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Second thread for ttc!

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NicoleR14 · 12/03/2020 12:11

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

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Jessmary94 · 26/03/2020 10:10

My AF showed this morning so I'm out this month 😔
Probay for the best as I am out of work for the time being. Hope your all keeping well ladies x

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NicoleR14 · 26/03/2020 09:33

It is so soul destroying though its horrible I felt like that as well but I will test I feel like I need to poas just for the sake of it!

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NicoleR14 · 26/03/2020 09:32

@Bbutterfly still quiet sore today but can't tell if it's af cramps or not I haven't had sore boobs like I usually do the odd twinge and pain here and there but nothing else so I don't know! I've got frers coming today so I will update later on!

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Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 09:13

@Bbutterfly it's doing my head in I was getting cramps had back ache etc so fully thought AF coming but now nothing at all , been waking up everyday expecting to see AF but again nothing not even spotting .

I seriously don't understand it at all , I
Might just have to right off this month just accept I won't be getting AF and I'm
Not pregnant . It's so weird ! X

Bbutterfly · 26/03/2020 08:58

Hey @Donnat89 this is so strange yeah test tomorrow and see how you get on. How is everyone this morning? My af coming Sunday I can feel her creeping up already. Not even going to bother to test I'm literally so sick of the same thing every month it's really soul destroying. @NicoleR14 you ok today? X

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 06:52

Still no sign of AF , not testing today will test tomorrow if still no sign . I just don't understand this at all ! X

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 15:43

@donnat89 it's horrible I honestly feel so lost today over it it does get you down! I hope you find out soon enough what's happening it can't be easy for you your in limbo with it!

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 15:41

@NicoleR14 I can't be much help given my
Situation but the hormones that course AF symptoms are the same hormones responsible for pregnancy hence why they are So similar literally no way to tell until a BFP or AF comes

In my case I've had neither !! X

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 15:04

so feeling extremely emotional the only thing I've had is cramps and its making me more emotional because they've stopped can anyone make any sense out of my craziness!

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 14:09

@donnat89 my frers come tomorrow so I'll text tomorrow even though I'm completely wasting my time!

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 13:33

Fingers crossed for all waiting to test o hope you get BFPS I'm putting my late AF down to stress I think . Nothing much I can do just sit tight and wait ! X

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 12:14

@sungirl11 it's horrible they treat it like its not important but it is important and especially to people who are ttc! I've ordered frers on amazon they are only £6.67 for a pack of 2 I don't even know why I bothered though I think af is on the way 🙄 another month of ttc awaits!

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Sungirl11 · 25/03/2020 11:50

@NicoleR14 i know it's horrible how they treat us... it's just like they don't care at all how important this is for us. Anyway... you girls are maybe pregs or with this crazy situation you are a bit more stressed and that is why af is late? Just guessing.
I am just so frustrated i have to wait until at least mid May to get the blood test done and know if everything is ok, if this gets better, if not who knows when? But i believe it's worse for couples starting fertility treatment and all being pushed back Confused
Can we go back to normal now? 🙄

Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 09:22

@NicoleR14 it's soo annoying , cramps keep going and coming back it's so confusing x

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 09:21

@donnat89 I agree it wouldn't be so bad if we had longer cycles before I always had 28/29 day cycles up and until I started contraception then they went all upsides down! And with ttc it's been worse because I wish they would go back to normal I've waited long enough to test why make me wait longer 😩😂

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 08:45

@NicoleR14 yes exactly , I wouldn't be so frustrated if I had long cycles before . Just never had one this long , and literally no sign of AF back ache has gone and cramps have gone so it's just so odd !! I'm thinking maybe my cycles have changed as that's literally the only explanation for it ! X

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 08:42

@donnat89 I agree it is hard because all you want to do is move on to your next cycle I have longer cycles than I used to I'm on cycle day 29 and I still have 3-5 days to wait until af is due she's due on the 28th but can be the 30th 31st before she arrives I hate it

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 08:37

@NicoleR14 yes true Its just so frustrating , like I can't move on to next cycle until AF shows . Might just be a weird cycle well it must be as I doubt I'm pregnant . Literally just gonna have to wait x

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 08:36

@donnat89 it has happened loads of people have had bfp at 1 week late and alot of people have just had an off cycle where af doesn't arrive for days later than what it's supposed to xx

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 08:32

@NicoleR14 this is my 11th cycle , I've never been this late never had a cycle longer than 29 days . Was all booked in to be seen until all this virus stuff happened but now have to wait . I really do not know what to do ? If AF doesn't show by end of week I will test again but it's just so odd ! I'm clearly
Not pregnant as Would of had a positive test by now ? X

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 08:29

@donnat89 what cycle day are you on? I'm 11/12dpo today and dying to test but I don't want to!

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Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 08:13

Still no AF and BFN again I'm
Getting so pissed off now .

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NicoleR14 · 25/03/2020 07:29

@sungirl11 I think that is terrible its maybe not essential to them but it is a priority in our life's it's horrible how they treat it now a days doctors don't even take to do with your pregnancy they just push you to the side which I think is ridiculous and anything pregnancy related or ttc related they brush you off it's a terrible system they have going on even though we are in the middle of a pandemic they shouldn't ignore all the other things that's going on with people as well!

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Sungirl11 · 25/03/2020 03:21

@NicoleR14 i had the urine, progesterone and rubeola blood tests but now they don't want to give me the results as it's not essential neither i can have the last blood test because of the same 😔
It's frustrating honestly!
My hubs has the sperm test at home too but he has to wait until all this is over to take it to hospital to be checked.
This virus is just messing up everyones lives!
Anyway... we have to stay calm and just wait for this to be over and see.xx

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NicoleR14 · 24/03/2020 20:00

@sungirl11 it feels like forever! Have you got an appointment with your gp for the 1 year mark?

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