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Anyone just gone into their tww?

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tossacoin1 · 15/02/2020 13:35

I'm 2 dpo and would love some buddies to help get me through the dreaded tww Grin this is my second month ttc first baby

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tossacoin1 · 20/03/2020 17:44

@AnxiousAnnie86 oh really, what cd are you now? Are you still getting flashing smiley? I have heard that not everybody has ovulation every month.

@paintfairy it's so hard cause it sounds like you have things happen every month that could mean pregnancy or af. I don't tend to have much happen so I can tell if something is different. Def worth a try Monday, when is af due?

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 20/03/2020 17:26

@tossacoin1 still haven't got my peak :( I'm 3 days late for ovulation now..... I'm really worried about it :(

paintfairy · 20/03/2020 15:26

@tossacoin1 well I assume so? Boob's are massive now and hurt. But I get that sometimes. Spotting has gone again. If it remains slight and after 10 dpo, I hope that means it's at least a possibility it can happen for me. Sometimes I bleed a fair bit prior to 10 dpo and then that seems like it would prevent implantation?

I have some frer but wouldn't waste one. Unless I got a line on an IC. Might try one Monday but I know they aren't always that sensitive?

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tossacoin1 · 20/03/2020 15:17

@paintfairy aw okay so you think you're out this month? Well let me know if anything changes. I won't be testing for a couple of day's

@AnxiousAnnie86 any news your end?

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paintfairy · 20/03/2020 13:52

@tossacoin1 I thought I bled in my LP due to low progesterone. So I was trying cream. Twice a day since ovulation.

Too late I think. Plus it always starts now. I did have some random bits at 4dpo but again, I often do. So not holding my breath.

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tossacoin1 · 20/03/2020 13:37

@paintfairy what's the cream supposed to do? Could it be implantation bleeding?

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paintfairy · 20/03/2020 13:26

@tossacoin1 not tested but I'm now spotting. Despite the progesterone cream. 🙄

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tossacoin1 · 20/03/2020 12:52

@paintfairy so I assume you haven't tested today? I know what you mean but I honestly couldn't wait to know, I'm testing Sunday 9dpo and from there onwards. I had really intense on and off pains this morning which only last a second and that's definitely new! Have you had anything new?

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paintfairy · 19/03/2020 20:32

@tossacoin1 we had a lovely day. But it was sad without my dad and the planning wasn't enjoyable, stressing about it.

My CM is more yellowish? I think? I dunno if you should be happy or not. 🤪 It's a bloody nightmare. To be honest I think by December it'll be ok. But the first few months will be a worry. I wasn't hoping to rush to test as I don't know if I want to know. 😂 Plus I know sometimes it doesn't show this early. I will start bleeding a bit in the next day or 2, if I follow my usual pattern, so that will give an indication.

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tossacoin1 · 19/03/2020 20:24

@paintfairy oooh when are you going to test? I'm 6DPO but will definitely be testing when I'm 10!! I know what you mean though, every month I think I have symptoms that I didn't have before and never been pregnant. This increased cm is definitely a first though and I've just read lots of people saying that it will be thick white and creamy if you've conceived and that is definitely what mine is. Should I be happy or worried?! So conflicted!

Sorry to hear about your wedding. I really hope if you do conceive it won't be overshadowed by this stupid virus 💐

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paintfairy · 19/03/2020 19:50

@tossacoin1 I'd be gutted if I couldn't enjoy it. Early last year we booked a wedding for the nearer the end of the year. It was sadly over shadowed by my dad being ill and then dying in the summer. I couldn't enjoy it like I should. So if it happened now - I'd be like- here we go again! I just seem to never be able to enjoy doing things the right way? But I guess that's life.

I've had quite a lot of cm too. Some brown tinted as I usually start spotting/bleeding in my LP. I'm using progesterone cream so obviously I've no idea if that will help. Or if my symptoms could be related to that. My boobs really hurt but it's the end of them, as opposed to round the sides. But I have had that happen odd times before. That's it though. I felt I had cramping around 5dpo but I couldn't decide if it was that or not! It was minor. Oh and last night (this is new) my cheeks were really hot! Like when you've been out in the cold. But - every month something is new and I'm never pregnant. 😂 So I don't bank on any of it meaning much. I'm 10dpo (I think) tomorrow.

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tossacoin1 · 19/03/2020 19:39

@paintfairy paying for a private scan is a good idea if worse came to worse. I'm hoping by December time when I would be due things would of hopefully calmed down by then. It's crazy isn't it, this is all I wanted and now if I am I think instead of being excited I'm just going to be worried and like you said, it will almost be like Sod's law. Have you got any symptoms yet? I haven't got any but I have noticed I have a lot of white creamy cm the last couple of evenings when normally I'm dry

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paintfairy · 18/03/2020 18:23

@tossacoin1 we were going to leave it next month anyway because I didn't want an end of December due date. After that I'll see where we are with things and take it from there. But I'll wait if things are still crazy.

But yes- if this month I am (sods law?) I'll be worried. What if you can't have a scan and something is wrong? Having said that- I'd likely pay for at least one? If it came to it. But the nhs is a massive concern and I have no health insurance. It's a worry for sure. More that you can get the baby here safely as opposed to the rest of it.

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tossacoin1 · 18/03/2020 18:07

@AnxiousAnnie86 any news? Got your static?

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tossacoin1 · 18/03/2020 18:06

@paintfairy I just read what you wrote on another post about coronavirus and I feel exactly the same. I'm in my tww and I decided if it doesn't happen now then I probably won't try next month but I'm feeling a little worried if I am. I'm most worried about not being seen and getting the same care cause the nhs are so stretched already due to the virus. I've seen people having appointments and scans cancelled and that worries me

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 17/03/2020 11:18

@tossacoin1 nooooooo but dark opk this morn so maybe later in day! It's my predicted OV today :(

paintfairy · 17/03/2020 09:40

@tossacoin1 I sometimes have phases anyway, but it started last cycle. Its like I know I need to take BBT so the anxiety keeps me awake. I find weekends doesn't throw it out much if I sleep. Its just I can't! Last night I only woke once at 3. But the 2 nights before I barely slept as I'd hurt my back. Prior to that I was waking at 1am, and 4am so just never got enough sleep to check! My boobs usually hurt a lot. Not even got pressing hurting yet. Nipples hurt though. Which is what happened last month. I did read them being as bad as they were was not necessarily good so I'm hoping that somehow it's a better sign my body is working better. Who knows though!
I have been using OPK so I'm hoping I'm getting things right and the BBT doesn't matter. Peak was last Monday.

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tossacoin1 · 17/03/2020 09:32

@paintfairy is it just recently you can't sleep? Bbt isn't really working for me either as I struggle to take it same time everyday, especially on weekends and they're just all over the place. But like you I know I ovulated so that's all that matters really. My boobs hurt but only when I press on them so I doubt that's anything to go by. More cm is definitely a good sign though

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paintfairy · 17/03/2020 08:53

@tossacoin1 I've been struggling with temps because I just wasn't sleeping. I got an ok reading this morning but yesterday and the day before were a bit low. Mine usually only lowers towards the end of my LP, so I just didn't enter them into the app. Tracking bbt isn't really working but I know I ovulated so that's all that matters. The rest is all over the place. I've not really had any symptoms either. More cm yesterday and the day before than I thought normal but not enough for me to even be sure. Boobs don't hurt yet (usually do) but didn't last month so hopefully the herbal supplements etc are just working.

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tossacoin1 · 17/03/2020 08:24

@AnxiousAnnie86 have you got a static smiley yet?

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tossacoin1 · 17/03/2020 08:23

@paintfairy that's good your not symptom spotting, I'm trying to be but it's not working at all! Although I actually don't have anything so can't guess if its pregnant related or not. My temp has gone down the last three days which is a bit odd, I would expect them to be going up!

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paintfairy · 16/03/2020 12:11

@tossacoin1 I'm starting to think that maybe symptoms don't exist. So I'm not looking.
However I feel like my stomach is slightly crampy. I've hurt my back so I can't decide if it's referred pain or not. Had it yesterday and today. It's slight though. I'm using progesterone cream this month so I've been paranoid that I might have used it too early because I couldn't get proper temp readings. Even though I left it an extra day to be sure. Time will tell!

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tossacoin1 · 16/03/2020 12:04

@paintfairy half way there!! Are you/have you experienced any symptoms yet?

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tossacoin1 · 16/03/2020 12:04

@sakuramiyagi so you'll be testing 12dpo, that's good! I wouldn't be able to wait, I plan on testing from 8 DPO 😂 hopefully they are all good signs that will lead to a BFP.

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paintfairy · 16/03/2020 11:27

I think I'm 6dpo. Another week to go!

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