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Feeling alone TTC

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Sitchervice · 20/02/2020 18:15

Hi there. Feeling quite alone.

I'm 2 days late but have nearly 0 symptoms other than bloating, small cramps.

I'm 100% sure ill get a BFN but I do want to know if other people have got a BFP with no symptoms.

My Hubby and I have not told anyone in our Fam as they can be quite neg about us and our capabilities. So I have no one to turn to for guidance.

Help 😭

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Sitchervice · 20/03/2020 07:17

Well sadly our TTC plans have to go on hold. My jobs on the line with this Virus and both of us are so stressed!

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Sitchervice · 12/03/2020 22:32

@littlebump2018 general chat and help ttc I'm fairly new as well.

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Littlebump2018 · 12/03/2020 21:56

Hi what chat are you on for early signs? I can't find any groups for TTC. Thanks!

Katbaby · 05/03/2020 06:42

@Sitchervice she said that until it had been 3-6 month its still classed as normal with having not been off the pill that long. Erghhh so annoying. There's a course of hormones she could put me on after 6 months which will force periods to come but I would have to use protection as its not safe to fall pregnant on 😩😩 just hope my period turns up naturally before then. Waiting game it is!

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Sitchervice · 04/03/2020 22:31

@Katbaby did doctor not do anything then?

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Katbaby · 04/03/2020 22:19

@Sitchervice no unfortunately not, currently taking up permanent residency in limbo land. Looking at holidays to take my mind of things 😬

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Sitchervice · 04/03/2020 21:30

@Katbaby any news on you?

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Katbaby · 04/03/2020 21:14

@Sitchervice I'm glad you aren't in limbo anymore! Yes hopefully it's a relatively short and painless one for you

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Sitchervice · 04/03/2020 19:08

AF has arrived! Now it can go away

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Katbaby · 02/03/2020 16:10

@Sitchervice yeah I mean she was great last time sending me for bloods without hesitancy so hopefully she will put my mind at rest, I'm back in to see her Wednesday afternoon so even if it's fruitless at least it's an early finish from work! Every cloud 😂

Yes @Franklydear can't wallow can I, need to get back in the sack to attempt to make a baby don't i! Hahaha. Looks like I'll be jumping on hubby later

Franklydear · 02/03/2020 14:58

@Katbaby, that reminds me of my friend Mel, she always says you can cry today but tomorrow you’re back in that horse...

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Sitchervice · 02/03/2020 14:52

@Katbaby I'm sorry they didn't bring anything up. If you GP appears to brush you off I'd simply ask "why aren't you taking me seriously". I did that once and they found my chronic bladder problem within a few months. Sometimes I feel like GPS can't be bothered unless your really old or a child.

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Katbaby · 02/03/2020 14:48

Thanks @Franklydear, just feeling negative today. Will pull myself together tomorrow 😂

Franklydear · 02/03/2020 14:36

@katbaby, not the same, I know, but I have a chronic illness where all they can do is management, a positive attitude helps, let them try everything they can think of until they say there’s nothing we can do, a lot will depend on your personal circumstances, and if there’s really nothing they can do, what is the alternative, what’s next? Keep asking, the bulb will turn on at some point...

Katbaby · 02/03/2020 13:54

Thanks @Franklydear, gonna go back to see gp on Wednesday. Dunno what she will say though probably can't do anything

Franklydear · 02/03/2020 13:51

I’ll hand you the tissue @katbaby, ...

Katbaby · 02/03/2020 13:47

Bloodwork came back negative for pregnancy, normal for everything else. Cd73 and still nothing. Just wanna cry!

Franklydear · 29/02/2020 07:54

Another voice joining, cd 23 and some symptoms, could be either way, don't know how to feel.

Katbaby · 29/02/2020 07:27

And yes I think now you're 3 weeks late a gp visit definitely wouldn't harm! I was suffering headaches as well so that was one of the reason they sent me for bloods. You should ask if they would do bloods for you

Katbaby · 29/02/2020 07:26

@Sitchervice not yet, nurse reckoned Mon-Tues for results to be back. Will keep you posted!!

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Sitchervice · 29/02/2020 05:27

@Katbaby any news on your bloods?

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Katbaby · 26/02/2020 16:33

I guess so @Sitchervice! Im getting bloods done tomorrow but if they come back all normal levels and with a bfn as the cherry on top then what? I'll be touching cd 70!

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Sitchervice · 26/02/2020 11:08

I have now fully missed AF. With 3 BFN. Now what? I guess it's back to the doctor?

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paintfairy · 25/02/2020 07:42

I'm not sure I like them that much. They usually make me feel sick. 😂

Katbaby · 25/02/2020 07:41

@Sitchervice @paintfairy thank god I don't like pancakes 🤣🤣. In the gym working off annoying frustrating dreams haha

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