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Feeling alone TTC

54 replies

Sitchervice · 20/02/2020 18:15

Hi there. Feeling quite alone.

I'm 2 days late but have nearly 0 symptoms other than bloating, small cramps.

I'm 100% sure ill get a BFN but I do want to know if other people have got a BFP with no symptoms.

My Hubby and I have not told anyone in our Fam as they can be quite neg about us and our capabilities. So I have no one to turn to for guidance.

Help 😭

OP posts:
Elmlee · 20/02/2020 20:25

@paintfairy it's very up and down isn't it.
I tested at 10... BFN... I feel the same as you... I don't think it will be smooth ride for me like these lucky women xxx

paintfairy · 20/02/2020 20:04

It is hard. I've had a bad day today. I'm 8 dpo and decided I'm out. Clearly factually I do not know that. Gut feeling maybe. Plus every month is never the same.

No friends know. DH moans if I talk about it constantly. So when you are feeling deflated its hard! I was happy yesterday. Just not today. 🤣

karenkeys · 20/02/2020 19:16

I think most of us feel a bit alone (part of the reason we’ve joined here)! Not being able to tell people makes it lonely.

If it helps at all, I had a BFP last month with no symptoms. It turned out to be a chemical pregnancy, but it was still a positive with no symptoms! You’re not out until AF is here.

Elmlee · 20/02/2020 18:43

Hey Beautiful 👋
I know we are chatting on the symptom post I created but I wanted to say 👋.

I want to tell you your totally not a lone. Here if you ever need a chat, your more than welcome to send me a private message.

It would be nice to have a TTC buddy 🥰