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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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inahaze · 10/03/2020 13:13

I think my chart has gone triphasic?!?!

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
AliSxo · 10/03/2020 12:49

@Fifol still getting flashing smileys? Hope you're ok xx

AliSxo · 10/03/2020 12:46

7DPO today, felt some nausea today but I don't think I'd have implanted yet so not reading too much into that. Really pleased I'm not POAS this cycle, nothing worse than a bfn xx

Fifol · 09/03/2020 20:29

@Daffodil21 I'm considering that next month ie no tracking just dtd. Although hoping I wont need to!!!

These flashing smileys are absolutely killing me. Like you said @calimommy at least after ovulation you know you've done your best whereas I still feel in limbo Hmm

inahaze · 09/03/2020 15:44

thanks for the update @Daffodil21. i didn't buy the ava in the end mainly because of the price. decided better doing OPK and BBT and 6 billion fertility apps all running simultaneously but never in sync, obvs Confused

i think i'm going to be 10pdo on friday, so absolutely no testing until there, trying desperately not to get hopes up.... but i am feeling positive this month don't know why

Daffodil21 · 09/03/2020 13:53

@inahaze I bought the Ava fertility bracelet and I felt like it was a scam. I sold it (and actually felt bad selling it to another woman). It says it can't help with irregular cycles (which for me was the whole bloody point!) so it's just going on 'normal' time frames and adjusting based on that - I felt it did nothing extra than the Flo app, it does make you feel like you're in control and you get a weird little buzz from seeing the data update in the mornings but that's it.

I was also using clear blue OPKs to test the reliability of the Ava bracelet and it never tied up. The time I got pregnant (unfortunately it didn't last) was when I sold the Ava, stopped doing the OPK's, decided to test after the day of my longest cycle in the last year (day 43) and didn't allow myself to test before then. We didn't track anything and DTD every two days.

Anyway, sorry for the ramble but I really wouldn't recommend the Ava bracelet. It's so hard not to let TTC take over your life so good luck to all!

AliSxo · 09/03/2020 13:22

Had a blood test today which was booked a week for AF is due, doctor said he can't refer me as we haven't been trying for a year but they can see my hormone levels a week before AF, fingers crossed it all comes back fine xx 6dpo, had a little cry to my mom earlier and then felt better afterwards xx hope you're all ok xx

calimommy · 09/03/2020 04:13

@IanHislopForPm I'd say are are further along than you think. I've gotten positive at 6DPO but they were faint or 1-2 max. 🤞

IanHislopForPm · 09/03/2020 03:37

I have absolutely no idea! My periods are all over the shop. I think I'll have to book a scan to see as I could be 8 weeks or only just pregnant Blush

calimommy · 09/03/2020 01:33

@IanHislopForPm congrats! You sure your only 6DPO?

IanHislopForPm · 09/03/2020 00:23

6dpo not 9dpo Blush

IanHislopForPm · 09/03/2020 00:22

Hello 👋 just popping back on to say I got a bfp!! Absolutely shitting myself because I'm 9 days 6 dpo... and this is my latest test

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
AliSxo · 08/03/2020 15:08

5dpo today, Af due next weekend, trying to be really positive 💗 x

Fifol · 08/03/2020 14:57

Day 11 of flashing smileys 😭🤔 partly annoyed and partly just feel like oh ffs

@MrsLlama89 any update did you do another test?!

HalfPenny28 · 08/03/2020 07:06

Wishing everyone the best of luck this month 😘💕✨

MrsLlama89 · 07/03/2020 17:37

Hi ladies!! Hope you are all well ❤️ Sorry for completely disappearing!!! Have been so busy at work and also had an ear infection so been feeling rotten. Went to the doctors on Thurs 27th Feb about ear infection and asked about the awful cramps and brown spotting which lasted for 4 days (only had one day with a little pink/red blood) and asked if it could be implantation- he said to wait another week before doing another pregnancy test. He said my temperature was high and gave me an ear spray for my 'angered' ear. So, obviously with the addiction to POAS (😂) I tested that evening and then again at the weekend-BFN. Tested on Thursday just there, also BFN. Have felt nauseous for 2 weeks, but assumed it was because of the ear infection. Tested with FMU this morning, looked like BFN so threw in bin. Then about an hour later I don't know why but I decided to get it out of the bin to have another look- at this point I'm thinking I've definitely lost the plot now 😂 But in the different light (or in my state of madness) there looked to be the faintest faintest faintest positive line. So I shouted for hubby who AGREED there was a very very faint positive line. I can't emphasise how faint the line is and then I realised that it had been over an hour since I took the test so now a new googling obsession has been born- googling evaporation lines, googling faint positive lines after advises time to look at test... I think the best thing to do is to POAS again tomorrow or the next day (yay) and see what happens! Just wanted to update you all and even if I'm not pregnant, I feel so hopeful as supposed to be ovulating this weekend so making sure there is plenty of baby dancing happening haha! xxx

AliSxo · 07/03/2020 17:05

I really hope it's my month, I would be so shocked and delighted to see that second line come up and I can't wait to hear some of you getting your BFP's! Xx

calimommy · 07/03/2020 16:05

I always say, nothing less fun than baby making sex 😂

Today is my Ovulation day, unless my OPK is still positive today (it was positive the last two days). We DTD last night and I might be able to sweet talk him again today but after that I'm chilling out.

calimommy · 07/03/2020 16:02

It the one thing I like about ovulating, once it passes I feel like I can relax. Whereas until ovulation I'm testing OPKs and wondering about timing. DH always knows when it's my fertile time and when it passes 😂

Twitchett22 · 07/03/2020 13:45

Remember when we used to have sex just for fun? 😂😂

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Fifol · 07/03/2020 13:29

Well I dtd all week thinking it was my fertile week but apparently not as dont know if I ovulated! So now i dont know if i did or not so gonna still dtd every 2 or 3 days for the rest of the month Shock

Fingers crossed I will get that static face or that I actually did ov but missed it on the stick

AliSxo · 07/03/2020 12:16

@Twitchett22 I DTD the day before and the morning after ovulation but not on the actual day, my dp was like there's nothing left to give 😂 was due to ovulate on the Monday so timed it all around then but it occurred on the Tuesdays which through my plan off!! Xx

Twitchett22 · 07/03/2020 12:07

I cba to DTD last night... Maybe tonight and then that's me done for the fertile week 😂 I also feel a bit more chilled this month for some reason. I've got a busy week next week and AF is due in 13 days so hoping it will pass quick. Determined to save some money this month which means NO extra tests! 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

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AliSxo · 07/03/2020 11:31

Hope everyone is ok!! Next weekend AF is due so this weekend is more chilled out and I actually have no desire currently to POAS, determined not to do it this month and let AF tell me xx

AliSxo · 06/03/2020 23:08

@Twitchett22 it's hard to DTD when ovulation dates change... I was due to ovulate on Monday but it may have been Tuesday xx