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TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

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Donnat89 · 04/02/2020 19:24

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

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Donnat89 · 02/04/2020 13:45

I'm due to ovulate around the 7th but after my messed up cycle I'm not sure so gonna have to see what happens xx

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Skyla01 · 02/04/2020 13:03

@Adrianoska a late night won't do your chances any harm! The only thing I try and avoid in the TWW is caffeine & strenuous exercise. In reality I don't think there is much we can do just keep fingers crossed!

@Juno231 at least afternoon opks will be much easier to do from home! I stopped using opks before Xmas, and I feel more relaxed now. My cycles are very regular though so it's fairly easy for me to workout ovulation myself.

Adrianoska · 02/04/2020 09:21

@Juno231... 🤣 No, totally based in UK. Nottingham. Just stupid obviously hahaha!

Omg I was working till 4 am last night preparing lectures that I will be delivering toy students today from home. So nervous. And totally convinced myself that I destroyed chances of happy implantation because of not sleeping! Grrr

Juno231 · 02/04/2020 08:06

@Adrianoska does that mean you're not in the UK? Whereabouts are you then :)

Got my fingers crossed for you @littlepeas2 and @LRHR please do give us updates as I love hearing from the BFPs!

Today is my first day of FW so will be getting jiggy! OPKs are still saying nothing at all and man am I struggling not to pee for two hours /drink less, when drinking teas and coffees is all I do whilst working from home!

Adrianoska · 01/04/2020 22:55

Yes, keep us posted... 😘 I didn't get my BFP before (with my other two) until like 16dpo.
I am 4dpo today. In 5 minutes I will be 5 dpo 😁😁😁

Littlepeas2 · 01/04/2020 21:17

Thank you @Skyla01! I think if I had a symptom or 2 now I would feel a bit excited but because there’s absolutely nothing I really feel like I’m just on the wait for AF! I will keep you posted :)

Skyla01 · 01/04/2020 19:48

@Littlepeas2 cautiously excited for you! I hear many ladies don't get bfn until after AF is due. I hope you are one of them. You are very sensible to wait a few days before testing again. Good luck!

Littlepeas2 · 01/04/2020 18:52

Nope! Absolutely nothing. Still none of my usual AF symptoms but at the same time no pregnancy symptoms. I tested yesterday morning and it was BFN so if nothing by Friday I will test again although I was a day late yesterday so a positive should have really shown up! Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Please keep us updated!!

Hey @Donnat89 sending lots of luck your way for this week!!
@Adrianoska hopefully this is your month ❤️

@LRHR how are you feeling?

Skyla01 · 01/04/2020 17:33

@Littlepeas2 any news?

@Donnat89 exciting! How long until ovulation?

I'm at the start of the TWW. DTD last night for last "scheduled" time this cycle. Pretty sure I ovulated at the weekend but like to get in a last DTD just in case! Now just waiting and hoping AF stays away for once.

Donnat89 · 01/04/2020 10:06

Hi ladies just catching up on the chatter!

I'm entering FW so lots of DTD to do ! I hope everyone is ok and not going too mad being stuck in xxx

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Adrianoska · 01/04/2020 02:26

I am waiting and waiting already... Only 4dpo and did the best we could have this month 😁
I pray this is our lucky month.
I am so desperate ❤️

LRHR · 31/03/2020 16:26

@Littlepeas2 yeah I get that it's the not knowing that's worse 😩
Hopefully you'll know either way very soon ❤️

Littlepeas2 · 31/03/2020 16:08

@LRHR Ahhh at least the symptoms mean everything is going as it should be! So happy for you. I tested again this morning 15dpo (with Asda’s cheapie) big BFN. It’s driving me insane. I don’t even really mind if I’m out this month but just want AF to bloody hurry up! I’m still getting some CM. Not enough to be in my knickers (sorry for TMI) but enough to notice when I wipe. I’m wondering if I have this every month!

LRHR · 31/03/2020 14:04

@Bic501 yeah I'm with the midwife on the 9th. Just got to plod through these first few weeks.
It's my 3rd so I should know what to expect really with symptoms but it's weird how you forget (ds is 12, dd is 8) xxx

Skyla01 · 31/03/2020 13:21

@Bic501 we've also just ordered lots of booze! Should delivered soon. If AF shows up in a week or 2 I'll have lots to console myself with.

Bic501 · 31/03/2020 12:13

I'm clinging on to hope lol but these cramps are confirming that AF isn't far away I think.
Bit annoyed tho coz the last 2 months we defo DTD at the right times. But sure 
Just ordered lotsa wine on my Tesco order lol so there's always a silver lining eh?
Thanks @Skyla01 meant to say I went on to have 3 healthy pregnancies so please don't worry. Your body will know! Hope it happens soon 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for us all
@LRHR aw I'm not surprised with all that's going on on the world Aswell. It's a rather stressful time to be pregnant. Have you booked in with your midwife or anything yet? Very excited for you Grin

LRHR · 31/03/2020 11:49

Try again this afternoon @Bic501 @Littlepeas2 I got a negative in the morning and positive by the afternoon.
It's not over yet.
Morning sickness has hit like a ton of bricks and I'm really really emotional today, panicking about everything, convinced I'm having twins, convinced something will go wrong 😫
Oh the joys of hormones xxx

Skyla01 · 31/03/2020 10:38

@Bic501 sorry for you losses xx. We were planning to go to GP for tests after this cycle if no luck, but won't bother with that now until CV is over. I've just started doing some fertility yoga which has a bit of meditation / positive thinking in it so that should help my mindset.

Good luck to those at the end of the TWW- I hope AF stays away! Still time for a BFP to appear Smile

Adrianoska · 31/03/2020 00:23

@Skyla01 your body knows what yo do 😘 it is just waiting to score the goal ➕

Yes, girls, this waiting game is totally rubbish. I am 3dpo and losing my mind again.

Much love 🌸

Bic501 · 30/03/2020 23:28

@Littlepeas2 I hate the waiting! Drives me crazy! Wish there was some way to just know or not know like straight away 🙈 I have no patience

Littlepeas2 · 30/03/2020 22:30

@Bic501 I am also 14fpo! Did a test this morning BFN. I’m due on today but now wondering if I’ve calculated wrong. Isn’t this waiting game horrible!

Bic501 · 30/03/2020 20:43

@Donnat89 hope you got through yesterday ok, I always light a candle on the days where I lost my babies. Biggest hugs.

@LRHR how are you feeling any more symptoms?

@Skyla01 definitely not an irrational thought. Before I had my 1st I had a miscarriage and then it took me 14 months to conceive my DS and that was with the help of clomid and then he was a twin but I lost one. I remembering thinking the exact same thing as you. What if my body can't carry a baby, you try and put it out of your head but it's hard. Have you had any investigations or anything?

Hope everyone else is well.
I'm 14 dpo. Really thought this was my month but I don't a test on fri and sat and was bfn. Was a bit crampy yesterday, waiting on AF. I thought it was due today as I had positive opk on Monday 16th March but my apps say Wednesday for some reason 🤷🏼‍♀️

Xx

Skyla01 · 30/03/2020 13:10

@Adrianoska maybe it helps if you already have children- your body has been pregnant and knows what to do! I worry that my body just doesn't know how (an irrational thought I know). Also I would love to have several children, but the longer it takes for no.1 the more I think I could run out of time for others. I don't think your age will be playing too big a part at just 36- you have regular cycles and your body knows what to do! And your OH is young and sprightly which I'm sure will help too!

@Donnat89 good to see you're spirits and up and you're ready to take on a new cycle! Any idea how long until ovulation!

Donnat89 · 30/03/2020 12:34

Morning ladies hope you are all
Ok !

I've just finished AF so looking forward to this month x

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Adrianoska · 30/03/2020 11:30

I am 36 and soooooo worried I am too old 😞

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