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1dpo - anyone for the journey

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shelly10111 · 20/02/2020 12:24

Hi ladies, I thought after months of reading everyone's fertility posts online I'd come on in the hope to just vent etc to those trying.
I have 2 beautiful daughters 5+6 conceived first month first try - I'm now on 6 month trying with 3 chemical pregnancies so it's getting very emotional now and draining, draining because Ive has the positive tests and then started bleeding so this month I've vowed to not test until I'm a few days late! My cycles are like clockwork 28 days, I've ovulated a day early on day 11 I have my positive so I'm hoping that's a good sign, I'm taking vitamins and folic and had a lot of bed time ... hoping this is the month but going to do my best to relax! :)

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shelly10111 · 06/04/2020 20:17

Hi ladies just updating - partners sperm test was positive, waiting for my results tomorrow or weds 🥵

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shelly10111 · 02/04/2020 19:28

Well done @KC68 good to hear some good news as majority of us had no luck :( happy healthy 9 months for you !! 🥰

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shelly10111 · 02/04/2020 19:28

Hi ladies just updating I spoke to my gp today and she said to nip in and get bloods tomorrow while I'm still on my period to check my hormones, she seems to think the issue is with OH so still waiting for his test to arrive in the post but if it turns out it's with him then we agreed to stop trying and accept it for what it is.

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Annajay12 · 02/04/2020 17:48

@KC68 congrats! Great news 😁
Mine was a chemical last month.
And still waiting to ovulate this month 🙄 by bbt has dropped really low, was expecting it to go straight back up the day after like last month but been same for 4 days now. Dont understand it.

KC68 · 02/04/2020 06:11

Just checking in to see how everyone has got on a month on? I was so so lucky to get my BFP on 8dpo and now 15dpo and line stronger everyday. Fingers crossed for all of you

Annajay12 · 11/03/2020 13:18

@OrganicSmorganic how are you getting on. Did you test? Smile

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shelly10111 · 09/03/2020 19:48

@Annajay12 yes fed up now, due to ovulating on Saturday xx

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Annajay12 · 09/03/2020 19:28

@shelly10111 I bet you do get to a point where your like it will happen when it does but its still so disappointing isn't it. 😘

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shelly10111 · 09/03/2020 18:47

@Annajay12 yes Hun, third time now, I'm beyond down hearted on it all, 7 months trying this month xx

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Annajay12 · 09/03/2020 18:41

@shelly10111 was yours chemical too this month? Was looking back on messages and noticed you had faint lines but you didnt say if AF arrived x

Annajay12 · 09/03/2020 18:36

Iv said im not going to test for at least another 2 days then it should have either gone darker or not...
Just realised I'm spotting too since I sent the last message which STILL could mean 1 of 2 things 🙄
But your right, I will stop testing if it goes darker otherwise I will make myself go crazy lol x

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shelly10111 · 09/03/2020 18:15

@Annajay12 I totally get it, my advice would be to test and if your line is darker just stop testing and maybe have a private scan at 8 weeks for peace of mind, if the line hasn't got darker then I just always prepare myself for my period xx

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Annajay12 · 09/03/2020 18:11

First time I have ever had a positive preg test in my life so honestly dont know what I should be expecting. Just feel a bit down today incase I'm getting my Hope's up for nothing x

Annajay12 · 09/03/2020 18:10

@shelly10111 took another cheapie and a FRER this morning. FRER only very slightly positve. (Probably wouldn't see if I took a pic) And cheapie lighter than yesterday so I'm not filled with much hope at the moment 😔
Had a GP appt today for something else and mentioned it to her and asked if it could be chemical and she said the lightness of the line means nothing. But surely it does, it should be going darker! 😒 x

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shelly10111 · 09/03/2020 17:10

@Annajay12 any news? Xx

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shelly10111 · 08/03/2020 17:20

@Annajay12 let us know upload a pic :) and keep strong I've had 3 chemicals now, so over it but you'll get there.

@Foreverblowingbubbles18 oh my god that's no falsie!! Eek so jelous congrats !!! Xxxx

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Annajay12 · 08/03/2020 15:54

Thankyou! Hope it isn't a chemical 😣 Bought a FRER today so 🤞 just have to it and see. Had quite a bit of cramping today and back pain..

@Foreverblowingbubbles18 100% positive. Congratulations!

OrganicSmorganic · 08/03/2020 15:08

@Foreverblowingbubbles looks like a BFP to me! Congratulations! Highly unlikely to be a false positive.

Foreverblowingbubbles18 · 08/03/2020 14:56

Hi ladies, af due today and have been feeling iffy for a few days. Took a Tesco test and got this straight away, literally before I’d even wiped myself (TMI) I’m sorry. How reliable are these are so tests? Don’t want to get excited if it’s probably a falsie

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OrganicSmorganic · 08/03/2020 14:08

@shelly10111 I never get a BFP until several days after my missed period so tend not to use the clear blue as it takes too long!

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shelly10111 · 08/03/2020 13:49

@Annajay12 could be a chemical as they never come up on clear blue because your levels never get 25mui + but also 13dpo is perfectly good time to start getting your bfp and clear blue take ages so deffo test again 15dpo ! Exciting xxx

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OrganicSmorganic · 08/03/2020 13:04

@AnnaJay congratulations! Clearblue are not the most sensitive in my experience, I remember getting negatives on those and positives on the FRER but a line’s a line!

I’m a few days late and getting all of the symptoms- sore boobs, metallic, watery mouth, nausea, tiredness, hot flashes, low back ache and tender stomach but got another BFN again this morning 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m going to test again on Wednesday, I just need to see it in black and white!

Annajay12 · 08/03/2020 12:18

Hey!
Took a cheap ebay test today at 13dpo and have a faint line!! Faint enough that it can only just be seen on a photo but quite clear in reality.
Then took clearblue and that was 100% negative with same FMU.
Thoughts please?? Smile

Annajay12 · 07/03/2020 18:11

Well good luck, have my fingers crossed for you 🤞
Keep me updated!!

OrganicSmorganic · 07/03/2020 17:56

@AnnaJay no I haven’t been charting my temp however I feel so hot one minute then ice cold the next.

IIRC my BBT stayed high when I was pregnant with my second and that was a sure indicator for me that I was pregnant.

I have one more test left which I will take tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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