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TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

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Donnat89 · 04/02/2020 19:24

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

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Figey · 24/02/2020 20:31

@chickoletta How exciting! Xx

@Sammyclaire22 I never spotted until I was TTC either! Twisted games my body is playing on me to keep me in a constant state of uncertainty!!

It seems a few of us are testing in the morning (less than 12 hours to go, yes I’m crazy and do count down in hours not days!) so wishing us all BFPs for the morning.

Sammyclaire22 · 24/02/2020 20:22

Congratulations @chickoletta!!! Lovely news!

LexieBB · 24/02/2020 18:39

@chickoletta looks promising!!! ☺️🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

I’m 14dpo today; AF due and I’m usually regular, so, we shall see. Will test tomorrow if nothing overnight. 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 17:43

@Chickoletta defo looks positive to me!
Congrats! Xxxx

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Chickoletta · 24/02/2020 17:34

AF due on Fri. I think I’m 12dpo.

Chickoletta · 24/02/2020 17:34

So this just happened. It is what I think it is, isn’t it...?

TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!
Mischali · 24/02/2020 15:43

Sorry about the bfns- it’s just cruel how pms symptoms then have to make things worse x

Sammyclaire22 · 24/02/2020 15:24

@donnat89 I never used to spot until ttc! It's so cruel. All the other symptoms I can put down to my imagination but bleeding i cant. I did have implantation bleeding with my dd too so the first few times I was crushed when I kept getting bfn then AF.
Your so right- coming on early is mentally a break from all this x

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 15:13

@Sammyclaire22 it's awful . I literally at this point just want AF to show , I would rather be early than late if I'm honest

I've never had spotting / implantation bleed and I don't generally spott before AF either .

I think our bodies just like to play tricks on us , my cramping / back ache has come back not bad but I can feel it so I do think AF will show right on time for me tomorrow xxxx

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Sammyclaire22 · 24/02/2020 15:10

It's so rubbish isn't it? @donnat89 plus I've just started spotting so my body just wants to mess with my head. I bet I come on early tomorrow or the day after! I would get excited about implantation but I've had it about 3 times at random points in my tww over the last 6 months.

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 13:46

@Sammyclaire22 I tested on FRER at 11DPO and also got a BFN so fairly certain I'm out too I'm just waiting for AF

The only reason I think I may still have a small chance is because my usual pre period cramps and back aches have pretty much gone but refuse to test unless AF is late

I've had very mild cramping and back ache this afternoon but comes and goes so I'm thinking AF is going to come tomorrow it's just a waiting game at the moment .

Doesn't help work is very quiet today so my mind is on over drive which isn't helpful x

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Sammyclaire22 · 24/02/2020 13:42

Well I caved this morning and tested with a frer. BFN. I was looking at my chart again and to decided it had put my ovulation later than I thought (I have a slow rise bbt) so I decided I was 11dpo. Can't say i was surprised but I had a touch of nausea (normal for me, psychological I'm sure) and didn't want to spend the whole day getting worked up about it! Will have to see what day AF arrives to see who was right!

How's everyone else doing this afternoon? I hate the waiting too Sad

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 11:18

@LRHR it's soo annoying when the app does that , mine has done that in the past and it really messes you up , I will say it has been very accurate last few months though.

Haha yes I think we all have crazy baby making brain at the moment .

I'm just on count down now and praying. AF doesn't show and I get a BFP . Whilst still fully expecting it to show

Just want this wait over with ! Xx

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LRHR · 24/02/2020 11:11

@Donnat89 yeah I'm not 100% sure cause my app just changed it if I've not come on. I'll give it until the end of the month.
Just got crazy baby making brain xxx

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 10:43

@LRHR awww that's crap , but didn't you say that you may not be due until next week ?

I would wait until AF shows before ruling your self completely out xxxx

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LRHR · 24/02/2020 10:41

Morning, I've just done a FRER and it's BFN 😭
I'm out this month, onto next xx

pineapple2 · 24/02/2020 07:28

@Kendrick12 looks positive to me too 😊 congratulations x

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Donnat89 · 24/02/2020 07:20

@Kendrick12 defo looks positive ! Congratulations! Xxxx

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bribri1997 · 24/02/2020 07:13

@Kendrick12 definitely positive congrats! Xx

Kendrick12 · 23/02/2020 23:25

Hi can I jump on this thread I've tested today at around 8/9 dpo and I got this test one this morning very faint then one this evening much darker. What do you all think? Thanks in advance. Xxx

TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!
TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!
TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!
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Donnat89 · 23/02/2020 22:46

@Sammyclaire22 yea I know how you feel I start of feeling really positive like this month is our month but the closer to AF I get the less optimistic I am . So I get it .

Oh well I will soon know and be able
To move on properly to next month .

One day to go tomorrow ! Xx

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Sammyclaire22 · 23/02/2020 20:27

@figey I had similar last month- a sudden pain that nearly shot me out of my seat and then spotting the rest of the day. Was sure it was Implantation but used loads od tests and nothing came of it Sad I think i had something similar when I did get pregnant with Dd (why i was so excited) so fingers crossed for you!

@donnat89 thanks, I know you are right but I've been feeling less optimistic about it all this month. I think getting my hopes up last month has made me more realistic this time- at least I've not spent a fortune on frer!
@london2386 I'm healthcare too- my own worst enemy! Although I've found doing my bbt has actually helped me as it's less guesswork and more factual/ less influenced by my hopes or feelings! Xx

Figey · 23/02/2020 20:12

@Donnat89 I hope the time passes quickly for you and I have fingers, toes, limbs all crossed for you!

@london2386 Hi! I know what you mean about over researching! I’m not in healthcare but I’ve read more medical journals than I’m sure many PGs have! All I can say is that you can be the most informed person on the planet, but your body will do whatever it wants to do! That said, I found reading gave me a sense of control in a situation I know it completely out of my hands!

London2386 · 23/02/2020 19:55

Hi,

Was reading the chat from the sideline and wanted to join.
Hi everyone.
Im early 30s TTC for 3 months.
currently only 1 day post ovulation.
I work in healthcare so have struggled trying not to over medicalise it all.

Hope everyone gets a BFP soon x

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Donnat89 · 23/02/2020 19:50

@Figey your welcome believe me I think we all get how rough this journey can get and people who are not TTC don't get the heart ache we go through month after month . And your right it is lonely and it drives you mad .

I'm defo holding out as I won't believe a BFN anyway until AF arrives after all we like to try to hold on to any chance we have Dont we ?

I'm in two minds , my AF like pains have gone away again and I get the same
Pains every month so defo a sign of AF but they keep going away when they should be getting worse . So I think maybe in with a chance then I remember I had a BFN just 2 days ago so think my body is just being mean !

Fingers crossed
You get your BFP XXX

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