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Second thread for ttc!

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NicoleR14 · 12/03/2020 12:11

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

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NicoleR14 · 01/04/2020 14:49

Thanks ladies he had a lovely birthday so far he's now stuck to his ps4 😂 now praying for af to hurry and arrive so we can get back to dtd again or maybe chilling out who knows well see what happens @shelly10111 it is frustrating it does seem to take longer I don't think this would be as hard to do if I had a wee one already but with us not having any children and being so young we thought it would happen straight away for us but unfortunately it didn't we are now 6 months and 1 week ttc with a 37 day + cycle I'm trying to find something to destress myself with and hopefully these tablets I got will help relax my womb to get the ball rolling again! It's upsetting but the best thing to remember is you are having regular cycles you know roughly that your ovulating all you need is a bit of time it's hard to do but we've got nothing else better to do in isolation it's hard now but it'll get better!

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Carol1980 · 01/04/2020 13:21

Aww ladies I wish I had the magic answer for you all as to why it's taking you so long x
Also heartbreaking that due to what is currently happening that your stick in limbo essentially x
I'm sending lots of love and good luck to you all that this month will be the month x
It always seems so bloody long when your trying x

Sungirl11 · 01/04/2020 13:08

@shelly10111 aw girl.. i completely understand you... it's been a year for us! And now that we started the tests they have been cancelled because if covid. It's a pain in the a.. :(

shelly10111 · 01/04/2020 12:52

Haha thanks - yes going to relax and hope for a better month, really sad with frustration as to why it's not happening for us :( xx

Carol1980 · 01/04/2020 12:47

@NicoleR14 hopefully you manage to have a fab isolation birthday with your hubby !! X

@Sungirl11 hell yeah !!
I'm working night shift tonight and tomorrow so it will take my mind off it and keep me busy, but after that all I have is a 2 year old running about and my hubby pottering about the man cave so I'll def be with you on the symptom spotting ! Google is going to be getting a work out this next week from me 🤣🤣

Sungirl11 · 01/04/2020 12:37

@shelly10111 i think it's better that way! At least you are not going mental with uncertainty. Have that prossecco please.. it's calling haha
@NicoleR14 aw no! Hope you can relax and go back to normal! Eat a lot of cake!!
@Carol1980 i'm 3dpo today too!! Hahah same boat for us this month. We can go insane together next week Hmm

Carol1980 · 01/04/2020 12:29

Sorry to read all the messages about BFN 😢
@NicoleR14 I hope it's nothing serious x

I'm 3 dpo today but not holding my breath this month !

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NicoleR14 · 01/04/2020 12:22

Af hasn't arrived yet but been to the gp and I had quiet bad pains in my left side my womb is taking spazums its trying to obviously shed the lining for my period to come and it can't so I've been given muscle relaxers to try and relax my womb to see if af will come if it doesn't and the pain continues with no af for another 2-3 days it can be dangerous and would need to see my gp straight away so feeling quiet upset 😩 but it is my dh 21st birthday today and I get to pick up he's cake so yay! @shelly10111 sorry to hear af arrived hun!

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shelly10111 · 01/04/2020 12:06

@Donnat89 it is however I knew I wasn't in luck this month :( onto month 8 of TTC -joked to OH that I may drink Prosecco all month and pretend to have a one night stand with him we're bound to get pregnant that way 😂🥵

Donnat89 · 01/04/2020 12:02

@shelly10111 sorry to hear that it's so gutting when that happens x

shelly10111 · 01/04/2020 11:57

Af arrived :(

Donnat89 · 01/04/2020 10:04

Hi ladies ! Just catching up on all the chatter , I'm sorry AF is late for you with BFN , this was me last week but she did finally arrive however I'm hoping that's not the case for you guys and you get your BFPS soon !

I will be entering FW soon so lots of DTD to do ! X

Sungirl11 · 01/04/2020 08:48

Aw noo! @NicoleR14 @shelly10111 this is so strange! You are both getting bfn but sooo late now... Confused
Have you tried with a clear blue? The one that says the weeks... i don't know what to say...

shelly10111 · 01/04/2020 08:01

Bfn I'm out :(

shelly10111 · 01/04/2020 07:29

Not woken up to AF ... too scared to test 🥺😔

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NicoleR14 · 01/04/2020 07:17

Another bfn for me and no af 😢

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shelly10111 · 31/03/2020 15:54

@Sungirl11 that's what I'm praying ! But with 3 chemicals i just expect the worst and I've spotted :/ xx

Sungirl11 · 31/03/2020 15:29

They don't have to be do they?? Maybe implantation was really late! Awww i've got all crossed for you!!!

shelly10111 · 31/03/2020 15:23

@Sungirl11 yeah both faint lines but would be stronger by now surely and I'm due on tomorow :(

Sungirl11 · 31/03/2020 15:16

@shelly10111 these have like a mark or something? Or are they like that???

shelly10111 · 31/03/2020 13:27

Wishful thinking today was praying for a line :(

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shelly10111 · 31/03/2020 13:26

@Sungirl11 that was last months chemical again :(

Sungirl11 · 31/03/2020 13:24

@shelly10111 wow you can see a line there!!! How bad is that if it's a neg Confused
I woke up to the news of a friend pregnant! She is 13dpo and had a BFP very clear! Only 2months ttc...
Why can't it be easier for me? :( 1whole year lost...
I have all crossed for you girls... while shes away it can be good news! Xx

shelly10111 · 31/03/2020 13:21

They are good tests but I just think the sensitivity is so so much that it can be a real heart breaker to early testers :( - my line is a tiny bit darker today but I'm spotting a bit of brown CM now which is the norm for my period to start tomorrow so I think that's me out and onto month 8 😪

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NicoleR14 · 31/03/2020 11:54

@shelly10111 they are just such a recommended brand! I've never had a line like this one it's pink and you can see it but it's vvvf I have no period like symptoms or pregnancy symptoms I do have some pelvic pain at the left side I've had this for days I suppose if I was pregnant there would be a more visible line 😩 so horrible though!

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