Second thread for ttc!

@NicoleR14 I am also due AF on the 27th! I’m now 7dpo and I’m trying to see it through to missing af before testing due to an early miscarriage last time! Xox hope you’re doing good

@Bubblybonbon hiya!! I'm so sorry for what happened to you! I have a friend that had a mc at week 12 and she took 2 months off as recommended by the midwife and next cycle she got pregnant with just one bed roll! Haha so it is possible! She is now 13 weeks again and all perfect and has a healthy boy on the way. So stay positive xx

Gonna attempt to get an early night tonight my sleep pattern has been so awful I really need to try get it back to normal !

@Bubblybonbon and feel free to join us crazy ladies on here, we're all in it together 😁

@Bubblybonbon well I really have no experience with it either, I can just go with what happened to my friend. Good luck xxx

Ah that’s something positive! Nope, with all the current situations going on, I spoke to my midwife, but she never said anything apart from she’s sorry! I’ve never suffered a miscarriage until this, so wasn’t aware of what to expect or anything! I’m assuming because the bleeding has stopped that everything has cleared out!x

@Bubblybonbon so sorry for your loss xx my best friend suffered a miscarriage and ended up pregnant the next month (she was shocked) and had a healthy baby boy. Did your gp have any recommendations? X

Hi, sorry for jumping in on the post.

I recently had a natural miscarriage on the 9th April. Stopped bleeding about 4 days ago, wanting to try get pregnant when I can. Has anyone tried before their first period, and was it successful? Also is it safe to do so. Many thanks.

@ArjaD @Nmew Thankyou both that does make me feel better, I think I'm just traumatised from before but I'm determined not to let it cloud this time and try to enjoy it, I still can't believe it's actually happened. Lol not being able to roll over 🙈😂

@Nmew how exciting your gonna find out the sex do you have any feelings at all?

@Nmew it already feels very different from my first pregnancy, it's so odd. How's your bump coming on? 🙂 Can you see it yet?

If it helps you both @dizzy85 & @ArjaD I had those cramps and pains on and off for like 9weeks I think. Not fun to have and made me super paranoid but it all turned out to be normal! Now I’m on to new paranoid twinges and feelings haha 😂 never ending!

Aw @dizzy85 I've had a sore back and cramping since 2dpo, no let up. I think it must be the womb enlarging to make space for Sprout. So not to worry xxx wait till you can't roll over onto your other side anymore by yourself, in 8 months time 😂 you'll be waking up the hubby to roll you over to ease the pelvic pain 🤣

@NicoleR14 I'm ok Thankyou, been getting myself paranoid this evening as I've had a dull crampy feeling and bad back etc and it makes you think af is coming so I'm constantly checking but hoping it's all normal and nothing to worry about, apart from the worry I'm ok😬How are you feeling?

@Sungirl11 I'm worried my boobs will go as sore as last time, i swear to God I could have murdered my husband if he even dared to just look at them... They were soooooo sensitive everything just hurt 😂

@Sungirl11 I really hope so ! Like
You said you just don't know until you get that BFP and AF doesn't arrive ! Just a waiting game now I haven't got much longer to wait so I'm sitting tight and hoping for the best xx

@NicoleR14 mine do the same.. today i decided to say it's personal! And she didn't ask anything else... as your health is something private... so maybe try that next time?
@ArjaD love it! Already buying bras haha
@Donnat89 stay positive! This looks like one of those special months... 🤞🏼🤞🏼 fingers crossed for you!!

@NicoleR14 I'm ok thanks, still feeling a bit crampy but it's nothing like af pain. And back pain but my back is never great tbh, old age 🙄🙄 just ordered a load of I maternity bras.

@NicoleR14 thanks hun I'm feeling a little more positive I've had weird shooting pains all day in my tummy area it doesn't last long and could be nothing or all in my head

My back ache is literally nothing but the odd twinge here and there and by now it's constant so will see trying to stay hopefull ! Xx

@Sungirl11 I tend to find secretaries and receptionists become doctors overnight sometimes without proper knowledge 🙄🙄

@ArjaD i tested with FRER! But i have read also that some women don't get same results on the same tests than other women... my husband will bring some from hospital for next week.
Idk it's all very uncertain! He did apologise for being told it was not important by the secretary... he said i shouldn't have got that answer as i did need to know the results because i have high bilirubin and i'm not immune to Rubeola. So i need to get vaccine before getting pregnant (if that is possible) if not i have to be very careful when preg. And also need to get more blood tests to check my liver. 🤷🏻‍♀️
So who ever i spoke to on the phone and said it was not important to speak to a Dr then had no clue what she was talking about!!

@Sungirl11 OK, that's good news! If only all doctors were like that xx which test did you use last time?

@Sungirl11 I'm pleased
Your doctor was helpful and at least you e had positive news

Sounds like Your DR is really helpful !hopefully by next week your have some answers and that is interesting about most BFPS not being until a week later that is worth baring in mind .

I'm still Hopeful for @NicoleR14 too !

Xxx

I have just spoken to a Dr.
My progesterone is perfect (27.3/28) yay!
He told me to test again next week, and if still neg to keep testing and wait till next cycle. He said that most women don't get bfp until at least a week late (apparently that is the most common, not like @ArjaD haha) If then af doesn't show to call again. But if during this time i feel poorly or bad to call again so they can look into it, and to write down all my symptoms. I found he was super helpful and calming.
Will have to wait until Monday to test again.
Hope everyone gets those bfp early!! Because as Nicole says the wait is just terrible!

I'm still hopeful for your bfp too @NicoleR14, doctors have been wrong before xxx