19 one was Thursday afternoon. So I've covered myself Thursday night and Friday. I'm glad you've said that, I thought I felt some twinges yesterday but it could have well been my mind messing with me. I get very little cm I used preseed this month for that reason. Thank you I feel so much better just reading your message you know xxx

@Bbutterfly Thankyou I am trying to stay positive but I think having the losses before has messed with my head and seeing the spotting doesn't help coz I had that in my mmc but hopefully it's gonna be ok.
I'd say some of your opks look positive to me esp the 14:19 one. So perhaps your just about to ovulate if that was from Thursday or Friday? Do you get any ovulation pains or cm xx

@NicoleR14 I'm really sorry I can't believe it. What an awful month you've had how stressful. I hope the dr can give you some answers.
@dizzy85 stop thinking the worst, try and relax and not be full of anxiety trust the process everything is going to be fine ♥️
Sorry about your bfn @Sungirl11 but you're not out yet! Love the clear blue @ArjaD turns out you are 'that kinda folk' haha it made me laugh when you wrote that about getting pregnant during this time.
Can anyone help me? I've been going out my mind I still haven't got my peak result my ovulation date was predicted yesterday and here are my opks left to right thurs - friday I had a negative opk Wednesday and today. Do you think I just haven't ovulated? I'm usually the same every month I've got myself in a right mess. Xx

@NicoleR14 awww I'm so sorry , how unfair is that . I would defo be asking doctor for a blood test as that's not right I feel for you I really do .

@ArjaD nice to see the clear blue !

I'm feeling a littler better today have excepted it's another BFN month and just sort of dealing with it . I am going to test one last time tomorrow and then will just wait for AF

XXXX

I have again same symptoms as last week... so i think af is coming a week late 🤦🏻‍♀️