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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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gingerglitter4ever · 21/02/2020 18:38

@HalfPenny28 I’m really sorry to hear that 😕 take care of yourself and treat yourself well, you deserve it!

MrsLlama89 · 21/02/2020 18:29

Had cramps at work today so think AF will be making an appearance tonight or tomorrow morning! 😫

This was my first cycle using ovulation tests (clearblue digital) and it said I ovulated the day after Flo predicted, so it will be interesting to see what happens this cycle! I can't explain the excitement of getting the static smiley after 5 days of flashing smileys...it was like winning a game 😂

@Fifol I came off the pill in September but didn't really properly think about ovulation until December and had no clue what I was doing (felt like I was back in a science class haha). So I guess this is really only my 2nd cycle of TTC too!

Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 18:16

@HalfPenny28 thats shit! Although prosecco sounds amazing right now. I've just had another pale pink smear and crampings getting worse so I think I'll be joining you soon. Hope you're ok xx

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HalfPenny28 · 21/02/2020 18:13

AF is here! Going to curl up tonight with a hot water bottle and Prosecco and focus on the next cycle 💕 hope you're all okay xx

Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 14:03

Thanks. I just feel consumed by it all, I can't think about anything else so just want to know either way! Still feeling very light headed and off, which is unusual for me. And still having small pains on my left side. But i think I'm overthinking again 🙄 hope you girls have better luck than me this weekend!

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Nora11 · 21/02/2020 14:00

Awww that sucks @Twitchett22 😔 Hope AF comes soon IF she is coming (you never know..!)

I've started getting cramps so think AF will be with me soon too! I've just bought some ovulation strips, evening primrose oil and a cheap early detection test in preparation for next month though still hoping I won't need them! 🤞 I've only been guessing my ovulation so will be interesting to see when it actually happens...

Fifol · 21/02/2020 13:51

@twitchett22 that sounds so similar to me last month so I really do feel for you. I literally have never been so happy to get my period, I had done a few tests and all bfn so knew I wasnt pregnant and it was just am AF waiting game.

It's a cruel game!

Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 13:42

@fifol I've never tracked ovulation so i don't know for definite, since coming off the pill my cycles have been 34 days, 33, 32 then the last one was 28 so i was just basing it off a 28 day cycle. DTD day before i thought i would ovulate and definitely had increased thick CM but who knows. A little window into our wombs would be very helpful.

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Fifol · 21/02/2020 13:41

@HalfPenny28 yes will be nice to go through it together! I'm actually feeling quite positive, I was looking back over my last few cycles and this is actually only my 5th cycle of ttc. And really and truly it's only my 2nd cycle of ttc because for the first few I didnt really know what I was doing and my timing (in hindsight) was wrong. So I'm hoping that with a bit more knowledge now and being more prepared this could be the one!!

Fifol · 21/02/2020 13:36

@twitchett22 hope you get sorted soon. Did you know if you ovulated at the time you thought? My january cycle was 56 days, just randomly. I must have ovulated way later but hadn't been using opk so didnt really know. It's a mind f* for sure.

Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 13:30

Decided to test (no idea why) and bfn. I would have thought that it would have showed by now on a FRER? But again didn't use FMU. I literally have no willpower 😂 still no sign of AF so just keeping everything crossed for the weekend.

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gingerglitter4ever · 21/02/2020 12:56

@Twitchett nooooo I cant believe they left those out!! I hope AF stays away! 🙅🏼‍♀️
Keep us posted!

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 21/02/2020 12:54

Drives you mad doesnt it!
My af also due today no sign very watery cm feel like I've wet myself and cervix so high cant reach it but rhr has dropped today so not feeling awfully positive

Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 12:20

Also feeling a bit faint and fuzzy headed. Went to McDonald's drive thru and they forgot my chips. Now I'm sat in the car park crying and I don't want to go back in and ask for them 😂 fucking hormones.

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Twitchett22 · 21/02/2020 10:40

AF due today. Pink smear when i wiped this morning so was pissed off but since then absolutely nothing. I'm going crazy 🤯

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HalfPenny28 · 21/02/2020 07:28

@calimommy I'm in the same boat!

Sure af is arriving today so I've stuck a pad on in anticipation!

Just so ready to start a new cycle now!

How's everyone feeling about this next one?

It's nice that we're all ovulating within a couple days of each other 💕

calimommy · 21/02/2020 00:14

My lower back has been aching badly for the last two days. It's very bad like the sort of pain which takes away your sense of humour and nothing I'm taking is touching it. I'm due AF today or Saturday so I'm resigned to that being the source, so much so that I kept rushing to check my underwear if I felt like something was coming down. I've resorted to tampons because I decided it would let me relax. But all it's been so far is fairly mucky CM and one incident of a dash of pink spotting. Nice. Anyho I know if I POAS then AF will immediately show up and then Ill feel like an idiot for wasting a test and being hopeful when it's glaringly obvious this is a period.

No real point to this I just want to complain about my back 😂 as DH is away and the children are on holidays this week. I'm sat down with a glass of red before I start dinner, while they chill out watching tv, hoping the medicinal affects of alcohol hurry along AF and my backache resolves. 🤞 🍷

Fifol · 20/02/2020 20:57

@MrsLlama89 we are in this together x it is a tough time when AF arrives so I have been feeling fragile but have to move on and keep hopeful x

MrsLlama89 · 20/02/2020 18:59

@Blackbelt I'm so sorry to hear about your chemical Sad
It has taken me by surprise how obsessed I have become, but I think when you decide you want to start your family you just want it right now!

@Fifol We got married in April and decided to come off the pill in Sept to get prepared for when we wanted to start TTC. As soon as I came off it I cried every month my period came and it really took me by surprise how quickly it consumed me. I see hubby's judgemental face every time I open Flo and gaze at dates haha

@Twitchett22 Hubby has banned me from tests before AF is due haha but I can't help myself. My friend, who was in this situation last year, told me about ovulation tests so now I am also addicted to POAS haha

@inahaze Sorry to hear about AF Sad I'll probably be joining you in the next 2 days xx

I am TTC for the first time. I have felt so anxious recently but speaking to you all on this thread has already made me feel so much better! No AF today but might come on Saturday. My cycle is 26 days, then 28 days, 26, 28, 26 and so on so this month should be 28 days.
It's comforting to know if it does appear we can start next cycle together xx

inahaze · 20/02/2020 15:49

Thanks everyone Flowers

Fifol · 20/02/2020 15:46

@inahaze sorry to hear Angry

At least now it's there, fresh cycle, fresh attempt x

Twitchett22 · 20/02/2020 15:38

Last month my period was early. It's NEVER been early ever. It's like mother nature thought oh you're TTC I'll just send you an unexpected, heavy, painful period to kick you while you're down.

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calimommy · 20/02/2020 15:37

Bollocks anyway @inahaze 👎

I think I'll be joining you later today.

Agnus Castus is definitely worth a shot!

inahaze · 20/02/2020 15:33

Thanks @twitchett22 I'm now reading 100 things about periods being early and a new found neurotic level

Twitchett22 · 20/02/2020 15:29

@inahaze oh I'm sorry. AF seems to be even more of a nasty bitch when your TTC.

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