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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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AliSxo · 14/03/2020 15:04

Hey @Hayleylou89 taken at 9DPO in the evening - I've had bfns since apart from an IC today which had a faint line but they're terrible for indents.... cracking on with the day. I'm sure AF will be here soon. I'm 11DPO literally no symptoms just boobs still a bit sore but not as bad as they've been this week. I hope your cycle sorts itself out, it'll be getting it's mojo back but you'll get there xxx

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calimommy · 14/03/2020 15:02

@Hayleylou89 just OPK. I'm still doing them actually because the last few cycles I've had multiple surges so wasn't sure what was going on with my body. So far only one surge so fingers crossed it continues. I usually get implantation spotting and haven't so far so I'm feeling less positive about things! When I get IS it's like a mini pregnancy test, then when I test a few days later it's always positive. But none yet! Anyho I'll keep plodding along!

Hayleylou89 · 14/03/2020 14:50

@calimommy

Im so busy this weekend havin a boiler fitted and we have my partners kids this weekend so im pretty occupied but its in my mind 24/7 tbh every little twinge im think oooo but iv been naughty and did some cheapies and got bfn .... what symptoms have u had and have u been temping too? X x

calimommy · 14/03/2020 14:37

@Hayleylou89 we are twinning, 7DPO here too. It's a funny cycle for me, I'm not obsessing about it and I often forget what day I'm on, but then I'll count the days and realise it's still going slowly 🙈

Hayleylou89 · 14/03/2020 14:32

@AliSxo is say those faint tests are positive mine started like that last time 🙏🙏 when did u take them? Was it with fmu? X

Hayleylou89 · 14/03/2020 14:27

@calimommy thank u!

How are you @AliSxo feeling any symptoms?

7dpo now and just feelin slight stabby pains left side but nothin else really my cheapies are still bfn and only got 2 left and my cb and frer for next week 🙏... how have ur temps been looking ? X x

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 11:19

@gingerglitter4ever I had a very very faint line with colour to it on Thursday night and now not a thing. Fed up. AF due tomorrow xx

gingerglitter4ever · 14/03/2020 11:15

@Twitchett22 Heyyy!
Yeah so I got a faint BFP when I tested a week ago exactly, but I did a FRER on Wednesday and nothing, so confusing... I don’t know what’s up but I’m assuming the positive was a fluke 😒 how are you getting on?

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 11:13

@inahaze fingers crossed for you!! Xx

Twitchett22 · 14/03/2020 10:43

@gingerglitter4ever how are you getting on?? I saw on another thread you thought you might have bfp but couldn't find the thread again so wanted to catch up!

Imagine if tests were just a flat yes or no 🙈 they're so confusing when they show up their shitty little fake lines 😔

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Fifol · 14/03/2020 10:32

@inahaze defo a line there although very faint. But if it was after the time might not be reliable. All you can do is test again tomorrow I think Hmm

inahaze · 14/03/2020 10:24

Just pulled this out of the bin to double check, was BFN 2 hours ago, and now....... can be false?!

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AliSxo · 14/03/2020 10:22

@Fifol we've all been there xx it'll be a lovely distraction to go through your wedding photos xx

Fifol · 14/03/2020 09:57

Ha I know it's so annoying but he feels so bad now so I'm not annoyed at him just the situation.

We're going to get our wedding photos back this evening so hoping that will give us both something else to think about!

Wasn't even going to bother testing anymore so was surprised to see that static face!!!

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 09:52

@Fifol the day after my positive OPK do you think my partner wanted to or let us BD? No he was "too tired" ...arsehole!! I did it sun, mon, wed - ovulation was Tuesday 🙄 we try our best and that's all we can do!! At least you've got your static xxxx

Fifol · 14/03/2020 09:29

Aw @AliSxo sorry x

I got my static face this morning! After 18 flashing. Was so shocked I leapt into bed to bd before hubby goes to work and he couldn't perform Shock the pressure obviosuly got to him and I'm so disappointed and trying not to be annoyed because but ote so bloody frustrating!! And we have planned to go to my parents later so we will try again when he gets home from work.

We bd tues, weds, thurs and took a break last night and I'm raging now! Hopefully we will still be covered

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 08:49

@calimommy my boobs have been SO sore all week but not anymore they're fine now. AF will no doubt arrive tomorrow x

calimommy · 14/03/2020 04:17

@AliSxo I'm sorry my dear but I believe that is negative. Still time though x

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 02:55

Well girls although I said I wouldn't test I did on Thursday evening 9DPO and got a very faint squinter but since then all bfns. Now I'm 11DPO AF due tomorrow I'm on a test ban I've learnt my lesson xxx

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calimommy · 13/03/2020 14:20

@Hayleylou89 wishing all the best for you and your future pregnancies xxx

AliSxo · 13/03/2020 11:21

@Hayleylou89 i can't imagine how you're feeling you're so brave for just posting it and talking about it. My period resumed 4 weeks after and I just resumed back into a a normal cycle, my loss was at 5 weeks, be patient with yourself, your body will find it's mojo. When I miscarried I felt so empty I just wanted to TTC straight away xx

Twitchett22 · 13/03/2020 09:33

@Hayleylou89 that's heartbreaking. Any loss is awful but that far along i can't imagine how you must feel. But yes it must be of some comfort to know next time you will be carefully monitored. I hope everything goes smoothly next time you absolutely deserve it 💜

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Hayleylou89 · 13/03/2020 09:28

@Twitchett22

I know dont realise how precious it is - my waters broke early, not sure why but the baby was perfect, which is harder knowing that she was fine and my body decided to do that :( ..ill be high risk in future pregnancies so that's the only silver lining really that ill be monitored like a hawk... Iv been doing cheapies 5dpo bfn obviously so dont know why i do it ... if it was a normal cycle id be due AF between now and sunday which is why im testing just incase i got my Ovulation date wrong and it was earlier but my apps are saying im due AF next weekend now instead going off temps and opks x

Twitchett22 · 13/03/2020 09:21

Hi @HalfPenny28 AFs due in 7 days for me. I've only got one test in the house and its a CB digital so won't pick up early and I'm DETERMINED not to buy anymore 😂

@inahaze maybe it's fate? Telling you not to test until AF is due! I'd take that as a sign and try and hold off 😬 although I don't have any willpower so I probably wouldn't 😂

@Hayleylou89 gosh I'm so sorry I didn't know about your loss. I can't even imagine how hard that must be for you. Very scary aswell that out of 5 of you there are 3 that had problems! Just goes to show what miracles babies are doesn't it. Sending you lots of love 💜

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Hayleylou89 · 13/03/2020 09:02

@Fifol

Oh i really hope so, if I'm not pregnant i just want AF to arrive so i know where i am at but still no sign 5week after my loss... usually would be here by sunday if it was my normal cycle but my apps are predicting next weekend now after my loss sooo just got to keep on hoping, going off opks im 5dpo today 🙏 xx