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Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?

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Babydancing2020 · 06/02/2020 21:38

Hi mums(to be)
Im new here,been trying to conceive since september 2019..
never thought it wud take longer than a month(how stupid of me,its because i got pregnant of my 1st child after one month)
Anyone else joining me on the waiting binch im due feb 12 or 13th.
Baby dust to all of u x

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Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 00:15

@Adrianoska shit hey everytime i think im doing the right thing to finally conceive i end up effing it up for my self and my cycle... i actually started to think i might be pregnant but after i read this and all my bfn i just think im gonna be late cuz of the vitaminsss:(
Im alrightt tho got sore boobss and crazy cramping on and off so will see. Done a digital test today said not pregnant so :s
How are you?

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Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 23:52

@Babydancing2020, I too couldn't believe it. I saw many reviews saying this before i started but I thought hey ho, it's just vitamins!
And then 6 days late... I was so certain its a baby!
I don't know what to recommend... I think it really probably doesn't matter much.... Also i think after a month or two things stabilise themselves.
I am now drinking Proceive Max and why wouldn't this make things longer if it has twice as much of everything? I don't know.

How are you doing? X

Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 23:37

I stopped taking them, I had BFN on two neg on frer last tuesday, so I stopped taking them on wed, and hoping the period comes.

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Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 23:00

@Adrianoska Bloooddyyy hell are u seriousssss!!!!
I started taking pregnacare now for a week!!!!! Does that mean my period is late because of that?? And what do u recommend? Shud i stop taking it or?

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Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 22:58

Not really trying as nearly 44 just not using any precautions xx it's why I'm not convinced I'm pregnant so gonna wait it out til 5th march if I dont get a period will see doctors :) x

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 22:51

I started taking them just before my period and my next period was 6 days late! It gave me terrible hope... And i even felt pregnant. On the second cycle I stopped midway and my pwriod arrived 3 days earlier! This cycle i switched to Proceive max...
It could have been pregnacare conception or my crazy mind messing up my body or maybe i am less regular than before...? Not sure.
So many women had the samw prób with pregnacare... I just couldn't believe it!
How long have you been trying for? X

Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 22:36

@Adrianoska how long did it prolong your cycle and when did they go back to normal? I only took the vits for 20days I think

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 22:19

@Babydancing2020 i am! 🙏🏻

Omg this is killing me

Now i am around 5 /6 days PO... And i am symptom spotting like a detective 😂 And I KNOW it is too early! Ffs.

Yes... Pregnacare did prolong my cycles, I couldn't believe it! But now i am taking Proceive max (nasty shit) and i think i am back to normal...

I think I can test on the 221st....but with my two other kids I didn't get a positive line until well aftet missed periods!

Good luck everyone ❤️

Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 21:56

I'm still 9 days late, no symptoms and cramping stopped 3 days ago,I stopped taking pregnacare vits after reading that they lengthened cycle, last BFN was tuesday 5 days late, decided not to take anymore tests and wait until AF comes if not by 5the March I will go to docs for blood test xx

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Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 21:33

Hey lovely ladiess,how are you all doing?
Any newss? Any symptomsss?
Af this hasnt showed its ugly face from my side and im 4 days late still bfn tests so will see...
Btw anyone interested in a TTC journey whatsapp group?

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Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 17:14

@Blackbelt, you are crazy, hahha! What did you expect? But. I get. It. 🤣 I am also 5 dpo and keep going to the bathroom with a massive urge to test 😂😂😂😂 might as well dip it in my cuppa though. Oh my god. Wd are losing it, girls. 💕💕💕😘

Blackbelt · 15/02/2020 16:22

How is everyone?
I was silly and took a test last night about 1am?! Couldnt sleep so I just did that 🙄
I was 5 DPO. Never done a test so early, then went on YouTube and looked at loads of line progression videos... seemed that most people start showing on the FRER at 11/12 DPO.
I've given up thinking I'm pregnant even though I still have time as such.

I've lost track of everyone's DPOs! @babydancing2020 can't believe you're 4 days late but nothing. Feel for you 💗

@user1469567046 so sorry, do something nice for yourself x

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Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 16:06

@user1469567046 wish I could think like that... im 4 days late still bfn

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calimommy · 15/02/2020 15:45

Sorry to hear that @user1469567046. I think what makes it worse is how crumby you feel from AF on top of the disappointment! A double hit. Xxx

user1469567046 · 15/02/2020 15:34

@Babydancing2020 thank you. I'm not feeling too bad about it, just trying to think of the positives. May not be feeling so positive a few months down the line! How are you?

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Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 13:01

Ughh big hugs to you may next month be the month!!

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user1469567046 · 15/02/2020 12:54

I'm out. Af has made her arrival known 😣

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Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 12:46

Heyy, how is everyone
I saw some nice tests congratsss!
I tried to take some time for myself which is even harder thn tracking everything..
Im currently 4 days late and no sign of a period...still cramping and still bfn!
Im starting to think tht maca powder screwed my cycle up....but i only took it for 4 days thn I stopped...

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Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 11:24

Any news? X

user1469567046 · 14/02/2020 20:42

@butterflylove81 congratulations!! I haven't tested yet I am desperately trying to hold out. Af is due tomorrow and I honestly don't know which way it is going to go. I will probably crumble tomorrow if nothing and test.

Adrianoska · 14/02/2020 18:13

@butterflylove81, congratulations 🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊

How happy you must be!
And tell me your statistics? Everything 😊 how long for did you try, what did you do, what did you eat and what did drink 😂 how old a are you and everything ❤️❤️❤️

Well done!
Happy valentines day 💕

butterflylove81 · 14/02/2020 17:35

Oh babydancing I'm so sorry I've just read your post my heart goes out to you stay positive and don't give up faith but may be try to relax each month maybe don't track and have fun and just see xxxx

butterflylove81 · 14/02/2020 17:33

Hey xxx

I got these this morning have cried all day because I thought I wasn't this month

Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?
user1469567046 · 12/02/2020 18:56

@Babydancing2020 big bloody hugs to you! It is crap when it's another month and another bfn. Not a bad idea to delete all the trackers etc as I agree with you it is just torture.

Blackbelt · 12/02/2020 17:48

@courtney229

Sorry to hear that :(
I also hate saying out loud. Glad you seem in ok spirits to try again next month x