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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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AliSxo · 29/02/2020 16:11

Another day of EWCM, not DTD today but will tomorrow morning.... trying every other day this cycle, ovulation I think will be Tuesday on cd14. I want to not test this month.... I'm ready to put the pee sticks down and wait for AF to tell me this month. I always spot/af arrives on 12dpo so I want to try and be calmer this month xx

Fifol · 29/02/2020 10:38

@AliSxo I had it 2 days before last time so it probably is possible. I have heard before that you should dtd when you see it as it's a good sign that you're at your most fertile! You'll probably have more over the next few days and in line with your opk getting darker

AliSxo · 28/02/2020 20:54

So I use the apps femometer and Flo and both said ovulation would be Monday. However because I had EWCM today and I've inputted that to femometer it changed ovulation to today, I don't think I'm ovulating on CD10 it would then mean with my clockwork 12 day luteal phase I have a 22 day cycle which I've never had before. Also my OPKS aren't dark enough and I've been tracking since Tuesday so I haven't missed it. Does anyone else get ewcm 3 days before ovulation?

Fifol · 28/02/2020 20:47

I think I'll be ovulating Tuesday or Wednesday. But making the most of flashing smiley faces for now ;)

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Twitchett22 · 28/02/2020 19:41

@inahaze 😂😂 i love the fertile goddess thought! I could do with a hotel stay i think... Except I'm poorly and OH is working overtime so it's gonna be a real effort this month 🤦🏼‍♀️

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inahaze · 28/02/2020 19:07

Ovulating tomorrow!!!! But no smiley face yet on the opk. We are staying in a hotel so might even get 2 sessions in!!!

I've been doing positive affirmations too, "I'm a fertile goddess" ;)

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Twitchett22 · 28/02/2020 16:51

I think I'm due to ovulate a week today so next week just going to try and DTD every couple of days and the same the few days after ovulation to try and cover all bases. I definitely agree that a positive mental attitude helps! Obviously it can't physically get you pregnant 🤨😂 but it's definitely better than feeling stressed and anxious which must be better for your body. When's everybody else ovulating this cycle?

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Fifol · 28/02/2020 09:13

@gingerglitter4ever not really trying anything new. Second time using the clearblue digital opk. Second flashing smiley today. Dtd every second day and then closer to what I think will be ovulation will do every day I think whereas last time did every second day only. Dont know if thays any good I've heard it's fine to go every day and I've heard you should only go every second day so who knows, worth a try!

Just keeping positive and keep telling myself I'm going to conceive. Has to be worth a shot as well! I've been reading some stuff on positive affirmations!!

gingerglitter4ever · 28/02/2020 08:33

Thanks @Fifol and @Twitchett22! I hope so!! I have to say it was a really nice feeling 💕 how are things going for you two this cycle? Any new stuff you’re trying?

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Twitchett22 · 27/02/2020 16:39

@gingerglitter4ever oh im sorry! I was the same last month but maybe it's best not to know for sure. We've got this now for next month 💪

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Fifol · 27/02/2020 14:19

@gingerglitter4ever sorry to hear that x

Yea @AliSxo I think last time I had 4 or 5 days flashing so should be the same this time if my calculations are correct!

Feeling so excited and trying to be very positive and keep telling myself I know my time is coming! Might as well put that out and let the universe pick up on it!

AliSxo · 27/02/2020 13:19

@gingerglitter4ever maybe take a test because if there was something you may have some hcg but tbh you don't need the mental torture so maybe let it pass without testing this time xxxx

gingerglitter4ever · 27/02/2020 13:08

Thanks @AliSxo ❤️
I feel like there was something there, which is a positive 🤞🏻 I’m just trying to take the positive aspect of this experience with me and now looking ahead 💕

How’s everyone else doing with this cycle?

AliSxo · 27/02/2020 13:04

@gingerglitter4ever sorry to hear that xx we're all here so you're not alone xx it's shit it really is this whole TTC is tough xx

gingerglitter4ever · 27/02/2020 12:41

AF came today... 😭😭😭 I really hoped this month was my month...

AliSxo · 27/02/2020 10:01

That's amazing @Fifol flashing smileys are always a good way to start the day! Hopefully you'll get the static really soon!! Xx

Fifol · 27/02/2020 07:29

@gingerglitter4ever hope theres good news for you!

@AliSxo I started opks yesterday too, got my flashing smiley this morning, makes me so happy when I see it Smile

AliSxo · 26/02/2020 22:11

Started OPKS, DTD tonight and used preseed, used it last month too x

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Twitchett22 · 26/02/2020 11:05

@gingerglitter4ever it's all sounding very positive! I've got my fingers crossed so tight for you x

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inahaze · 26/02/2020 09:10

if i remember correctly, sustained high temps means pregnant?

gingerglitter4ever · 26/02/2020 08:44

Hey! I haven’t tested yet, but I’m currently 3 days late and this morning on my BBT I shot up 0.3 degrees C
Still crossing my fingers and holding out until Friday to test but I’m going on my 8 th day in a row having a massive headache that just keeps getting worse, I got the sweats all the time and feel like I can’t go up the stairs or a little hill without getting winded 😅 I’ll keep you guys updated!

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
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Twitchett22 · 25/02/2020 19:06

Any news @gingerglitter4ever @MrsLlama89 ??

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Twitchett22 · 25/02/2020 16:53

Oh @calimommy I'm so sorry, it's gutting isn't it. Sending you lots of love x

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Fifol · 25/02/2020 15:45

@inahaze I haven't got a clue about the preseed!

That's so frustrating about your friend, it can be so upsetting cant it!

Aw @calimommy sorry to hear that. we are here for you, either way x

inahaze · 25/02/2020 15:26

so so so sorry calimommy, so sad to end your journey, sending love x

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