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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

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Donnat89 · 04/02/2020 19:24

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

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Adrianoska · 02/03/2020 15:40

@Juno231, I was at my gp's with some different problem, almost not related to TTC. I mentioned to her we are trying for baby and that I am worried about being 36 etc. She just straight away ordered the blood tests, she didn't ask how long we have been TTC for.
Yes, I have 12yo and 6yo from a previous marriage. But I am desperate to have a baby with my husband, he is, too...
So yeah... I hope you are right @Juno231... I just worry about my age fertility
Hope you will get BFP soon! 😚

Bic501 · 02/03/2020 14:19

A January baby then @LRHR like me and my DS1!

Well I think I'm 14dpo, no af but have cramps and I took an ic which was BFN so now I just wish af would hurry up and come. I'm on CD32 today so if it doesn't come today that means my cycle is even longer 🙄.

Think I'm gonna try the CB ov tests this month xxx

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Donnat89 · 02/03/2020 14:16

@LRHR your dates are the same as
Mine . I'm 31 also TTC #3 .

This is my 11th cycle. I have a good feeling about this month for me but we will have to see .... I think this is due to the fact my
MIL saw a medium back in January who said there will be baby news in March . So we will see ! But other than that I do have a good feeling about it anyway as
Me and OH said before this that it will probably happen in March as that will be a year since the MC .

If fingers crossed for everyone xxx

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LRHR · 02/03/2020 13:57

@Juno231 @Donnat89 @Adrianoska
I'm just entering my FW ovulation due Sunday.
This is my 3rd cycle trying but had the Mirena removed 2nd Jan has anyone else had a Mirena?

I'm 29 TTC baby #3 fingers crossed it will happen for us all this month. I've got a feeling in my gut that April is when I will fall pregnant 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have no idea why xxx

Juno231 · 02/03/2020 12:28

@Adrianoska oh wow how did you wrangle fertility tests in cycle3 already? You already have a child as well right? I've got no doubt you'll get a DC2, you will just need to give it a bit more time - 4 cycles is still early days!

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Donnat89 · 02/03/2020 11:37

Good morning ladies ! Hope you are all well , so my fertile week starts today with ovulation predicted for Sunday , hoping to get plenty of baby dancing in this month .

I'm feeling quite positive this month if I'm honest and just hope this month is our month ! We can only hope

@Sammyclaire22 I'm really sorry to hear that hun xxxx

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Adrianoska · 02/03/2020 11:07

I hope it will happen this month for you 🙏☺️

I just called my doctors about my CD3 blood results. Apparently all normal...

Then I read this:www.nhs.uk/news/pregnancy-and-child/hormonal-fertility-tests-waste-time-and-money/

Hmmm...

Juno231 · 02/03/2020 10:59

@Adrianoska this is only cycle two so I know I'm being ridiculous! I'm 32 but have no kids and my mum entered early menopause at 31 so I have that hanging over my head too.

Adrianoska · 02/03/2020 10:56

@Juno231....it can be so frustrating.... I also have some sad thoughts. How long have you been TTC?
How old are you? I am 36 and only have been trying for 3-4 cycles but already just want to cry and cry...
Let's keep our fingers crossed that this month we all score!

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Juno231 · 02/03/2020 10:40

@Adrianoska same here - FW starting today and negative OPK. Will start DTD tomorrow so as not to tire OH out before ovulation day.

I'm feeling a bit more scared this month. I didn't expect it to work on the first try but if it doesn't this month then I think it will sink in that this could indeed take a very long time and it's so mentally draining. Plus I think I have a bit of a mental block about this being my last shot to have a 2020 baby - 2021feels so far away and it will mean I'll be a year older too as my bday is in Jan.

Adrianoska · 02/03/2020 10:13

Good morning everyone ❤️
How are we all today?

My fertile window apparently starts today, according to ovia. The ovulation sticks still negative...
We did BD last night and I will try to keep it to every other day instead of every day this cycle... I really so want to score this month...

Do you always feel optimistic? I sometimes feel like it's going to be BFN even before we start the work. Why is that? It is so sad...

I am taking this week off. The stress was piling up on me and my husband. I need to relax a bit I think...

Please let me know how are you all feeling 💕

60sPony · 01/03/2020 14:00

Thank you for the congratulations everyone. It was my first month trying for number two so have been very lucky... but it’s still early days.

@Sammyclaire22 sorry to hear about your chemical.

Juno231 · 01/03/2020 13:16

@chickoletta a chemical is a very early miscarriage - before 5 weeks. I guessed it's called that cause you'd only know by monitoring your hcg levels (which the pregnancy tests do) and it happens way before you'd have scans etc to confirm the miscarriage.

Chickoletta · 01/03/2020 12:14

Congratulations @60sPony. See you in the November birth club soon I hope. (There isn’t one yet, I’ve checked!)

Sorry to hear about the negative tests @Sammyclaire22. I’ve seen people talking about a ‘chemical’ before but am not sure what it means.

LRHR · 01/03/2020 11:45

@Sammyclaire22 so sorry to hear this 😩 fingers crossed for next month xxx

Adrianoska · 01/03/2020 11:32

@60sPony! Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

How long have you been trying for? Xxx

Bic501 · 01/03/2020 10:40

Aw @Sammyclaire22 😞 so sorry to hear xx

Sammyclaire22 · 01/03/2020 10:08

Hey guys looks like I'm here to stay- had negative tests today so assuming I've had a chemical. So shit!

Juno231 · 01/03/2020 08:46

@60sPony aah congrats!! And thank you for mentioning shettles - I was worried the other ladies on the thread thought I was bonkers! 😂

Bic501 · 01/03/2020 08:31

@60sPony that's amazing news! You will have plenty of love to go around! Biggest congrats xx

LRHR · 01/03/2020 08:27

@60sPony YEY!!!!
Awww I'm so so happy for you, congratulations ❤️❤️❤️

60sPony · 01/03/2020 07:40

Did a test this morning and it’s positive, I really had a feeling I was pregnant. Very exciting but also a bit of a mix of emotions - so life changing and can’t imagine loving another child like I love our son, though I know I will.
We vaguely used shettles to try for a girl this time and had sex about a week before ovulation but I actually think I ovulated earlier so who knows... guess will find out in November all being well 🤞🤞🤞

Hope all you other ladies are doing well!

Bic501 · 29/02/2020 21:51

Well thanks ladies and @Juno231 I have learnt something today lol

Juno231 · 29/02/2020 17:49

@Bic501 yeah the theory is that boy sperm weigh less as the Y chromosome is lighter so they're faster and therefore get to the egg first. Girl sperm live longer though so if you have sex earlier they have time to get to the egg and will still be around when the egg is released. I know a few people who have used the method to get the boy/girl combos they wanted but God knows how well it actually works.

I don't mind either way for the first one but would love to have one of each if possible.

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