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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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Fifol · 09/04/2020 19:25

@Hayleylou89 good luck girlie and enjoy 😉

Hayleylou89 · 09/04/2020 15:29

@Fifol I know i just wish i never said anything either but lesson learnt... will try and feed him a few gins and make a nice romantic meal food is the way to a man heart ... we shall see what happens 🤣... wish me luck x

Fifol · 09/04/2020 09:00

@Hayleylou89 that was me last month! Got so excited with the static face and told him and he obviously felt the pressure. This time I'm saying nothing!!!

Hayleylou89 · 09/04/2020 08:53

Question for anyone who have successfully used CB fertility monitors.

How many times did you dtd following peak reading and if you fell pg what day during the peak did you conceive? X

2 days before ov?
1 day before ov?
Day of ovulation?

Hayleylou89 · 09/04/2020 08:47

@Fifol not too long to wait now them! .... im hoping i havnt shattered the hubbie by dtd too much leading up to the peak thinking it would never happen 🙈... we dtd last night but he couldnt finish this morning (sorry tmi) definitely put too much pressure on him and got too excited when i got my peak and told him i had my peak 🙈 ( lesson learned to not say a word) But I hope hell be up for the job later 🙏 xx

Fifol · 08/04/2020 14:12

@Hayleylou89 next Tuesday/Wednesday ish. Based on my average cycle. Hopefully I won't have another long one x

Hayleylou89 · 08/04/2020 11:46

@Fifol when are u expecting to ovulate? Xx

MrsLlama89 · 08/04/2020 11:40

@AliSxo Awww congratulations 💞💞 I am so over the moon for you!!! Gives me hope for this cycle ❤️ xxx

AliSxo · 08/04/2020 10:23

Worth watching if you're using the CB digital ovulation tracker xx

Fifol · 08/04/2020 08:45

Oh @Hayleylou89 there you go what a relief! I was going to start using them this morning but forgot! Kinda tempted not to even open the pack and just bd regularly!

@AliSxo that's amazing news. You've given me so much hope! Stay positive xx

Hayleylou89 · 08/04/2020 08:40

@AliSxo congrats on the biggest bfp :) ur time has come lovely!

@becca321 yeah i took one to compare ... my second to last cheapy i had 🙈😂 and it's definitely the darkest one iv had especially using fmu x

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
becca321 · 08/04/2020 08:23

@AliSxo congratulations, that is such good news! So happy for you xx

@Hayleylou89 glad it finally came! What day did it finally come?

AliSxo · 08/04/2020 08:14

This was yesterday 11DPO I'm delighted, I'm nervous but I'm trying to be really positive xx

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
AliSxo · 08/04/2020 08:13

@gingerglitter4ever please don't give up, I've been TTC since October when I had a really early MC, hang in there, it'll happen xxx

AliSxo · 08/04/2020 08:08

@Hayleylou89 amazing!! I'm so pleased for you 💗 xxx

Hayleylou89 · 08/04/2020 08:02

Ahh finally girls its arrived 🥰 🙏

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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
Fifol · 07/04/2020 22:34

@Hayleylou89 no dont give up you'll get it soon!

@HalfPenny28 I'm ok, generally feeling a bit crap too I just feel very negative this time and its annoying me coz I feel I need to get motivated for lots of bd over the next week or two and then I'm feeling bad for kind of dreading it tbh. And literally everyone around me is either announcing a pregnancy or giving birth at the moment!! So @gingerglitter4ever I so know what you mean. My brother in laws girlfriend went into labour the day I got my period in Feb, it is hard when you want it so much yourself x

HalfPenny28 · 07/04/2020 21:02

@Fifol I think the closer I get to the 12 month mark the harder I'm finding it but I'm ok 🙂 just getting through!

How're you feeling? Xx

Hayleylou89 · 07/04/2020 18:52

@becca321 yeah i get ya like reverse psychology a bit 😂

@Fifol next month I'm not starting until at-least cd15, cnt be doing this again everyday been testing with cb twice a day for almost 2 weeks now 😴 and my opks just keep showing up like this so dont know what to think no more ... but not going to give up now x 🙈

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
gingerglitter4ever · 07/04/2020 18:36

Omg @AliSxo congratzzzz!!! That’s so great, I really hope it’s a sticky bean!

I’m currently 4-6 DPO and feel a wee crampy and just so mad. I’m angry and irritated at everything and I found out my sister-in-law unexpectedly got pregnant with their second (their first is not a year yet) and although excited for them I couldn’t help but to feel a whole mix of emotions. I don’t want to burden my husband so much, as it’s his brother, so I felt like it was better to come on here to chat with you ladies.

Fifol · 07/04/2020 09:54

@Hayleylou89 usually 29 to 33 days but last month was 40 something and I had one 50 day cycle. This is my 8th cycle off the pill.

It's so annoying. I got the bigger pack of CB for this time just in case 🤣 they're expensive though

@becca321 that totally makes sense. I would love to take that approach but I'm not easy going enough to just relax 🤣

becca321 · 07/04/2020 09:32

@Hayleylou89 hopefully that static face comes soon. I'm thinking taking a more relaxed approach this month will help. With my previous pregnancies, we didn't think it was possible to get pregnant and got pregnant much quicker than this one where we are actively trying, so thinking if I pretend we are not trying we may get pregnant if that makes sense 😂

Hayleylou89 · 07/04/2020 09:23

@Fifol whats ur normal cycle legnth? X x honestly annoying isnt it and iv almost ran out of cheap opks but have ordered some on ebay 🙄 im onto my second box of cb ones now with this cycle 🙈 x

Fifol · 07/04/2020 09:15

@HalfPenny28 you sound really deflated, hope you're ok. You never know so just see what happens. I always wait for AF too, I dont know which is easier really, none of them I think!

@Hayleylou89 I know how you feel that was me last month! Really hoping it's back to normal this time. Hopefully you will get that static soon!

Hayleylou89 · 07/04/2020 09:07

@AliSxo that test looks great 🥰... so happy for u! ... still flashy face for me cd 22 feel like giving up already! 🙈... literally just want to be in the 2ww and my natural cycles just keeps moving my ovulation day along, never dtd so much in allllll my life "just in case" but kinda just feeling like im
Just not gonna ovulate or something my temps are still quite low to what they normal spike like after ovulating x