March bus

DH went to the shop and got some cheap test, bless him, I think I might do one next weekend when af would have been a week late, just to be sure

@franklydear ha exactly, thank god for you guys. I literally have no one to tell that af hasnt turned up yet. Wont even tell oh cause i was 5 days late last month and dont want to say anything yet!

@newbie we haven’t told anyone as it might not happen at all, and don’t want a pity party, close friends and family always knew I wanted more than one, but after nearly ten years they stopped asking, don’t want that to start again, I just didn’t think I would get so immediately obsessed... thank god for strangers on the internet

Oh yes @franklydear, we haven’t told anyone either as we want it to be a surprise. This thread has been so helpful

@whatsthecraic91 I'm aiming not to test until Thursday when AF will be late, if it gets that far! I do have one test in so may be tempted to test Monday or Tuesday.

@Adrianoska and @newbie that’s why we haven’t told anyone, but of course makes it the much harder not having anyone irl to talk it through, dh is getting fed up, ...
I can’t remember who ask, I took a test on Thursday,...
I love to see your bfps, keep them coming....

@Newbie0818 weve all been there haha i like to shine a torch through mine 😂 im due today and was absolutely convinced id wake up to af, but so far nothing 🙄 still 100% sure it'll arrive, just hope its not as late as last month 😏

Well good luck to us all!

And @Adrianoska I know that feeling, it’s so annoying. Our families are constantly asking us when we’re going to have a baby and people actively look at my belly now whenever they see us 😡 I just feel it’s so personal and they have no idea

People.... We are all crazy! 😊😜

Please stay positive, it might just take some time, right?

I am just sitting here twiggling my thumbs, waiting away... According to ovia I can test in 9 days. So fed up myself... 😔

Mt husband family keeps asking him if we are pregnant yet! So annoying.

@Newbie0818 I think I also can see something but it could be false... Fingers crossed ❤️🤞

@Franklydear @Newbie0818
I know, its frustrating and hard to stay positive. Especially when others are getting BFPs.

@whatsthecraic91 I'm CD 9 today. Usually ovulate CD 11 or a bit after. I'm hoping thir magic herbs might have worked to slow it down though as I read its not ideal to ovulate before day 14. We are heading to Yorkshire for a couple of days so hopefully can switch off to it for a bit. I too think DTD too often doesn't help so we need to ration. Problem is- my sex drive is high this time of the month and I struggle not to burn him out before we've started. 🤣 Had a ban last night.

There you go. I’m insane.

It’s so hard isn’t it @Franklydear :(

I must say, I’ve officially turned into an obsessive maniac, as I swore I could see a “shadow” on the test (probably in my head). I dismantled the thing after staring at it for ages, which I know you shouldn’t do, and there’s the faintest bloody blue line on the strip.

Roll on af to snap me out of this craziness 😖

It's been a few days since I've checked in, sorry all who have BFNs or AF 😕

@Franklydear that sounds really weird have you took any tests?

@Lola871 when are you testing?

@calimommy that's a very positive OPK get DTD!!

@Posharmchairs @paintfairy how are yous?

CD11 and my temp is right down this morning so ovulating soon! planning on DTD just 3/4 times this next week as Dr said too much isn't really helpful so we shall see if it works! 🤞🏼

Same here @Newbie0818, I need a break, I’ll leave till the end of month when af would be due again and see what happens, at best I’ll be a few weeks pregnant, at worst I have weird periods/spotting...

Bfn. I’m a bit over all of this now.

Good luck to everyone else.

Good luck @Newbie0818!

Nothing to report here still, still haven't tested so willpower is holding strong, now 10 dpo.

Thanks @calimommy I’ll do one anyhow and see how it goes. Losing hope again due to cramps lol.

@Anon87 no way! Mine says 10th of November too haha! Will be interesting to see our due dates change!

@Newbie0818 if you get a strong positive then I would accept that result. It it was a barely-there-squinter, well I'd be slow to accept that from most tests tbh.

@JM0934 FEMS got me down as 10th November. No doubt some doc will change that along the way lol

So the tests I bought for the morning were just Tesco cheapie ones, and I’ve just been on the online reviews and every single one says “do not use, they give false positives every time” pretty much. Now I’m so annoyed as I want to use FMU but don’t want to be crushed like all those ladies 😑

@Juno231 well after my question yesterday and your very helpful suggestion I now have a second day of very dark OPK so maybe this is the real deal after all 😂🙈🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I give up. What will be will be! Ignorance is bliss, I wish I wasn’t so involved in my cycle. It makes the days very long waiting for things to happen!!

I take back the cm comment, it’s back 😐 and my nipples are ON FIRE 🔥🔥 why is the female body so complicated haha

Enjoying a nice glass or two of wine tonight, just in case I can't next week 🤣

@Anon87 when are you due then? Must be around the same time as me! :) It’s just weird knowing that I’m pregnant but I don’t anything different at all